tot of mi exOriginally posted by Kenashi:Wow, what caused u to be so sentimential....
*pat*pat*Originally posted by jusgal:tot of mi ex
thanks pal...Originally posted by DevilAngel77:*pat*pat*
Learn to keep the good memories and move on! There's other good memories waiting to be made!Originally posted by jusgal:tot of mi ex
i miss him a lot siaOriginally posted by :Learn to keep the good memories and move on! There's other good memories waiting to be made!
welcome anytimeOriginally posted by jusgal:thanks pal...
there are guys nice to me but when i try to accept them.
i find it tough cos they have expectation of me to forget all the past and love them.
at beginning stage can only be liking and not love so fast rite?
i know....so i told him...i rather remains as friends first.Originally posted by DevilAngel77:welcome anytime
well, a relationship is not one that is easily forgotten.. esp if it is still quite recent one... wounds are left after a breakup.. memories (both good and bad) are still residing in both your heart and mind... you surely need time to get over things.. whether it is a long period or a short period of time..
i understand guys would not like their gf to be still thinking of their ex when they are with them.. similarly it is the same for girls.. but they have to be reasonable..
if you tell me 6 months after a breakup and having got attached with someone else and you are still missing tt ex, then you may just need more time before going on with this relationship...
but if you tell me 6 days after a breakup and you got attached with someone else and you are expected to forget tt ex, either you are trying a rebound, or you are not seriously in love with the ex last time, or you are basically asking for the impossible... you definitely need time to get over the past..
if they expect you to be able to get over ur past immediately, most probably they either dun really care for your feelings/emotions or they never really fall in love before....
everything in life is almost progressively... progressing from strangers to acquaintance.. progressing from friends to lovers, progressing from like to love.. there are cases where things dun go progressively.. like love at first sight... it does not mean it will not work out.. but that there will be more need of understand and tolerance to make the relationship work out..
with understanding, you have a better insight as to how the relationship will turn out.. without understanding, you are taking a gamble in life...
so sit back and take a review.. are them worthwhile?
tts good.. take the slow and steady path and understand each other better first!Originally posted by jusgal:i know....so i told him...i rather remains as friends first.
told him he also need time to understand me more
but mi still scare...of being hurt.Originally posted by DevilAngel77:tts good.. take the slow and steady path and understand each other better first!
being hurt is part of falling in love..Originally posted by jusgal:but mi still scare...of being hurt.
yes i wanna be love and dote on...
but i appriecate if he respect mi more.
i dun wanna be too intimate yet.
also i need to study for my last paper which is a very very tough one.
if i keep going out , my studies suffered.
i can't even answer mi teacher.
answers all wrong
i would like to concentrate on my studies....Originally posted by DevilAngel77:being hurt is part of falling in love..
it's part of the package.. most ppl will receive the full package...
who dun want to be loved, doted n pampered?
if he really love you, ask him to respect your decision..
getting intimate too soon is not good. cos it brings the relationship into a different level too soon... you may not be ready for it at all yet...
never affect ur studies due to a relationship...
if need to, have a talk n stop it until after ur exams...
if he really care and love you, he should respect you and your decision..
if not, then u better re-think on your decision...
good choice!! somemore you are working and studying.. things are already tough for you.. so why add on more worries at the moment?Originally posted by jusgal:i would like to concentrate on my studies....