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  • WoBuPaNi's Avatar
    411 posts since Feb '07
    • you see i know this gal for 4 yrs and after we graduated from sec sch we kept close contact with each other often smsing and going out for movies sometimes lunch/dinner frequently.. i found that i like her but i dunno what is she feeling towards me cos i was rejected once by another gal and dun wana get rejected again.. should i try telling her that i like her cos i dun wana get rejected again Crying or Very sad

  • Ito_^'s Avatar
    23,141 posts since Jul '04
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  • Patrik's Avatar
    14,369 posts since Jun '03
    • Rejection is better than regret.
      Faster make ur feelings known b4 she find a bf,and u will have tos tart a new thread here.

  • choco B's Avatar
    17,332 posts since Aug '02
    • You should try to find out “what is she feeling towards you” before “try telling her that i like her “

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    5,533 posts since Jun '06
  • firediviner's Avatar
    126 posts since Feb '07
  • WoBuPaNi's Avatar
    411 posts since Feb '07
  • CKeer's Avatar
    5,121 posts since May '06
    • Nike.
      You wanna live the rest of your life in regret den do nothing about it.
      Such opportunity doesn't appear like the Sun rising from the East and setting down in the West.
      Go for it and best of luck. Mr. Green

      Cheers.
      C.K

  • countdracula's Avatar
    783 posts since Apr '05
    • Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:
      i dun wana get rejected again was once bitten twice shy Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad

      then make yourself difficult to be rejected.....since you are a student, work hard to get good grades and then to a good career.....and you'll find no lack of suitors....

  • SumOne's Avatar
    6,472 posts since Jan '03
    • Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:
      you see i know this gal for 4 yrs and after we graduated from sec sch we kept close contact with each other often smsing and going out for movies sometimes lunch/dinner frequently.. i found that i like her but i dunno what is she feeling towards me cos i was rejected once by another gal and dun wana get rejected again.. should i try telling her that i like her cos i dun wana get rejected again Crying or Very sad

      Always good to let her know she's special to you, better to try and get over the hurt sooner. Instead of living a life of regret.

  • beavan's Avatar
    3,921 posts since May '04
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    2,141 posts since Dec '06
  • soulwinner's Avatar
    7,267 posts since Jan '07
    • It might turn out well as the girl already so close with you... It a fate since both of you still contacting even after sec gradaution... Furthermore, you mentioned that she even agreed to go out with you so her impression on you it not bad... So I suggest u hint her about you feeling for her.... Brother forget in about the past, look to the future.. Good luck Very Happy Very Happy

  • Phoenix Fudge
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    16,290 posts since Jan '04
    • Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:
      i dun wana get rejected again was once bitten twice shy Crying or Very sad Crying or Very sad

      Hey, a moment of rejection is better than a lifetime of regret.

      I did not tell the girl I like about my feelings for her. I lost touch with her for six years. I spent those six years in regret until it became a huge burden to bear.

      After I finally got back in touch with her, I told her of my feelings for her. While she ultimately rejected me, it was as though a huge burden had been lifted off my shoulders.

      I'm still friends with her, and I still do take her out to dinner once in a while. Embarassed

      So if you feel this girl is worth it, just go for it. Wink

  • ahkico's Avatar
    901 posts since May '04
    • Woah! U guys out her give gd advice!

      I agree.. You shld give it a try.. 10 years down the road.. U'll have no regret.. Coz @ least u tried, & u gotten an answer!

      If u din try.. U'll spend the rest of ur years thinking.. Rolling Eyes If i asked her after all.. Could it be now we are tog.. Married happily.. Or could it be we each lead our own life.. Blah blah blah..

      How hard u think, u'll never noe the answer.. Until u try!!!

      Test water 1st! Hmm.. Give her a surprise.. A card mayb to express out ur feeling.. Etc.. @ least gonna give bit of hint tat u're interested.. I think gals are more sensitve to hints! When she received ur signal.. She will give signs lik.. Yeah.. I'm interested.. Nope, i'm not..

      Well.. Dun give up.. Coz u'll never noe! If fate decreed u to be tog.. U'll after all.. Hmm.. If she reali doesn like u.. Some end up closer than jus normal friend!
      God bro.. God sis.. Okie okie.. Is abit lao tu.. But still quite a gd way of friendship!

      Jia you!

  • WoBuPaNi's Avatar
    411 posts since Feb '07
  • ifish's Avatar
    2,141 posts since Dec '06
    • Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:
      maybe a sms would do instead of a card?

      confessing by sms or msn is a big no no.

      just show how sincere u are.

  • Ito_^'s Avatar
    23,141 posts since Jul '04
    • Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:
      maybe a sms would do instead of a card?

      dun wan la. very insincere. Laughing

  • Sakuraflower's Avatar
    705 posts since Feb '06
    • Just do it... Think so much for what....

      ask her out...

      if u feel embarrassed, ask a group of pple u know out... then it will be like group outing....

      Jia you!!!

      Very Happy

  • walesa's Avatar
    1,848 posts since Apr '06
    • Originally posted by WoBuPaNi:
      maybe a sms would do instead of a card?

      Personally, I see no difference between a sms and a card - neither beats telling her face-to-face... Wink

  • crofty's Avatar
    1,911 posts since Dec '06
  • WoBuPaNi's Avatar
    411 posts since Feb '07
    • face to face like quite hard le.. im one of shy ones.. i very seldom talk alot but when im wif her i talk alot le feels very at ease but to bring the topic up is hard Embarassed Embarassed

  • FBI's Avatar
    8,470 posts since Nov '03
    • maintain this friendship and wait until the appropriate time and confess to her!

      of course on that day dress nicely

  • WoBuPaNi's Avatar
    411 posts since Feb '07
    • i smsed her last night telling her how i felt towards her.. still waiting for her reply.. ill update if i get any replies..

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