why guys dun like to be ask abt his whereabout?
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from gf & even wife.
dun they have the rights to know??
why guys get mad when being ask where are u now ?
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so, where r u now?Originally posted by jusgal:from gf & even wife.
dun they have the rights to know??
why guys get mad when being ask where are u now ? 
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at office...
can u answer my question....on why?
why can't a gf ask....or why can't a wife ask abt her guy's whereabout??? -
dun like to answer means he's not where he's supposed to be lor
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but if cannot ask...
why be together....
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then that is the question you should be asking
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I think, once in awhile should be ok.
But if often, irritating sia.
And I think it depends on the tone when asking too. sometimes it might seem as if they're suspicious or something.
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i dont like my mum to know where i am...sometimes, its best not to let them noe....
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you don't trust him do you?
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i think it depends on how often you ask and what he's doing then.
I mean...
Scenario 1:Not Okay
Girl: Hello Where Are You?
Guy: At pub with my friends. I told you liao what this morning.
Girl: Yeah but you didnt tell me which pub
Guy: (Meanwhile background the guys teasing him WAA WAAH KENNA SPOT CHECK!) aiya at Boat Quay lah. I call you when I get home.
Girl: WHICH PUB AT BOAT QUAY!??!!
Guy: .... I CALL YOU WHEN I GET HOME.
Phone rings off.
Smacks of insecuregirlfriend lah. People need space with their friends. If you are out with your girlfriends, I'd go MAD if my guy calls m incessantly.
Scenario 2: Not Okay
Girl: Hello Where Are You?
Guy: Working OT. Call u later. rushing project.
(1 hour later)
Girl: Hello... where are you?
guy: I TOLD YOU! WORKING OT! I CALL U tonight!!!
(2 hours later)
Girl: Hello.. where are you?
Guy: (probably hair all pulled out now and premature baldness) .... this is the answering machine. please leave ur message after the beep.
Scenarior 3: I think its OK
Girl: Eh.. hello where are you?
Guy: Working OT/Drinking with friends
Girl: Oh like this ah? Me at isetan now shopping. You free to meet or not later?
Guy: not free leh. Call you tonight?
Girl: okie~ see who reach home first who call who la! bye bye!
Scenario 4: Worst of the Worst!
Girl: Hello.. where are you?
Guy: Drinking with friends at pub. Thought I told you this morning?
Girl: oh yeah forgot.
Guy: Why?
Girl: Nothing. Just call to ask where you are.
Guy: .....
Nothing call for what?! I mean if call got SOME REASON still make sense. If bo dai bo ji, just call.... waste telephone money only!!! I mean once or twice is okay but if anyone subjected to this type of ..... survelliance... will end up choked to death. -
i feel i need to know
cos of the dangerous mode of transportation he takes and oso his work nature
at least i know he got from point A to point B in one piece
it's a consensus by both parties.... -
/color]Originally posted by jusgal:at office...
can u answer my question....on why?
[color=red][why can't a gf ask....or why can't a wife ask abt her guy's whereabout???
this sort of question, u have to ask him.
we can give u answer, but that will only fit our r/s.
ur r/s may be different.
if HE doesn't like to be ask abt his whereabout, then YOU ned to ask urself if u r willing to accept this in ur r/s .... if he's the rite man for u. -
dunno. no gf. hahaha
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don't need a tracer to be put on me!!!
old enough liao, need freedom, not a dog on chains
just my opinion!!! -
Dat's a gd 1! But serious, i dun mind ppl ask my whereabout! At least tis show dat they'r concern for u, they care abt u...but if too much of dat is tiring too....Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:i think it depends on how often you ask and what he's doing then.
I mean...
Scenario 1:Not Okay
Girl: Hello Where Are You?
Guy: At pub with my friends. I told you liao what this morning.
Girl: Yeah but you didnt tell me which pub
Guy: (Meanwhile background the guys teasing him WAA WAAH KENNA SPOT CHECK!) aiya at Boat Quay lah. I call you when I get home.
Girl: WHICH PUB AT BOAT QUAY!??!!
Guy: .... I CALL YOU WHEN I GET HOME.
Phone rings off.
Smacks of insecuregirlfriend lah. People need space with their friends. If you are out with your girlfriends, I'd go MAD if my guy calls m incessantly.
Scenario 2: Not Okay
Girl: Hello Where Are You?
Guy: Working OT. Call u later. rushing project.
(1 hour later)
Girl: Hello... where are you?
guy: I TOLD YOU! WORKING OT! I CALL U tonight!!!
(2 hours later)
Girl: Hello.. where are you?
Guy: (probably hair all pulled out now and premature baldness) .... this is the answering machine. please leave ur message after the beep.
Scenarior 3: I think its OK
Girl: Eh.. hello where are you?
Guy: Working OT/Drinking with friends
Girl: Oh like this ah? Me at isetan now shopping. You free to meet or not later?
Guy: not free leh. Call you tonight?
Girl: okie~ see who reach home first who call who la! bye bye!
Scenario 4: Worst of the Worst!
Girl: Hello.. where are you?
Guy: Drinking with friends at pub. Thought I told you this morning?
Girl: oh yeah forgot.
Guy: Why?
Girl: Nothing. Just call to ask where you are.
Guy: .....
Nothing call for what?! I mean if call got SOME REASON still make sense. If bo dai bo ji, just call.... waste telephone money only!!! I mean once or twice is okay but if anyone subjected to this type of ..... survelliance... will end up choked to death.
So where am i?
Ai li wan lou! -
hahaha
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reminds them of their boss questioning them?Originally posted by jusgal:from gf & even wife.
dun they have the rights to know??
why guys get mad when being ask where are u now ? -
Seriously... I dun have this prob, because I am at home most of the timeOriginally posted by jusgal:from gf & even wife.
dun they have the rights to know??
why guys get mad when being ask where are u now ?
Unless, when I am outside, then tell her where I am at... -
just asked once nia
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the guy wan to give suprise mah...wahahahahah..maybe go out flirt ... =X MAYBE~!
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to be safe, better dont askOriginally posted by jusgal:just asked once nia -
Shouldn't have a problem unless you call like every 5 mins or something.
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Some guys will start to feel suspicous that their gal is tracking them... Or worst have employed a honey-trapperOriginally posted by InnoHippo:to be safe, better dont ask -
i dont mind....people asking me
sometimes i even tell when they didnt ask..
yeah most dont like .not only guys ..guys also like that -
That's crazy man....Originally posted by elindra:Shouldn't have a problem unless you call like every 5 mins or something.