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actually i find that topic starter is really quite stingy.
i'm lazy to read everything...but i'm assuming that TS likes the girl and is the one initiating dinners?
actually, a date is all about packaging and marketing your plans. wahaha! if, say, you think going to restaurants are really eating into you, and want a cheaper alternative. you can make going to a cheaper alternative sounds good too, you know?
you can say things like, "hey! you know, there's a really good chicken rice stall near somewhere. i've always wanted to try it! my friends say it's good! want to go eat together? i treat!!"
from a maybe 50 dollars dinner, it becomes like 10dollars maybe? you save 40 bucks!
or if you really don't even want to treat a kopitiam dinner, then say like, "hey are you craving for some chicken rice? i heard from my friends that there's this really good chicken rice at this stall. the chicken is damn smooth and the rice super fragrant!! (describe until it's very irresistable.) want try want try?? go together tonight?"
just avoid saying you will pay or something. then if the girl suddenly insist that you pay, you can say, "ohhh...ok! then you pay for the drinks ok?"
like that la. most of the times, the girl will be ok one. drinks still cheaper than rice ma. then she earn a chicken rice, and you earn her time with you.
tsk. use some creativity and brain la! don't always blame girls for being thick skinned or what. you want to ask a girl out, and if she isn't really interested in you, you have to use some plans and ideas to make her feel that you are worth her time. also, a girl can only get showered and treated like a princess in her youth... so i think it's perfectly alright for a girl to be choosy and haughty when she is young. better than everything also "okok!" "i pay i pay!" then guys wont' take her seriously and treat her for what she is really worth.
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wow! i really like this! brings back certain memories like how i used to think death must be a myth. hehe!
when my grandmother first talked about old age and death to me,
i said to her, "ah ma!!! you wait for me to grow until your age first, then we die together ok? then you won't be scared!"
she laughed and said that by the time i grew to her age, she would already not be in this world. then i kept insisting that there is no problem!! that time will stop just for the both of us. just because i said so.
wahaha.
being a kid was really great! everyone just play and laugh all day. i think it was time really well spent!
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hi. sorry. just my 2cents. i'm only 20 years old so maybe you will find my advice very noob.
i used to be really impatient and easily angered.
but one day, my father told me something which is, calmness and happiness and about every emotions we have, is a choice. he said that things or people can't really make us angry or happy. everything comes from within ourselves.
i find that especially true for happiness. but i understand too, that sometimes, people DO have the ability to make you upset or angry. but when you are feeling such things, quickly focus on inner peace.
i think many people continue building more and more anger or sadness because they keep thinking of it.
like you, you keep thinking why this woman so calm? why my husband never side with me? you are already coming up with more and more thoughts on why you should feel angry.
let me tell you, the past is the past. it has happened and is over. please focus on now. also, please do not think about revenge and trying to get the last line or something. it can only create more hate and it will be neverending. it is also meaningless.
let it go and it will not bother you anymore. or maybe try to see the funny side of this and laugh and get over it.
easier said than done. but i have done it, so i don't see why you can't do it too.
cheers!
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meet!!!!
i just met an online friend two days ago. hmm...he's my friend's friend, and we ended up always chatting with each other on msn after our friend intro us to each other on msn. but we met as a group...so maybe things were better? was really fun that day!!! never regret! after our outing, on msn, we both agreed that getting to finally meet each other was really great!
i think it worked out also because we didn't act/lie or whatever when we were only online friends? when we met, it was the same as when we were chatting online. just crap all the way! but this time with live action moves and facial expressions! haha.
don't be scared!
i met my boyfriend online too...well, sort of. and we've been together for nearly 7 years!!! :)
jia you!
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[that is so untrue..
I know most guys my age will prefer older gals then girls our own age.
TS how old?]
i'm 21 this year.
glad to know actually that some guys still appreciate older girls. haha. but i really doubt that such relationships can last? i will worry that the guy...when he grow up...he might not really like that girl anymore...maybe he will think things like, "the girl not so hot liao." or what. hahaha.
well, anyway, thanks for everyone's replies.
for me, currently, i don't really like older guys, although i used to like them a lot a lot. it's because i find it hard to be friends with older guys and expect them to hold no motives or intentions. they have all kinds of tricks up their sleeves and i'm just tired to be with them.
however, younger guys are more innocent in a way and really fun to hang out with. just having fun as friends... don't need to care about whether they have any bad motives or intentions. i used to don't like hanging out with younger guys too because i have the mentality that they are childish. but actually some have really mature thinkings that i am kinda impressed with. and recently i find that my older guy friends sometimes are soooo dots.
correct me if u think i'm wrong!
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i wonder if the guy will always feel like, "this girl is older than me...like an older sister..."
coz i'm a girl. when faced with guys younger than me, even if they are mature for their age, i cannot overcome the age barrier thingy. i would still feel like a big sister to them naturally. and would try to take care/protect them in my own ways.
isnt' it a strange feeling to have should an older girl and a younger guy be in a relationship together? i often wonder how it is like when i see my friends or cousins having younger boyfriends or older girlfriends.
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hey deathpit. i'm none of the above.
he sounds in love with his female friend.
girlfriend not important ma?
how would you feel if your partner has an opposite sex for a BEST friend?!
yaya..i'm living in the ice age. whatever.
if his female friend is truly a best friend, why is their relationship so fragile? best friends understand each other. i bicker my group of best friends all the time, but we don't block and delete each other. instead, we try to understand why the other party is in such a foul mood.
by the way, just curious. what if the girlfriend is a wife? would you guys say the same thing? wife not important? friends are forever?
nothing is forever, people.
and deathpit, quoting your "TS is stupid to have a 'ger bestfwen'.
i do not type like that. retarded one is you if you talk like some kind of twit.
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why are ppl actually behind her?!?!?!?!
she's obviously very shameless and crazy! why does she have sex with multiple ppl and give birth as though she's a cat?!!? her self-made family will be damn cool. all her children will look damn good and everyone have different fathers! they can form a group call "Maia's Children".
haiz. i wonder what's up with her thinking. last time i saw in the channel u's you hua zhi shuo, that she only wants children. she thinks there is no need for a husband.
i think she's very selfish!
the world may be becoming more open. majority of the ppl may think this is no big deal. but even if the whole world thinks this is common and should not be fussed over, IS THIS RIGHT?? having many ppl say it's ok doesn't make a wrong thing okay, OK?!?!?!
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