How many will....
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accept ur partner as who he is or she is without asking them to change this change tat???
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I wouldn't call it change but rather to compromise..Originally posted by jusgal:accept ur partner as who he is or she is without asking them to change this change tat???
but this is from both side..
if he dun like me to be late..i try my best not to..stuff like this..and not to change into a totally different person from what he was before..just to become the person i wan.. -
i mean ask one party to change. not the compromise typeOriginally posted by BufPuf:I wouldn't call it change but rather to compromise..
but this is from both side..
if he dun like me to be late..i try my best not to..stuff like this..and not to change into a totally different person from what he was before..just to become the person i wan.. -
if i going to accept him as it is..Originally posted by jusgal:i mean ask one party to change. not the compromise type
without asking him to change..(given that i don't like some habits of him)
i dun think i will...
that's y i call it compromise..not change..hahaah -
i will learn to adapt. iwill give-and-take. i will compromise.Originally posted by jusgal:accept ur partner as who he is or she is without asking them to change this change tat???
BUT to change? hey, i am who i am. love me or leave me. -
me think so to...Originally posted by Fuqua:i will learn to adapt. iwill give-and-take. i will compromise.
BUT to change? hey, i am who i am. love me or leave me.
so dun anyone try to change me
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who changed ur avatar har?Originally posted by jusgal:me think so to...
so dun anyone try to change me 
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totally not changing just becoz u r who u r?
even u noe that such particular habits yr other partner dun like..? -
u cannot say change la...in a relation it need two to stay together...so compromise is the rite word...if he or she don like ur certain way try to change a bit lo or at least don do it in front of her lo...imagine if u want it tis way and she/he wan it another way how? of cos u cant insist her to change but maybe can try to compronise?
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u cannot say change la...in a relation it need two to stay together...so compromise is the rite word...if he or she don like ur certain way try to change a bit lo or at least don do it in front of her lo...imagine if u want it tis way and she/he wan it another way how? of cos u cant insist her to change but maybe can try to compronise?
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wish he understand
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for me is my gal wan me do tis do tat and i tried to change the way she wan...but stm when i said her to do tis do tat for me she don wan...haiz...unfair...so stm i jus hack care also.
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I think I got ask this question once in the forum...but for me, there is a limit lor...little things I can compromise but if it comes to my life principle and personality, dun think I will...rather let it go and find someone who will accept me for the person I really am...
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u love them for who they r.....wait a min....i cannot tell lies for one week...hmm...change that to ...... loving them for their faults..... loving one cos of their merits is easy...can u love their faults too?
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change is something that will happen
whether expect or not, or want of not,
or whether I accept status quo or not.
so I only hope that we BOTH change as similar rates
and grow at the same pace ba. -
in a relationship..it's about
2 person work together to become better people..
i heard this phrase something like..making an imperfect person perfect or something like that..
i seen people complaining about sacrificing and changing for the other half after they broke off..what i think is as long as u think the chance is worth it..that will make the both of u closer..both side can try to compromise..and reach a common understanding -
Yea, to love someone also means accepting his/her shortcomings as well and to accept him/her for who he/she is.
Once I get very comfortable with someone, despite her looks, I will start to look for her character and inner being, which will attract me in the long run.