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Actually I don't know whether am I feeling the same way as others or am I just thinking too much.
When I was enlisted into army in tekong and then post out to unit, I was in the infantry unit you know they say hokkien peng and I check with my bmt friend and my junior as well, I see many of them posted to service side such as clerk, admin and more lucky want, they kena driver. That is the real lucky I mean, after ord, they got free license and I was like wtf, people stay out 8 - 5 and me stay in mon - fri, go through outfield, carry over 20kg route march for over 30km, xiong SOC and many more PT. I mean why people got such a comfort life in army and why I so xiong wan?
Do you guys have this smiliar grudges as I do?
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Originally posted by Dennee:
si-beh-jia-lat. better do something nia. but from my guess maybe she wants you to treat women in a good way. when your gf angry she is angry too but knn why i type my hair stand nbh.
There could be many guessing...I felt I doing do anything criminal which result in against the heaven or the worldly law why would I be afraid of? even if someone was knocking on my door in the dead of the night now, I wouldn't be scare. Why seeking medium? I seek myself....
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Originally posted by Dennee:
si-beh-jia-lat. better do something nia. but from my guess maybe she wants you to treat women in a good way. when your gf angry she is angry too but knn why i type my hair stand nbh.
There could be many guessing...I felt I doing do anything criminal which result in against the heaven or the worldly law why would I be afraid of? even if someone was knocking on my door in the dead of the night now, I wouldn't be scare. Why seeking medium? I seek myself....
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Originally posted by Dennee:
si-beh-jia-lat. better do something nia. but from my guess maybe she wants you to treat women in a good way. when your gf angry she is angry too but knn why i type my hair stand nbh.
There could be many guessing...I felt I doing do anything criminal which result in against the heaven or the worldly law why would I be afraid of? even if someone was knocking on my door in the dead of the night now, I wouldn't be scare. Why seeking medium? I seek myself....
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Eh, I don’t know whether is this the right forum to post but whatever it is, let the moderator direct me.
Actually I got this serious problem with me and I want to share, I sincerely hope I get a serious reply too…Here it goes, a couple of months back my girlfriend, myself and 3 of my friend were in a car spinning around S’pore as we were await for our midnight movies begin at 4am, It is about 12am so we have plenty of time.
1 of our friend suggest going to the old commando barracks to explore and find out if we see anything, the place is located somewhere near changi V. Even though, my gf felt a little relecutant, she felt she doesn’t want to trouble me by leavin my friend aside and be with her so she tag along.
When we get there nothing seems suspicious and we get out of the place after 10 mins.Then when I send her home in Jurong, I was riding a bike then, she claim that a lady in red was flying in the air and following us.
She was dressed in pure red like a cheongsam, a red colour high heel shoes, a strong red colour make up and a long red nails, basically everything was in red.Sometimes when we quarrel, she claim the lady in red was standing behind me and kept staring at me, thought I can’t see in my naked eyes but I believe what she says. The more my gf angry and shouting at me, the more fierce stare the lady in red is. I don’t know what her intention is but I seek advice on what I can do now or someone has a smiliar encounter.
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This morning when I was on my way to school, I committed an offence of riding against the flow of traffic as I take a short cut. After that, I was booked by LTA and I was feeling nervous and scare as it’s my first time offence, I pleaded with the officer but he give me a chance of not giving me demrit points but a fine instead, he doesn’t sound convincing and I wonder it is true when he say that? anybody had this smiliar encounter? cause I had friends who also happen the same thing like mine saying that the officer will give chance but in the end also follow the law.
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Originally posted by IR:
Its not about how you react, but what you perceive of the relationship. I think she might be looking for marriage, and didn't want to ruin her chances because many men are too narrow-minded.
If I was you, and intend to marry her...I'll not hestitate to propose since both of you are together for (quite some time). Hestitating further will make her even more insecure, which is the reason she hid the truth from you in the first place. Otherwise, it's prob wise not to waste your own, or her time since age waits for no man.
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Is she married before, or all along a single mum btw?
yah...she married before and even stay with her husband for her child sake. I dont know it at all till her mother secretly told me, I was shocked to the max...after that very angry for hiding from me.
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I don’t know is this the right forum to share my problem but I want to give it a shot.
In the early Feb, I went to the POSB ATM machine to draw my money and along the road, it was a single zig zag line, I stopped there for a few minutes, get off my motorcycle and went to queue up await for my turn. I did not realize that the person issuing fine is camping there and he got my plate number. When I return to my bike, I see him zoom off from the scene and I told myself I’m in deep shit.
A week later, 3 days after CNY, I receive a fine letter, it was $120 and a 3 deremit points. I make a trip down to TP in ubin and make an appeal but was unsuccessfully. My mother then suggest seeking help from the MP, I act accordingly and the MP also write an appeal letter for me, I told them that it’s partly my mistakes and asking them if it could reduce the amount of fine, and then I receive another letter from the TP saying that it is receiving attention and await for furthur instruction, that was in early March and recently the TP responded and say appeal not successfully, fine again $120.
Right now, I don’t know what to do. I’m now working as a part timer and await for school commencing in August and I’m independent, my parents don’t support me anymore. $120 is quite a sum huge to me. Friends tell me to paid up and fark off from it but $120….I’m still struggling. What can be done? Or anyone is having the same situation as me? plz advise…
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Originally posted by Midlusionz:
Then u live in this world for nothing, simple as that. Going into a r/s without knowing how much u know about the girl. Desperate is the word i will use it on u.
Then what you wan me to do now? Instead of giving me advises, I see all kind of insult? If let's say everyone here is my classmate, I confirm sure beaten to death am I right to say that?
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Originally posted by ceecookie:
I wonder how he can mistake a 30 year old for a 19's

Girls age of course hard to guess, in fact everybody else. Some lady may look chao lao but she is maybe onli 20+? If a female lecturer in ur school walks into your lecture room, she dress in tube, mini skirt and a high heel with a reborn long hair. You might think she is in her early 20s or mid? Maybe she is already married with 4 kids? a middle age woman? How to spot the different? Maybe there are some theory in it, perhaps you can show me?
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Wa, I slept for a night and just wake up not long, many insult came. All you guys think of sexual experiences? What make you all think I longed for it? A partner can be with you wherever you are without having to be alone, a great companion. To be honest, I didn’t even lay a finger on her. Trust me or not is on individual believe. Cheers…
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I got to know this girl ‘W’ last dec through a frienz of mine.
I visited her work place regularly and begin to send her home daily.
Everything goes smooth till one fateful day…I’m 21 years old and she told me she’s 19, there was one day when she came over to my place and bathing. I know I’m kind of rude, I took her wallet and begin to view everything, I look at her IC and what shock me was she is born in the year of 1978 which is 30 years old this year. I got extremely furious and confronted her over this, she say she’s afraid that I would mind her age which she have to hide the truth from me, unable to accept the truth, I decided to severe the ties with her, I know some of you would say age is not an issue, love her for who she is. I mean she’s just too old for me, can be my elder sister or aunt and what if my mother knows about it? It’s isn’t a good impression you see. Anyway, she doesn’t even look pretty as well, a thick eyebrown, rabbit tooth and a short curly hair, i guess you guys can imagine about it. Out of desperation for a partner, I force myself to be with her even though my type of girl isn’t her. I mean I try to develop some feelings for her, please don’t get me wrong.
Since then, she begin to look for job and I know there is a poh kim vcd shop which require people, I took her to filled up the application form, to my disappointment, she’s unable to fill up completely and doesn’t even know what’s race, religion and dialect means. And she admitted to me that her highest qualification is only pri 6, I mean drop out of pri 6. I try to leave her for low knowledge and IQ but she threaten me over the sms saying she would kill herself. She has been sticking me like an crazy girl. What should I do? continue to be with her? Please guide.
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