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very true...it will kinda cheapen the emotions involved, plus wun be fair to the other person..Originally posted by harryryan:just dun get attached for e sake of being attached....u might hurt urself that way.
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e most pityful is e guy or gal u accepted on e rebound....sort of hard to accept u r nothing more like a backup or temporary boy/gal fren till the original one comes back or a better one comes along....Originally posted by icyprincess:very true...it will kinda cheapen the emotions involved, plus wun be fair to the other person..
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Hmm...I won't subject anyone to this...before I really go into a r/s, I will be sure of my feelings...I won't go into it just for the sake of attachment or for the sake of getting rid of loneliness...Originally posted by harryryan:e most pityful is e guy or gal u accepted on e rebound....sort of hard to accept u r nothing more like a backup or temporary boy/gal fren till the original one comes back or a better one comes along....
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i really put in a lot to the rs. but he just suddenly say he no longer wanna be in committment.
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yea it is nobody's fault. both of you just have different expectations out of the relationship.Originally posted by jusgal:i really put in a lot to the rs. but he just suddenly say he no longer wanna be in committment.
say is not my fault.
So instead of looking for someone to blame, rather spend the time towards healing your heart...
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i gt 1 friend also like that
oversea r/ship..den the guy just sudden say he wan to commit to something more stable - his studies and career..
den my frd very sad...after what she did so much for him..always fly over..buy him stuff..lose her V to him and stuff..
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It is not your fault. It is HIS fault and his biggest shortcoming for not being able to commit when it comes to relationship. See what I mean? If a guy finds it hard to commit to you, give him the boot lady!Originally posted by jusgal:i really put in a lot to the rs. but he just suddenly say he no longer wanna be in committment.
say is not my fault.
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maybe he is just confused...give him sometime to think about it...after which if he still says so than u move on.... not saying u should wait for him but it's kind of a pity for a relationship to end like that.Originally posted by jusgal:i really put in a lot to the rs. but he just suddenly say he no longer wanna be in committment.
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Originally posted by BufPuf:
Married liao still think of the ex-bf at times? I kinda feel sorry for the current bf
i gt 1 friend also like that
oversea r/ship..den the guy just sudden say he wan to commit to something more stable - his studies and career..
den my frd very sad...after what she did so much for him..always fly over..buy him stuff..lose her V to him and stuff..
but she got happy ending..she got this bf[b]..although she still think abt her ex at times and they getting married soon .[/b] -
Me SAME THOUGHTS...Originally posted by jusgal:ya i am single again but no that happy to be single once again.
anyones same thoughts?
Think you're not happy to be single too..?? <
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sorry?Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Married liao still think of the ex-bf at times? I kinda feel sorry for the current bf
they are one of the happiest couple i know..
the guy knew abt it..and the ger was touch and happy that this current guy came into the life...
if the previous r/ship meant so much to her..and she lied that she don't think of the ex bf at all...isn't that more funni -
i wish to marry one day mah
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Be quick but steady... Esp if you want childrenOriginally posted by jusgal:i wish to marry one day mah -
Cheer up lah!!!Originally posted by jusgal:i wish to marry one day mah
Let life takes its course.
Fate will guide u to the one for U!!!
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yea, like what I have always said, when the time is right, the special one will come along...Originally posted by Kenashi:Cheer up lah!!!
Let life takes its course.
Fate will guide u to the one for U!!!
meanwhile just do whatever you can to be a better person and enjoy your singlehood!
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he asked me not to waitOriginally posted by harryryan:maybe he is just confused...give him sometime to think about it...after which if he still says so than u move on.... not saying u should wait for him but it's kind of a pity for a relationship to end like that. -
*sigh* just ask jusgal out and stop beating around the bushOriginally posted by I_am_PeTe_Parker:i wish to marry one day too 
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Originally posted by Bloop...:*sigh* just ask jusgal out and stop beating around the bush
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I've come to realize that most men use the excuses 'sorry i am not ready for a r/s ", "sorry i cannot commit" etc which are excuses..actually they meant "sorry i can't commit to you. You are not suitable for me."
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that's what I think too, and what caused me to give my ex a kick into the gutter (well, not literally) and walked off, never looking back ever since. I found out he has been asking ppl for my news a few days ago...beats me why he is doing that nowOriginally posted by browniebaobao:I've come to realize that most men use the excuses 'sorry i am not ready for a r/s ", "sorry i cannot commit" etc which are excuses..actually they meant "sorry i can't commit to you. You are not suitable for me."
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Hence, the moral of the story...
If you (guy) want to be a robot or a tin man, go marry a factory, but never touch the studying machine! S.H.I.N. -
than ask him go n die...kiddingOriginally posted by jusgal:he asked me not to wait obviously he has decided to move on n so shall u...show him u can lead a good life without him -
good for u...i see alot of such cases around me n in e end most end up more or less worse than before they started.Originally posted by icyprincess:Hmm...I won't subject anyone to this...before I really go into a r/s, I will be sure of my feelings...I won't go into it just for the sake of attachment or for the sake of getting rid of loneliness...
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maybe trying to patch things up with u???Originally posted by icyprincess:that's what I think too, and what caused me to give my ex a kick into the gutter (well, not literally) and walked off, never looking back ever since. I found out he has been asking ppl for my news a few days ago...beats me why he is doing that now
i.c.y or ploting his revenge so he can kick u into e gutter too...