Can you be frens with someone you just broke up wif?
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just wondering...I cannot
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cannot
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Its almost impossible.
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he said why have to do until so drastic lor..why cannot continue to be frens and then go out together...
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impossible but it can be done.
but the hurt is just as bad that both of you can't be the same as you used to be before. -
dats wat i think too...too many memories, mebbe later on we can be frens but now, there is just too much pain...Originally posted by Patrik:Its almost impossible.
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yea...dats wat saddened me. We used to be able to hang out and be comfortable with each other. But now...we can't even look at each other without me looking away to hide the tearsOriginally posted by 798:impossible but it can be done.
but the hurt is just as bad that both of you can't be the same as you used to be before.
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cannot....the more u love the person. the harder it isOriginally posted by icyprincess:just wondering...I cannot
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cannot. need to move on.
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yea...too much pain le. and he thinks i m being too emotional, he doesn't understand...Originally posted by jusgal:cannot....the more u love the person. the harder it is
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It depends.
I tried..but the stupid mistakes repeated. So cannot..
It also depends on how hurt you are. If everytime i see him i wana cry, then gone case liao. -
yea, dats wat i told him...so we can both just concentrate on our studies now and forget the pain...Originally posted by blowfish:cannot. need to move on.
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tat good....Originally posted by icyprincess:yea, dats wat i told him...so we can both just concentrate on our studies now and forget the pain...
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be strong...live strong -
yup... i hv a few exbf now gdfrens
but in my life there r 2 guys.. i will nvr wanna c again. -
i m struggling to be strong...but there are times when i still cry and miss being with him...Originally posted by jusgal:tat good....
be strong...live strong
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wa..why? cos they are very nasty to you?Originally posted by BabyLover:yup... i hv a few exbf now gdfrens but in my life there r 2 guys.. i will nvr wanna c again.
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Haiz... ren yin bu shi er jie he, ren yin ren shi er feng shuo..
From not knowing lead to together... from knowing lead to separate..
Sometimes we can know a person so much till we can be like stranger...
We can hug kiss talk about anything under the sky one day.. then one day in the same bus stop we can be like stranger... so sad.. -
some of my ex are still friends with me. but there are also 2 tat impossible. one is my first bf the other is tat guy loh
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Originally posted by blowfish:Haiz... ren yin bu shi er jie he, ren yin ren shi er feng shuo..
From not knowing lead to together... from knowing lead to separate..
Sometimes we can know a person so much till we can be like stranger...
We can hug kiss talk about anything under the sky one day.. then one day in the same bus stop we can be like stranger... so sad..
so true...
I really dun wan to do this, I would really like to still be frens...but the way things are going now, no longer possible le...
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Advise to u jusgal..
zhen xi jian you, meng xiang wei lai, fang kai guo qu.
cherish the present, hope for the future, release the past. -
ok actually make it one.. cos one of them ardy met abt 3yrs ago in a fren's bday chalet..thou seen but we wun be frensOriginally posted by icyprincess:wa..why? cos they are very nasty to you?
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got advice for me?Originally posted by blowfish:Advise to u jusgal..
zhen xi jian you, meng xiang wei lai, fang kai guo qu.
cherish the present, hope for the future, release the past.
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nope if the decision is not mutual... then its too painful
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I think he said he respects my decision, I dunno this is because he doesn't care, but he said he understands, tho he said if I miss him someday, he is just a call away...Originally posted by foxwalk:nope if the decision is not mutual... then its too painful
Maybe 2 or 3 years later ba, I will be brave enuff to remember all the memories again...
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u find another one who is better worth ur effortsOriginally posted by icyprincess:I think he said he respects my decision, I dunno this is because he doesn't care, but he said he understands, tho he said if I miss him someday, he is just a call away...
Maybe 2 or 3 years later ba, I will be brave enuff to remember all the memories again...
i.c.y