I have seen this phenomenon so many times. When a good looking guys attempts to touch a lady, the lady not only does not reject his advances but even seems to be indulged in it. And no I dun mean touch all over the body.....only touch the hand here probably examining her nail polish stuffs like that.

And whenever even an ugly guy tries to get close to the same lady, she seems like she got her defense mechanism up and will do anything to make sure he doesnt touch her....so realistics de huh?

handsome guys simply just need to charm a girl wif looks and abit of sweet-talking here n thr and wait until the girl confess.

Average or ugly guys needs to work their ass off trying to impress the girls and in the end, 50% of the time still fail.

Why?

I thought the looks doesnt matter for a guy? My friends say guy looks are still important lei...like good-looking then the girl will automatically give him chance. ugly, the girl will either blast him off or take a very long time to see his heart.

anyway, handsome guys or cute guys better? There is a very big difference between them.

bullshit la.....he has been in mlm for like 3 yrs.......if he had went back to sch, he probably grad with degree alrdy. 3 yrs no results. wadya think? somemore all the goddamn companies he join are mlm selling those electronic tee-lam, magnetic bracelets, or wadsoever online rebate points.

tats kinda cool, i admire him alot. Amen.

oh woah! THANKS! no need scared kena chased out malu le

Those of you who study in NUS/NTU, i know the schools always organize seminars like e.g. science professors from overseas coming to the school to give talk. May I know whether outsiders are allowed to go in and listen?

Thanks.

........but i found out he went to join another stupid mlm company. :( :( :(

Anybody went backpacking in europe before? Im thinking of doing it this nov...so being inexperienced and abit afraid to venture into backpacking alone because of the uncertainties, I probably would like to seek people who have been there done that or maybe even form a small group who are interested in going.

I feel i have been alive for 22yrs old and I have been never been able to explore the world. We live in only 1 tiny dot called singapore and there is such a HUGE world out there. My take is if I dun take the chance to explore the world at least for once, I probably would be too busy particpating in the rat race busy lifestyle in future.

CMon, anybody who got experiences in this?

sibei cham la....23yrs old already still my friend think MLM can really make him rich...all those fancy luxurious cars the managers telling them are making him salivate. Dare to tell me somemore his manager earn 5 figure salary with only olevels cert. say only mah....i can tell everybody i earn 5 figure income. why huh?

The truth is right in front of them, there are so many failed examples lying wasted yet they cant see, they can only see the illusion of being rich in the shortest time possible. And to date, he still have not earned a single cent....ok actually I think he earned a few hundred bucks but only after selling quite a number of shitty products and devoted few months to it.

He was in the sunshine empire lor..............say here good there good everywhere good. All my advice have fallen on deaf ears. He can talk about the investments plans here and there the company give then wad so many have joined them to invest. But in the end, cant even answer how the company works internally. All the money go where he cant answer, only can answer " In few yrs u see, i drive big car make 5 figure salary" I only know that it takes hard work to achieve great things, not by doing MLM. In fact, NOBODY i know ever made it BIG in MLM. Those who did always failed to provide proof. cocksters....

Haiz....

Today I went for my first driving lesson! Having absolutely no experience and no wadsoever interests in cars, I was totally new to handling a car inside the CDC circuit. It was kinda mind-boggling!!! I was nervous because it was my first time using the steering wheel, handling the clutch and accelerator. Woah...my heart was kinda skipping every other beat because the stupid driver in front of me will sumtimes accidentally brake to a stop with no warning and I would brake too. Then the instructor will diao me.

 I was damn worried that I would over step too hard on the accelerator and it would be a michael schumacher gone drunk. How did u all feel first time actually controlling a vehicle? I think with a few more practice will be fine le.

Got a couple of scoldings from the instructor as I was confused about the clutch thingy.I heard from my aunt it was pretty normal and she herself learnt lots of colourful hokkien language from her instructor. I guess mine instructor got give face.

How can I help my friend who is currently in MLM? He's a stick in the mud who thinks of big houses, luxurious cars and he tinks he can simply get all of those by doing MLM. Thanks to those bastards, he has been completely brainwashed. He keep bringing up the fact the you know bill gates michael dell no degree also can become billionaire. But wtf...yea i know but at least they are selling things!!! Their invented products! These damn MLM are selling like magnetic bracelets, mattress and hell, they only get like 1% of the whole commission.

On top of that, the damn company doesnt give them a basic pay but kept promising them if their downlines blah blah blah sell alot, then they will get a commission from their downline and at a exponential rate, they can afford big cars and house liao.

But so far, he has been thr for like 3 yrs, and I dun see any damn results from him. In fact, he has thrown in money to buy the products for himself and selling them off. I think he has made an overall loss. But its okay to make a loss, but its a damn waste of time!!!! He's like keep wishing he can make it big in MLM. But seriously speaking, even a retard beanstalk can see it's all a SCAM!!!

I try to point this out to him but he always seems to get angry like Im trying to cut off his "fortune path". ARGHHH......of cos if he went for legal business like opening a company of his own, or what I will definitely support him but now hes like doing all these shitty things cos he doesnt believe in studies, he thinks its a waste of time though....but what he doesnt realise is the opportunities it brings, the knowledge...haiz. How? How to help him? The companies like to attract people like him who works for the company without offering a basic pay and they will actually put their heart and souls for the companies who treat them like dirt. Pls God, let these those companies burn in hell.

Guys! Anybody knows where to get a weighted-vest? It's a training vest with weights, I cant believe i cant find 1 in singapore!!

I have always thought of others before myself, quite sensitive to other people's feelings, so much so that I would do abit of self-sacrifice in order not to inconvenience others. I would try to put others before me, its okay since I thought i wouldnt die giving a little. I try to be the good man, prefering not to spread rumours, backstab or even hatch malicious plots against people or even my own enemies. I try to forgive my enemies, how foolish?

I do not even have the courage to step on a tiny poor ant as I thought the ant has its own families too, killing it I thought, was a grievous sin.

I always try to have the good guy image because I believe it was right to do so after witnessing in movies that evil never triumphs over good. Or does it?

That was once me.

Now no-action-talk-only colleagues gets the promotions, the boss recognition. Selfish people gets all the spoils. People who hides ulterior motives wins the battle. Enemies try to take you down before you can even greet them. This is reality.

I am a catholic. All the above I have experienced with my eyes have induced in me a feeling of "survival of the fittest". But that somehow collides with my christianity beliefs where I'm supposed to forgive my enemies, make peace, help others even at the expense of myself. I guess it's time to change my mindset.

God favours the bold. It's okay to do a little bad if the overall benefits exceeds the bad. It's okay to commit a little sin if you want to protect yourself from being hurt. It's okay to break the rules if everybody is doing the same, it is just that they dun tell u and nobody knows it. It's okay to stand in the shadows and strike before the enemies does, because its only a matter of time before they take you down.

I'm not as benevolent as jesus who prayed for God to forgive his enemies. I'm human, imperfect.

what are your views? As the saying goes, when a horse is kind, people rides on it. When a person is kind, people bullies him. Kingdoms and wars were won not by being compassion, but by being merciless to the people opposing your beliefs.

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Lee Myung-Bak made the pledge during an unscheduled meeting with reporters Sunday in the press room of his presidential office, the state news agency reported.

The president said he would donate his salary during his entire five-year term.

Lee is a former CEO of an engineering and construction company with a vast personal fortune. As mayor of Seoul from 2002 to 2004, Lee donated his salary to the children of street cleaners and firefighters.

"I promised to spend my whole salary earned as a public official on public welfare," Lee told reporters. "My plan to donate the presidential salary to the underprivileged is an extension of that promise."

The news agency did not say how much the president earns in a year.

During the election campaign, Lee, 66, vowed to donate his entire personal fortune of more than 30 billion won ($30.2 million) to the poor. He said at the time he would keep only a retirement house in Seoul.

I read about him, he worked as a garbage collector before studying hard for university and worked long hours at his job before being promotoed to the top guy at his company. read all about him at wikipedia. HE also replaced all his luxury cabinet chairs with normal utility furnitures.

BUT the question is    CAN OUR MINISTERS BE LIKE HIM??? pay themselves so high somemore....

budget $200. wants quick deal. pls msg me. thanks

how would u know when its the right time to confess to a girl? By sensing all the positive signals and mutual attractions? WHat kind of methods would u use? I prefer face to face..more sincere. but abit scared.

cmon, experts who have been thr and done that..pls do give useful advice.

How long is approximately the time to tell the person you like him/her? As in, the time taken to know each other.  Does it matter cos I seen many cases of couples getting together in such a short while, bringing their friend status up 1 level in order to get to know each other more.

What techniques would u advice to confess love? Place, settings.....and what happens if somehow u were rejected? haha...sorry guys n girls, im a noob at this. heh.

really? I thought a girl will start to distance herself away from you once you even start to show interest in her? I heard of several of my friends experiencing that. Does that only applies to guys she dun like and will only do so when they show interest? How

Dear all,

I would like help on this matter. Im a 21 yr old guy and does not have a relationship before. The reason being I'm very hesitant about relationship. Sometimes when the opportunity presents itself, I tend to think too much because im kinda the old fashioned type who would like to get married on the first relationship. I believe in the more sincere type of relationship rather than so-called "playing the field".

Girls tend not to believe that I never had a relationship before due to my fairly attractive appearance and sees me as those kind of guys who are "players". WHat I probably want from a relationship is probably what my parents had, they never had previous relationships before meeting each other, in a sense, they were each other's first. And yes, the marriage has been strong and thats what I look forward to in mine as well.

But the thing is I find it hard to show concern to the girl Im interested in. I tend to act nonchalant in front of her while I shower attention on girls Im not interested in. This is probably to dispel rumours. I really ought to kill myself for doing that.

Now there's this girl whom I feel a connection with, we both steal looks at each other and somehow we always ends up sitting beside each other during lunch with our clicks. But I have difficulty getting closer. WHy is it always you can't talk freely to the person you're interested in?

Now girls, if a guy you steal looks at, how would u expect him to approach u? How much would be too much?