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    • Depression is a state where one cannot come to terms between the projected self and the reality one is in.

      I do not know if you are in a depression, because there is no definate term for 'depression'. However I believe there are others who may share similar situation with you. You may want to find these people and share about it?

      You can also consult more experienced people you trust and ask for their advice or comments.

      It is good you acknowledge you have an issue at the moment. It is far better than people who deny they are having problems. You are one step closer to solving your problems.

      =D

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    • The people who realise their dreams are the ones who persevere on despite setbacks, disbeliefs from people around them and never doubt themselves.

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    • Ello...

      Eh... I am interested, but I cannot confirm my status on that day. Can put me in TBC list?

      Thank you.

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Hey,

       

      How are you doing (Bar this issue)? Sry I skipped da WHOLE thing because I am lazy lol! Actually I skipped da whole thing because I don't really believe in letting you make sense of what happened through this medium. I have a friend who broke up with his GF as well and I did not offer him any advice. I just keep him company.


      Maybe you wanna go on some outing?

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Originally posted by themoment86:
      i knw it's not ez to get over and forget everything lo..HAIX but...we are the type that meet almost everyday when together...and it has become a habit..a routine...with him is very happy de...i knw he is indecisive..but it's really hard for mi to take it as nothing happen...without him my life is like missing something...and is in a form of missing alot of things...how i wish the day can pass fast fast...like that probably i will forget him faster...but i am still schooling ma...so after sch..suddenly like nth to do..quite weird lo...haix...

      so sorry that i hav to pour everything out here...but..i got no one to talk to...friends are so busy...all working...forum and blog is the onli place i can talk my heart out le...i feel so useless...such a weakling...=(

      Everyone feels useless & weak at times when they could not find a way to deal with certain issues. I too met many situations when I felt useless & weak. I do not understand your situation fully but I can more or less emphatize with you in a sense.

      It is good you want to talk it out. Maybe someday you will find your friends to talk more about it? I believe you would have wanted that. I know I would.

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    • Originally posted by laurence82:
      report to command centre immediately and receive your orders

      Mad

      Where is da command centre...?

      -___________________________________-

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Since 1991... My first gundam was an SD size samurai gundam... My latest is the MG Hi-Nu Gundam... Muah ha ha ha ha! Ok enuf on da luffing...

      My friend got it for me from Japan, so total + courier is $102.

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Wor? Even such subtle things abt Liu Bei betraying, you can also point it out? Wah... I used to assume Lu Bu is the most outright traitor.

      Come to think of it - EVERYBODY is betrayed and a betrayal in some sense.

      But... its my pt of view, so can take it wif pince or pounds of salt. Razz

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Originally posted by laurence82:
      u deserved to be spanked

      O_o No need spanking lah. Just coffee bean will do.

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • OK... thanks thanks for missing me and NOT missing me. I appreciate it. (& really no need to write Zheng... I dun wanna be indirect accomplice to doing mischief on private property OR vandalism on government property...) Laughing

      This half a year or more has been a good break for me to get my life going with church, work and personal life commitments. Another reason is that my PC is spoilt some time back (This 1 is borrowed 1...) and some more I want to control my urge to visit the forums (madly I might say) as I control my rage in Dota. (Dota is only a medium for me to get to know friends, NOT play to win & whine like baby)

      I do not know what has happened here during the time I took the sabbatical but I believed its still as fun as before (though I may have to define it as a DIFFERENT kind of fun now...) and ok... enough of the 'intelligent' talk...

      Fumoffu~~~

      Laughing Laughing Laughing

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Originally posted by laurence82:
      this is a mobilisation notice for bontakun

      not prata topic

      Mad Mad Mad

      What mobilisation? Confused Confused Confused

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Originally posted by Master -_-:
      i want to quit liao..too many xiao didis here la Laughing Laughing

      Wa... how can? Liddat leave da 'old' guards here very lonely. Muz fight on wif them!

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Pui! I haven't completed what I am here for on this planet, how can I die? You oso still surviving leh, Masta! How can I go juz liddat?

      Razz Laughing Mr. Green

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Thank you! Razz

      Being coearced by a friend to post here. So I still see some committed ppl (like our Queen here) and new people.

      Razz Laughing

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    • Originally posted by banzie:
      Yea Don't want a red palm on my face...

      How will you know they give you $5? Unless your way of asking/telling them seems to insinuate you are aggressive or horny or what.

      Talk to them nicely loh.

      However you really want to do it or not is up to you. I just suggesting a way for you to find out.

      Razz

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Originally posted by angel7030:
      Huh! got mini love meh, that means if i go for mini love dating, i need to wear mini stuff ya.

      Oreo mini cookie.

      image

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Originally posted by banzie:
      haha ok not disturbing lah... just curious...

      Then why not ask the girls themselves? You will be in for a pleasant surprise. Wink

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Originally posted by banzie:
      I mean recently I kept meeting lot of girls whom...

      ok quite a few... about 2-4 liao... quite pretty... we chat abit then they doing things like writing or adjusting something ... in front of me that time.. They bend in front of me... and I saw their cleverage... not very nice thing to say but ... I trying to ask here is does girls actually keep a look out of themselves?

      Or issit that girls does that to attract the attention of the guys? Do girls do that to attract attention of the guys?

      Whatever it is, its natural for gals to want to make themselves look attractive. Juz dat how much are they willing to show is from their own integrity and conscience.

      Guys too want to be attractive so they do whatever they can to attract attention from the gals side.

      As for you Banzie, appreciate the gals for who they are, not how much they reveal or act or what. If its really disturbing, tell them. I tink they will appreciate you for being frank and concerned abt them.

      Am I right, gals?

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Originally posted by CannyOng:
      Understand what are they trying to bring abt and comfortable with each other presence Wink

      Interesting point.

      I assume you can understand all, if not most, of what is spoken in the conversation from the opposite gender right?

      The thing is not all can easily or readily understand. Some even refuse to understand.

      So the thing here is NOT making one understand but to appreciate the effort put in trying to understand the conversation from the opposite gender.

      Am I close to what you are trying to say?

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    • I believe they can win the chumpions league or FA cup. Premier league title is also possible but it has to depend on how good Rafa rotate his squad well. Carling cup is anyone’s guess…

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    10,525 posts since Dec '03
    • Huh?

      No kidding?

      I rather have Kaka but......

      You sure Adriano? I rather MANU get Peter Crouch......