07 Oct, 02:10AM in sunny Singapore!
Home Chit Chat

Best way to ask for a date

Subscribe to Best way to ask for a date 32 post(s)

Please 登入 or 进行注册 to reply.
  • Joe.tan81's Avatar
    2 posts since Jun '08
    • Just like to know if anyone has ideas of what are the ways which could be uses in singapore, or as for ladys, in which way would you feel appropriate and comfortable as for you to say yes? As for guys , what is you do think us guys should or shoulden't consider doing?

  • EMERGENCY AMBULANCE
    QX179R's Avatar
    10,096 posts since Feb '08
    • Originally posted by Joe.tan81:

      Just like to know if anyone has ideas of what are the ways which could be uses in singapore, or as for ladys, in which way would you feel appropriate and comfortable as for you to say yes? As for guys , what is you do think us guys should or shoulden't consider doing?

      firstly must check your spelling & use of language then you can ask the lady if she's available for a meal..

  • Daisuke-kun's Avatar
    11,805 posts since Jun '07
    • eh                                   

      tonight free or not?

      i treat u  dinner

  • bb
    rlsh07's Avatar
    10,677 posts since Jun '07
    • Originally posted by Joe.tan81:

      Just like to know if anyone has ideas of what are the ways which could be uses in singapore, or as for ladys, in which way would you feel appropriate and comfortable as for you to say yes? As for guys , what is you do think us guys should or shoulden't consider doing?

      call the person to have a bit conservation then ask her, be precise abt the date n time though n meet at where?

  • ALL YOUR BASES ARE BELONG TO ME
    newcomer's Avatar
    6,651 posts since Apr '05
    • Originally posted by rlsh07:

      call the person to have a bit conservation then ask her, be precise abt the date n time though n meet at where?


      so wrong.

       

      just suggest something like, "hey i'd like to have dinner or go out with you some time." wait for a response before giving date.

       

      n nv go out on weekends for the first few dates.

  • bb
    rlsh07's Avatar
    10,677 posts since Jun '07
    • Originally posted by newcomer:


      so wrong.

       

      just suggest something like, "hey i'd like to have dinner or go out with you some time." wait for a response before giving date.

       

      n nv go out on weekends for the first few dates.


      oh well... different approachs for different people though

  • purpledragon84's Avatar
    1,840 posts since Sep '07
    • Originally posted by QX179R:

      firstly must check your spelling & use of language then you can ask the lady if she's available for a meal..

      LOL!

      eh anw.. just ask? it's just a dinner, don't try to put too much meaning and hope into it.. because the lady probably doesn't read too much into it either..

      take it as a chance to know her better, and not as a do-or-die situation yah..

      EDITED: pls at least do some reservations at the restaurant.. which means u gonna ask her in advance and not last minute.. make the dinner smooth going.. cheers!

      Edited by purpledragon84 04 Jun `08, 9:19PM
  • 16/f/lonely's Avatar
    3,327 posts since Apr '08
  • Je'taime
    fairlady_xoxo's Avatar
    10,901 posts since Jan '07
  • purpledragon84's Avatar
    1,840 posts since Sep '07
    • Originally posted by 16/f/lonely:

      So simple.

      Ask in exact words: Is it the 4th today?

      HAHAHAHA.! i was SO tempted to type that too! i wanted to type "what's the date today?"

  • 16/f/lonely's Avatar
    3,327 posts since Apr '08
    • Originally posted by fairlady_xoxo:

      Just say...i think its been a while since i last saw you...wanna catch a movie?not like to.


      No thank you.Laughing

  • playboy_1985's Avatar
    1,970 posts since Jan '04
    • Originally posted by newcomer:


      so wrong.

       

      just suggest something like, "hey i'd like to have dinner or go out with you some time." wait for a response before giving date.

       

      n nv go out on weekends for the first few dates.

      why cannot go out on first few date on weekends ?

  • Typically Singaporean way :P
    Cowbaycowboo's Avatar
    1,541 posts since Feb '08
    • walau...macham in 70s movies liddat.....jus go straight and ask lar..."Free to see show at yangtze?" or wat sad.pngsad.png

      Edited by Cowbaycowboo 04 Jun `08, 10:24PM
  • ALL YOUR BASES ARE BELONG TO ME
    newcomer's Avatar
    6,651 posts since Apr '05
    • Originally posted by playboy_1985:

      why cannot go out on first few date on weekends ?


      bcuz dates on wkends (unless u guys r already comfortable wif ewach other) r more like... official dates.

      wkdays better bcuz it's more casual and afterwork thing. the mood will be more relaxed n u won't worry much abt looking stupid n wat not.

  • Joe.tan81's Avatar
    2 posts since Jun '08
    • what-if?.... the person are in sales line work, and weekend would be out of the question.

  • ChiBet's Avatar
    924 posts since Apr '08
  • 我为花狂
    ChoCoChips's Avatar
    6,246 posts since Jun '06
  • xavier1979's Avatar
    6,273 posts since Aug '02
  • ALL YOUR BASES ARE BELONG TO ME
    newcomer's Avatar
    6,651 posts since Apr '05
    • Originally posted by Joe.tan81:

      what-if?.... the person are in sales line work, and weekend would be out of the question.


      if the person likes you he/she will make time for u no matter what. if not, y dun u just move one

  • JerryYan's Avatar
    1,566 posts since Sep '07
  • playboy_1985's Avatar
    1,970 posts since Jan '04
  • Devil1976's Avatar
    38,056 posts since May '00
    • You people need some good advices from an experienced guy like me man...

       

      "Jiak ba buay?"

  • Daisuke-kun's Avatar
    11,805 posts since Jun '07
    • Originally posted by Devil1976:

      You people need some good advices from an experienced guy like me man...

       

      "Jiak ba buay?"

      u pick up ah lians & old aunties lar u icon_lol.gif

  • Lorry`'s Avatar
    4,992 posts since Oct '05
    • Depends.... How often do you all meet up?

      If didn't see each other for some time, use fairlady's

      If see pretty often, then just ask casually.

      Eg. Watching Movie
      "Hey, this movie looks good, what do you think?" (i think so too)
      "Let's watch together some day shall we?" (alrite)
      "How bout this Friday night? Is that okay for you?" (that'd be perfect)

      else
      (i dont think so....)
      "Oh, which appeals better to you then? / Any movies that caught your eyes recently?"
      (this one looks better)
      "Looks good, you sure have fine taste in movies. Shall we catch this this week?"
      (yes/no)

      If kept rejecting all the way, then too bad la. She doesnt want to watch with you. icon_lol.gif

  • Lorry`'s Avatar
    4,992 posts since Oct '05
Please 登入 or 进行注册 to reply.