Wd u be frens wif e other party who broke up with u?

• kitoshizc

  6 Oct 04, 10:59

  Jus wondering.. if you break up in a relationship, normally would you still be friends with the other party??
• Si Geena

  6 Oct 04, 11:05

  I try to be... I find it strange that people who have been that close before can be as foreign as strangers again.
  
  I suppose it depends on the kind of break-up you had. If it was an amicable one where both sides understand the mutual differences, its not that difficult to be just friends. If it was a more tumultuous one... that would require more mature understanding.
  
  Then again, I comprehend that not everyone has as much skin as me. The feeling of awkwardness will reside.
• Estee

  6 Oct 04, 11:33

  Originally posted by Si Geena:

  I try to be... I find it strange that people who have been that close before can be as foreign as strangers again.
  
  I suppose it depends on the kind of break-up you had. If it was an amicable one where both sides understand the mutual differences, its not that difficult to be just friends. If it was a more tumultuous one... that would require more mature understanding.
  
  Then again, I comprehend that not everyone has as much skin as me. The feeling of awkwardness will reside.

  yah takes time.....
• jusgal

  6 Oct 04, 12:05

  Originally posted by kitoshizc:

  Jus wondering.. if you break up in a relationship, normally would you still be friends with the other party??

  i am still friends with a few of my ex.
  depends on the other parties.
  
  or unless he really hurt mi too too much..then i won't