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• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 09:43

  If someone woos u or like u tell u tat he/she can break off with their current to be with u.......
  
  will u accept or rejects?
  will u worry that he or she will do the same to u again in future?
  
  please share....& thanks
  
  
• icyprincess

  14 Jan 05, 09:44

  wun accept him so soon, have to see how he fares first
  
  too fast to jump from one relationship to another...
  
  i.c.y
• Danisdead101times

  14 Jan 05, 09:45

  eh...i will not be with her lor...if she can do this to her current sure she will do this to me in future...so i rather choose not to than regret in future~
• poon cho tang

  14 Jan 05, 09:47

  Originally posted by Danisdead101times:

  eh...i will not be with her lor...if she can do this to her current sure she will do this to me in future...so i rather choose not to than regret in future~

  agree
• BufPuf

  14 Jan 05, 09:55

  would rather he end everything
  before commiting to me..
  
  don't wan 1 day he realise that we both not suitable..and blame me for spoiling things between he and his ex
  
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 10:08

  Originally posted by Danisdead101times:

  eh...i will not be with her lor...if she can do this to her current sure she will do this to me in future...so i rather choose not to than regret in future~

  i think so too...but if she or he accept...and kenna the same fate...
  it's their own choice. all i can say is good luck and take care
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 10:09

  Originally posted by BufPuf:

  would rather he end everything
  before commiting to me..
  
  don't wan 1 day he realise that we both not suitable..and blame me for spoiling things between he and his ex
  

  true true....
  but if is me....i won't trust him totally...cos there be a chance he do the same to me mah
• blowfish

  14 Jan 05, 10:12

  some said don put in 100% or else the one get hurt is yrself.
  
  BUll SHIT! If u still holding back something , that is not LOVE.
  
  
• p1ll0w

  14 Jan 05, 10:13

  
  
  Actually, there's no standard answers...too many variables ...case by case basis. But, in general best to wait for a while in case that some unfinished business that have to be settled.
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 10:13

  Originally posted by blowfish:

  some said don put in 100% or else the one get hurt is yrself.
  
  BUll SHIT! If u still holding back something , that is not LOVE.
  
  

  when u in love....u keep giving more and more even though u keep telling urself not to give so much....but yet cannot help giving more
• Danisdead101times

  14 Jan 05, 10:14

  Originally posted by jusgal:

  i think so too...but if she or he accept...and kenna the same fate...
  it's their own choice. all i can say is good luck and take care

  yeap~ have to face the consequences yourself lor~
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 10:15

  Originally posted by Danisdead101times:

  yeap~ have to face the consequences yourself lor~

  ya lor....
• MeoW_MeoW

  14 Jan 05, 10:17

  sometimes you have to take risks... but if you doubt him now, in your heart you know its not right to proceed... so in my view, let time tell... dun rush into it...
  
  
• F.O.S

  14 Jan 05, 10:21

  ask him or her to settle his or her problems and probation for 3 months before getting along with him or her
• p1ll0w

  14 Jan 05, 10:21

  In any r/s ....follow your heart but listen to the brain
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 10:30

  the topic not refer to me hor....
  
  just ask in general nia
• $e@wEeD

  14 Jan 05, 10:42

  hmm...maybe u shud go find out abt his past relation? maybe u the dunno how many gals after he did tat also? hmm...check properly 1st...
• Patrik

  14 Jan 05, 10:56

  NEVER
• FireIce

  14 Jan 05, 10:59

  i dun mind.....
  
  not relli scared he will do the same to me in future
  but if it happens, then it's fair...
  i mean.....he has the right to choose....
  oso means he's not the one for me.....
  
  i more scared the ex-gf buey gam wan come and make trouble.....which i experienced b4......
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 11:06

  Originally posted by $e@wEeD:

  hmm...maybe u shud go find out abt his past relation? maybe u the dunno how many gals after he did tat also? hmm...check properly 1st...

  should tell tat to tat ger...
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 11:08

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  i dun mind.....
  
  not relli scared he will do the same to me in future
  but if it happens, then it's fair...
  i mean.....he has the right to choose....
  oso means he's not the one for me.....
  
  i more scared the ex-gf buey gam wan come and make trouble.....which i experienced b4......

  FI so cool...
  
  FI can tell us wat happen bo? how she make trouble with u?
  
• Otingocni

  14 Jan 05, 11:09

  Originally posted by jusgal:
  [b]If someone woos u or like u tell u tat he/she can break off with their current to be with u.......
  
  will u accept or rejects?
  will u worry that he or she will do the same to u again in future?
  
  please share....& thanks
  
  [/b]

  First of all...
  
  You like the person or not?
  
  Dont like why accept?
  
  If you like, but not love, why accept?
• FireIce

  14 Jan 05, 11:12

  Originally posted by jusgal:

  FI so cool...
  
  FI can tell us wat happen bo? how she make trouble with u?
  

  hahah.....it's ok lah......she finally xiang tong le after some time......
  i oso dun bother liao....so not worth mentioning......
  
  most impt is the couple mus be able to stay strong and not let it affect the rship.....
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 11:19

  Originally posted by Otingocni:

  First of all...
  
  You like the person or not?
  
  Dont like why accept?
  
  If you like, but not love, why accept?

  not me lah....refer to someone else case
• jusgal

  14 Jan 05, 11:20

  Originally posted by FireIce:

  hahah.....it's ok lah......she finally xiang tong le after some time......
  i oso dun bother liao....so not worth mentioning......
  
  most impt is the couple mus be able to stay strong and not let it affect the rship.....

  i agrees....
  but u with him still? just curious nia....
  
  pls dun ban me