why guys dun like to be ask abt his whereabout?
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then ill call police..lol..Originally posted by elindra:Shouldn't have a problem unless you call like every 5 mins or something. -
i guess its ok to be asked and its ok to ask.....
concern mah....unless ur tone is suspicious or rude....
but not like u ask every 5 minutes....
As to answering ur question: y guys dun like to be asked.....
its coz guys like to be free and easy with their own life and dun like ppl too domineering and sticky....
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Usually we share the plans what we prob be doing the next day before zzzing...and then inform if there's big change of plans...
Never have the problem of "being spot checked"....then again I always have understanding gfs....
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it's not e asking...it's just the asking continously whenever we might be.... repeating over again n again n again.... we already have one mother to do that...thanks...
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preciselyOriginally posted by cindtan29:its coz guys like to be free and easy with their own life and dun like ppl too domineering and sticky.... -
Girl: Hello, r u free to talk now?
Guy: actually am rushing my project or sleeping..
Girl: Oh, i c.. Am i disturbing u?
Guy: Kinda of..
Girl : ic, hey u know what i see ^&*(^*&%*^6898 carry on talking...
Guy:
Girl: Why u not talking? Am i disturbing you?
Guy: YES!!!
I call this type of person "THE DEAF" -
Originally posted by InnoHippo:precisely
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Originally posted by blowfish:Girl: Hello, r u free to talk now?
Guy: actually am rushing my project or sleeping..
Girl: Oh, i c.. Am i disturbing u?
Guy: Kinda of..
Girl : ic, hey u know what i see ^&*(^*&%*^6898 carry on talking...
Guy:
Girl: Why u not talking? Am i disturbing you?
Guy: YES!!!
I call this type of person "THE DEAF"
..i have a friend which is like tat (frd only, not bf)
She called me at 8am on a sunday morning.....(sunday morning!!! rest day and i slept at 5am cos of majong session)
its true life acct of the whole conversation as above....... -
I think asking is fine as long as you don't project these
1. Insecurity that he is with ANYONE else besides you.
2. No Life - like without him going out with you, you got NOTHING ELSE better to do.
3. Overwhelming Dependency - refer to Point 2. Like he's your life support system. Need to know or else will DIE.
4. overwhelming 'CONCERN'- he took care of himself well enough before you entered his life right? So don't need to WORRY every other day or anything lah. TRUST HIM! If he can't get to POint A to POint B safely, then how can he keep you safe??
5. Plain Nosiness - ask for sake of asking.
I mean seriously! Thing is... whether you are a girl or a guy, if someone just KEEPS ON CALLING AND CALLING and ASKING and ASKING... it just plain gets on anyone's nerves.
I mean, not talking about once or twice an entire long evening. BUt more than that plus SMSing.. SMSing... SMSing...
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mai sian siao lah, i also mada b4 and i dare say the most dangerous stuff i also do b4 liao.....and i still alive and kicking. most important is to be constantly aware of what is happening ard u and keep your hands near to your body at anytime and never walk directly infront or behind your buddy or teammate cos u cannot cover each other's side or a$$ and never stand infront of the door when knocking in on someone....think he should also know lah...Originally posted by FireIce:i feel i need to know
cos of the dangerous mode of transportation he takes and oso his work nature
at least i know he got from point A to point B in one piece
it's a consensus by both parties.... -
Hmm..If ask one time, it's still ok...meaning she care for you..if more than once, she smell a rat..hahahaOriginally posted by jusgal:from gf & even wife.
dun they have the rights to know??
why guys get mad when being ask where are u now ?
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well asked only one. cos his sis looking for him
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Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:
i think it depends on how often you ask and what he's doing then.
I mean...
Scenario 1:Not Okay
Girl: Hello Where Are You?
Guy: At pub with my friends. I told you liao what this morning.
Girl: Yeah but you didnt tell me which pub
Guy: (Meanwhile background the guys teasing him WAA WAAH KENNA SPOT CHECK!) aiya at Boat Quay lah. I call you when I get home.
Girl: WHICH PUB AT BOAT QUAY!??!!
Guy: .... I CALL YOU WHEN I GET HOME.
Phone rings off.
Smacks of insecuregirlfriend lah. People need space with their friends. If you are out with your girlfriends, I'd go MAD if my guy calls m incessantly.
[b]My Comment: Break la / Ditch her laScenario 2:
Not Okay
Girl: Hello Where Are You?
Guy: Working OT. Call u later. rushing project.
(1 hour later)
Girl: Hello... where are you?
guy: I TOLD YOU! WORKING OT! I CALL U tonight!!!
(2 hours later)
Girl: Hello.. where are you?
Guy: (probably hair all pulled out now and premature baldness) .... this is the answering machine. please leave ur message after the beep.
My Comment: Ditch her la... i think she'll become worse after the wedding
Scenarior 3: I think its OK
Girl: Eh.. hello where are you?
Guy: Working OT/Drinking with friends
Girl: Oh like this ah? Me at isetan now shopping. You free to meet or not later?
Guy: not free leh. Call you tonight?
Girl: okie~ see who reach home first who call who la! bye bye!
My Comment: i think tis is okay too
Scenario 4: Worst of the Worst!
Girl: Hello.. where are you?
Guy: Drinking with friends at pub. Thought I told you this morning?
Girl: oh yeah forgot.
Guy: Why?
Girl: Nothing. Just call to ask where you are.
Guy: .....
My Comment: Abort the relationship immediately!
Nothing call for what?! I mean if call got SOME REASON still make sense. If bo dai bo ji, just call.... waste telephone money only!!! I mean once or twice is okay but if anyone subjected to this type of ..... survelliance... will end up choked to death.[/b] -
I think it is because the gal becomes very nagging
