how many u can accept a partner who can not have bb wif u?
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sometimes she will blame herself if she know tat the guy wish for a bb or the parents wanna a grandchild...
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Jus Jie... why do you sound so sad..? Is there a problem you want to share?
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no...no....nothing...Originally posted by _Aaron_:Jus Jie... why do you sound so sad..? Is there a problem you want to share?
just wanna know....cos most couple will tok abt how many kids they wanna have in future. but never consider if they can't or if 1 of them can't.
then after tat when found our, and start blaming the partner.
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Now science so advanced..can ren kong shou yun mah...if really wan..den together try hard for it loh...if not..still can adopt kids..
more impt is the couple's mindset..what other people say doesn't really matter..things about must have baby to chuan zhong jie dai..and etc.. -
expensive.Originally posted by BufPuf:Now science so advanced..can ren kong shou yun mah...if really wan..den together try hard for it loh...if not..still can adopt kids..
more impt is the couple's mindset..what other people say doesn't really matter..things about must have baby to chuan zhong jie dai..and etc..
if my hubby no edu...no $ die loh -
Don't worry too much about the future, for who knows what lies just 1 minute ahead?
Make plans, but don't expect to follow your plan to the end half of the time.
In regards to worrying, i have my personal quote
"Why worry? Worrying is a good way for our mind to waste time, but other than that, it does absolutely nothing." -
how can you not accept if you love her?
love is unconditional isn't it?
if we can't have a child, there's always adoption if we wish to give our love to a baby
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most guys cannot. or their parents cannot loh....Originally posted by the Bear:how can you not accept if you love her?
love is unconditional isn't it?
if we can't have a child, there's always adoption if we wish to give our love to a baby
is like they wanna the best.
if they know u cannot. they also dun wanna.
maybe no wedding dinner loh -
i'm the one gettin' married.. not my parents!!
and.. this may come as a shock to some ladies.. most guys HATE that wedding dinner!
frankly, if my wife is agreeable, we're running away, "eloping" and spending the $$$ on a LONG honeymoon instead of a wedding dinner circus..
Originally posted by jusgal:most guys cannot. or their parents cannot loh....
is like they wanna the best.
if they know u cannot. they also dun wanna.
maybe no wedding dinner loh -
that actually sounds really fun!Originally posted by the Bear:i'm the one gettin' married.. not my parents!!
and.. this may come as a shock to some ladies.. most guys HATE that wedding dinner!
frankly, if my wife is agreeable, we're running away, "eloping" and spending the $$$ on a LONG honeymoon instead of a wedding dinner circus..
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Jusgal,
You are over worry, just tell your conditions to your husband to be before getting marry, if he can accept or spent some money you will be happliy ever after.
This is not for us to tell you we accept or not, becos we not gonna marry you.
We tell you we accept also doesn't represent your husband. -
i know...Originally posted by F.O.S:Jusgal,
You are over worry, just tell your conditions to your husband to be before getting marry, if he can accept or spent some money you will be happliy ever after.
This is not for us to tell you we accept or not, becos we not gonna marry you.
We tell you we accept also doesn't represent your husband.
just wanna see how many percentage of people can accept nia -
If I love the person I can, If I don't I need to love the kid to past time for the rest of my lifeOriginally posted by jusgal:i know...
just wanna see how many percentage of people can accept nia -
I accept... Its the love & feeling that counts not saying that when u have baby that r/s will be more close...
normally lotsa ppl will think that having baby will make his/her partner to stay with them forever.....
In fact they are wrong , as u can see lotsa shotgun marriage all ended up divorce , why bother to get married in the first place.... -
maybeOriginally posted by pysche:I accept... Its the love & feeling that counts not saying that when u have baby that r/s will be more close...
normally lotsa ppl will think that having baby will make his/her partner to stay with them forever.....
In fact they are wrong , as u can see lotsa shotgun marriage all ended up divorce , why bother to get married in the first place.... -
maybe for the older generation..got kids very impt..yang er fang lao..but now got children means more $$..
i got this friend who say once instead of giving birth to a child..when there are so many children in 3rd world country that yuo can adopt and give them a better life..
my mum's friend..quite old couple..duno is cannot conceive or wad..also adopt a child from China..and it's a ger somemore~