This has got to be the saddest X'mas :'(
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I always thought that friendships never die..
but my 13 years of frenship with my buddy is coming to an end. already not on talking terms..
somtimes we tend to take friends for granted. i really feel that she treats me like shoes. -
C'est la vie.
It is a brand new year, it doesn't matter if he or you made any silly mistakes because that is how we exists in this world. -
inside, i don't think we ever stop crying.Originally posted by kopiosatu:nice to hear that
now i dunno whether to cry or be happy
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heheheh i wasn't referring to a failed relationship...Originally posted by HENG@:inside, i don't think we ever stop crying.
i was referring to how i'm supposed to react, knowing that i'm going to be sailing off to help out with the disaster. -
how about for old times sake you open your legs for him to shag one last time? won't that make the memory of you that much sweeter?
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I dont knw what to say...
Just hope that more wonderful friends will be coming your way after the departure of this lousy friend -
i was referring to that and a lot of other things. eh.......... u're sailing off to help with the disaster? well its a gallant gesture. good luck n take care!Originally posted by kopiosatu:heheheh i wasn't referring to a failed relationship...
i was referring to how i'm supposed to react, knowing that i'm going to be sailing off to help out with the disaster. -
What a pusssy
Find out his friend married, no longer be friends. So childish sia....
Just like...
"Orrhhh!! You like Cindy!! Don't friend u!" -
elindra.......after reading your sad story.......or stories......i just wanna say..........
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SAY!!!!!!
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Master -_- i also told her leow that her friend very childish but she just wanna rub salt into her eyes......*sigh*..........i also wanna cry leow.....#@#$#&^&*^%$$#@@!@!#$^&Originally posted by Master -_-:What a pusssy
Find out his friend married, no longer be friends. So childish sia....
Just like...
"Orrhhh!! You like Cindy!! Don't friend u!"
SAY!!! -
Elindra, I was kinda surprised that all this while, he never once told you or even hinted to you that he liked you.
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You girls will never understand will ya? Heh...Originally posted by Rhonda:Elindra, I was kinda surprised that all this while, he never once told you or even hinted to you that he liked you.
There are a fair few guys out there that will never say, or even hint in the least, that theyve got something going for you.
Eli, its not of my beeswax but it really isnt your fault. He needs to get away which is probably why he wanted to...eh...part. I think?
And since it was so long ago, I'm guessing you were away in Uni for a couple years? You've read "The Great Gatsby" havent you?
Its like he might have formed this mental you, which isnt you, but is a you that is his personal creation - and this mental creation is usually a lot more perfect and...er...lovable than the real you, and he probably just needs to forget it.
Sorry, that sentence was so incoherent i didnt understand it myself, but you're prolly used to me by now. -
Lancer wait I scratch your 2004Lancer than that time u can post in the forums how evil I am and how you cry over your new carOriginally posted by 2004Lancer:Master -_- i also told her leow that her friend very childish but she just wanna rub salt into her eyes......*sigh*..........i also wanna cry leow.....#@#$#&^&*^%$$#@@!@!#$^&
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He never said anything till it was too late just to say the leastOriginally posted by Rhonda:Elindra, I was kinda surprised that all this while, he never once told you or even hinted to you that he liked you.
Anyway I smsed you what he said and that really really hurt
And he asked me not to be angry........I'm not angry, just sad, hurt and disappointed that things have to turn out this way -
He was in uni a couple of yearsOriginally posted by thinger:You girls will never understand will ya? Heh...
There are a fair few guys out there that will never say, or even hint in the least, that theyve got something going for you.
Eli, its not of my beeswax but it really isnt your fault. He needs to get away which is probably why he wanted to...eh...part. I think?
And since it was so long ago, I'm guessing you were away in Uni for a couple years? You've read "The Great Gatsby" havent you?
Its like he might have formed this mental you, which isnt you, but is a you that is his personal creation - and this mental creation is usually a lot more perfect and...er...lovable than the real you, and he probably just needs to forget it.
Sorry, that sentence was so incoherent i didnt understand it myself, but you're prolly used to me by now.
And I was in uni a couple of years
But we kept in touch all along
I know what you are trying to say but its not what he thinks I am. He is not chasing after an ideal me. Just let's say the whole thing turned out to be lots of "If I had"....basically....regrets -
But same or different unis?Originally posted by elindra:He was in uni a couple of years
And I was in uni a couple of years
But we kept in touch all along
I know what you are trying to say but its not what he thinks I am. He is not chasing after an ideal me. Just let's say the whole thing turned out to be lots of "If I had"....basically....regrets
Time apart means lots of time for people to f uck around in their heads with imaginary things.
Yeah sorry...i was a bit incoherent because i just got back from spending $200 on vinyl records =(. Er, yeah basically if you guys spent time apart physically (it doesnt matter if you called up/emailed), it is possible for one party to...make an ideal you based on personal manifestations of...er...imaginary thoughts, i think? And its the biggest bi tch trying to get over the dreams you make for yourself trust me. So really, dont stress.
Dont take life too seriously either. =)
(edit: i cant believe they censor the word "b itch" - its a female dog - how is that offensive?) -
Tragic... what's wrong with telling a girl that you like her? So guys like that who would 'never say, or even hint in the least' are all setting themselves up to be like Elindra's friend - just waiting for the girl to tell them that they're now attached / married and then they start to think about the could've-been's and what-if's?Originally posted by thinger:You girls will never understand will ya? Heh...
There are a fair few guys out there that will never say, or even hint in the least, that theyve got something going for you.
I mean, what is the worst that could happen? Rejection? Well, we all recover from rejection somehow.
I just don't understand why there are folks who'd like to nip an idea in the bud instead of watering it, tending to it gingerly and fertilising it. -
there there.. he's heartbroken and i think it's the only way he can deal with it...
hopefully, one day, he'll figure it out...
you know now he's been holding a torch for you all the time...
hopefully, time will wear away the jagged edges.. while he figures things out.. and comes to his senses...
heck... my heart goes out to you...
or perhaps, he feels you, now as a married woman, should not have a male friend who is that close to you... lest tongues wag? -
I wish this was the case but it is not.Originally posted by the Bear:or perhaps, he feels you, now as a married woman, should not have a male friend who is that close to you... lest tongues wag?
Ya Thinger...he's in a different Uni but really, its not what you think.
Oh well, I'm really feeling much better
Gave my hubby a huge scare -
okay people i think the bottom line is
lets have a piss-up for the newyears and get so intoxicated we all land up in the same hospital ward and get our stomach's pumped. -
well, glad you're starting to feel better
and heck.. go give your hubby a huge hug... to reassure him and for scaring him...
coz if my girl was distraght and in tears, i'd also be scared and beside myself.... -
It might be a ploy to win your sympathy. of course just a wild guess, like u say, the details you've given hardly justify wat's been going on all these years.
anywayz, i'm with most of the views here.. think he just wants to move on and perhaps he thinks that's the best way for him. whether it is or not i guess no one knows, but some/most guys do that, they just have a clean break and leave "no mess" behind. if only we were that tidy about our rooms.
ok sorree for the tactless joke, but i think u are doing the right thing by leaving the decision up to him. i guess (again being tactless) u dun have much of a choice. but perhaps you could feel better in knowing and remembering the fun you had and smile each time u remember how he made u feel so at ease with being yourself.
and, one last comment, perhaps you too have something for him, but u can't admit it, becos u're married (or watever else reason) and to do so would be to open a can or worms. no need to respond to this last paragraph.. it started with a PERHAPS... probably just a poke in the wrong direction.
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Noooooooo!!! Every year, during the Christmas and New Year season, we get lots of admissions due to drunk driving resulting in Road Traffic Accidents, bad falls due to intoxication, fights and assaults also due to drunkenness, and of course, there are those folks who drank so much, they needed their stomachs pumped.Originally posted by thinger:okay people i think the bottom line is
lets have a piss-up for the newyears and get so intoxicated we all land up in the same hospital ward and get our stomach's pumped.
Give us poor nurses some peace this year! -
I didOriginally posted by the Bear:well, glad you're starting to feel better
and heck.. go give your hubby a huge hug... to reassure him and for scaring him...
coz if my girl was distraght and in tears, i'd also be scared and beside myself.... -
well, this dude's gonna drink to the end of 2004 and drink to the coming in of 2005
and don't worry about me... i'm a happy drunk