Obstacles to Love?
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Say you have fallen in love with someone because of their character but they happen to have physical attributes that you dislike, for eg. they're too fat / skinny, eyes too small, face too big, nose too big/small/out-of-shape / dented, balding, not chiobu / yandao, whatever...
Would this affect how you feel towards him/her? Would this stop you from considering them as your boyfriend/girlfriend?
It's easy to quote cliches like 'love will overcome everything', 'the character matters more than outward appearances', etc. but be brutally frank and share what you really feel about this.
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Looks can change but Character... that's in everyone and unique.
So, choice is very clear. -
Some points given to appearance. Weightage not high. But got immediate disqualification if it exceeds parameter
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Yeh, even the best Plastic Surgeons can't do much to a person's character.
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true....dats why i always ganna 'disqualified' in Round 1....or maybe the Prelim Round....Originally posted by Qitai:Some points given to appearance. Weightage not high. But got immediate disqualification if it exceeds parameter 
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My parameter quite loose I think. But I know got alot have very tight parameters.Originally posted by chunyong:true....dats why i always ganna 'disqualified' in Round 1....or maybe the Prelim Round.... -
Staying loose is 'cool'. hehOriginally posted by Qitai:My parameter quite loose I think. But I know got alot have very tight parameters. -
yah....dats not good to people like meOriginally posted by Qitai:My parameter quite loose I think. But I know got alot have very tight parameters. -
no wonder jennifer don't want me...haiz
luckily i still got angelina
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No lah, you are so far far far away from Jennifur Anizton. Like how man?Originally posted by bratpig:no wonder jennifer don't want me...haiz
luckily i still got angelina
Cheers bro.
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nvm la...angelina is a better catchOriginally posted by BÃ¥seline:No lah, you are so far far far away from Jennifur Anizton. Like how man?
Cheers bro. -
Originally posted by Qitai:Some points given to appearance. Weightage not high. But got immediate disqualification if it exceeds parameter
Wah... got immediate disqualification one ah?
I remember this line one of my smooth-talking friends used when I asked if he thought men would mind that I'm bwee-bwee... he said, 'If God blessed me by putting you in my life, who am I to return His gift to me and criticise that it's imperfect?' Waaaaaaahh... that guy could really sweet-talk girls! hahaha!!! -
but.....gy eh lung, go until where boon si gy eh lung, buay bian eh lah....Originally posted by Rhonda: Wah... got immediate disqualification one ah?
I remember this line one of my smooth-talking friends used when I asked if he thought men would mind that I'm bwee-bwee... he said, 'If God blessed me by putting you in my life, who am I to return His gift to me and criticise that it's imperfect?' Waaaaaaahh... that guy could really sweet-talk girls! hahaha!!! -
paiseh hor...but simi is a gy?Originally posted by chunyong:but.....gy eh lung, go until where boon si gy eh lung, buay bian eh lah.... -
Ah... u must have strong palms lor. *twiddles fingers*Originally posted by bratpig:nvm la...angelina is a better catch -
upperden...didnt u watch troy?Originally posted by BÃ¥seline:Ah... u must have strong palms lor. *twiddles fingers* 
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means cheebyeOriginally posted by bratpig:paiseh hor...but simi is a gy? -
That's life lah. What to do. Anyway, if it is just body shape, should not be too difficult lah. If other things, then a bit tough to correct loh.Originally posted by chunyong:yah....dats not good to people like me
Always feel blessed to be born normal. The hands is where the hands should be. The leg is where it should be. -
ok...tyOriginally posted by chunyong:means cheebye -
Looks does matter.
Every1 likes to look @ beautiful things. Mi too.
If his character has already won u over, looks shldn't b an obstacle.
Its ur own 'expectation' obstacle u haf to clear on ur part. -
Cannot lie to myself lah. I do care about it to some extend. No need for beauty, but cannot be too extreme also.Originally posted by Rhonda: Wah... got immediate disqualification one ah?
I remember this line one of my smooth-talking friends used when I asked if he thought men would mind that I'm bwee-bwee... he said, 'If God blessed me by putting you in my life, who am I to return His gift to me and criticise that it's imperfect?' Waaaaaaahh... that guy could really sweet-talk girls! hahaha!!!
Also, one of my problem is I am always too frank and practical. -
[Fill in ya blanks]....., it's yours, take it!Originally posted by bratpig:upperden...didnt u watch troy? -
looks play a part, but not everythings. I dont believe in Love at first sight. Love have to be nuture over times. Yes, looks can be put you off initially, over time it is the characters that matters.
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Kops, I just cannot imagine you with a bwee bwee girlfriend, no matter how wonderful her character is.Originally posted by kops21:looks play a part, but not everythings. I dont believe in Love at first sight. Love have to be nuture over times. Yes, looks can be put you off initially, over time it is the characters that matters. -
Looks matter, but characters matter even more....