OK, this is kinda morbid, imagining one's own funeral.
But I ever pondered this before and would like to open this for discussion.
So imagine you're departed and your spirit is standing right there, attending your own funeral. What one or two characteristics would you like to be remembered for? What would you like your family / friends to say about you?
To start the ball rolling, I'd like them to say that I was intelligent and lived life with a passion.
Aiyah... only one or two characteristics... otherwise, I can also add compassionate, a good cook / cross-stitcher, great music lover, yada yada yada. hehe!
One friend actually wrote once that I was 'naughty by nature, nice by choice', which is like oh so true! hahaha!
I've already told some colleagues that they're not allowed to say bad things at my funeral or else I will return to haunt them! hahaha!