Just lying on the bed, thinking how lucky it is to be able to find the one you love and have that someone love you back as well...Originally posted by Rhonda:Oooh, Eric!! Now you're talking!!
You want someone who'll just lie in bed with you, laughing? Erm...laughing at what?
Juz curious.. abt the question on being bwee bwee being an obstacle for dat some1 to fall for u.Originally posted by Rhonda:Actually, Eric, remember just recently I asked you if I'm too bwee bwee and it'll be an obstacle to someone falling in love with me, you kinda said, 'yeah'.
So, doesn't that mean that if you see someone bwee bwee, you'll automatically write her off?
More like his... cause I would never become san san for anyone else but myself. Actually, one of my resolutions this year is to bring down my BMI to a healthier level.Originally posted by Camellias4me:Juz curious.. abt the question on being bwee bwee being an obstacle for dat some1 to fall for u.
So is dat more of UR obstacle or HIS?
Urs becoz he can't fall for u.. so u muz clear the ob urself? (like become san san?)
Or His.. & dat he has 2 overcome on his part?
Since its not an obstacle of urs.. y bother?Originally posted by Rhonda:More like his... cause I would never become san san for anyone else but myself. Actually, one of my resolutions this year is to bring down my BMI to a healthier level.
I may be bwee bwee but in gym classes, I sure can outdo some of the san san's in terms of stamina, ok. So me quite healthy. hehe!
It's really difficult to find someone you can talk to in the same intellectual wavelength... I took a very long time.Originally posted by EricDraven:Ok back to the topic then...
Obstacles to love:
The ability to connect on the same intellectual frequency is the most important aspect I would look for.
Physically-wise, nothing too extreme. Not too fat, not too thin, not too ugly, not too beautiful. Normal will do. Comfortable and confident of one's looks.
I want a love that will not last just the honeymoon, but 10 years, 30 years and hopefully forever til I die. Looks don't last, love does.
Someone who don't mind me talking about the universe and the stars even when I give the wrong information...
Someone who don't mind me working late, someone who is understanding, someone who loves me as much as I will love her...
Someone who don't mind spending a lazy afternoon with me, just lying on the bed, looking at each other and laughing...
Someone out there, who is destined to spend her lifetime with me, this boring guy...
And that's my idea of love!
Yup I do agree with that. Look around! Most of the girls are more attractive than the guys. When guys bald, develop a paunch, I still see aunties buying sexy lingerie to sex up the husbands. But we all know what the men will do if the situation is reversed..Originally posted by Rhonda:Hmm... generally speaking, do you guys think that girls are able to overlook physical shortfalls in their guys better than guys can in their girls? Seems that way but kinda wanna throw this topic out for discussion.
Like I said, not too extreme... Not too fat, not too thin, not too ugly, not too pretty... Extreme is really extreme...Originally posted by Rhonda:Actually, Eric, remember just recently I asked you if I'm too bwee bwee and it'll be an obstacle to someone falling in love with me, you kinda said, 'yeah'.
So, doesn't that mean that if you see someone bwee bwee, you'll automatically write her off?
Oh, at least you found your one! Congratz!Originally posted by foxwalk:It's really difficult to find someone you can talk to in the same intellectual wavelength... I took a very long time.
Yes it is a miracle that there's someone I feel attracted to and he feels the same way too.Originally posted by EricDraven:Oh, at least you found your one! Congratz!
I still have a lifetime to search for my one...
I can't begin to explain how lucky it is to find someone you can love that much, and who, miracles of miracles, loves you that much back.
Gee, do treasure what you have now!Originally posted by foxwalk:Yes it is a miracle that there's someone I feel attracted to and he feels the same way too.
I think polls have shown that guys go for looks while girls go for character... Yes, guys are cheap...Originally posted by Rhonda:Hmm... generally speaking, do you guys think that girls are able to overlook physical shortfalls in their guys better than guys can in their girls? Seems that way but kinda wanna throw this topic out for discussion.
foxwalk, wish you and your partner all the best!! Both of you are so very lucky!Originally posted by foxwalk:Yes it is a miracle that there's someone I feel attracted to and he feels the same way too.
How very true... unrequited love is one of the most painful things to have to endure. I hope it never happens to any of us here!Originally posted by EricDraven:Oh, at least you found your one! Congratz!
I still have a lifetime to search for my one...
I can't begin to explain how lucky it is to find someone you can love that much, and who, miracles of miracles, loves you that much back.
That's so very sweet! That sounds like the 'Gan Ai Gan Hen' thing I've been talking about.Originally posted by the Bear:love has reasons reason can never understand...
so it may lead you into a path of ruin, throw you to the dogs and then tear you apart...
but you'll get better!
you always do!
then, pick yourself up, go out and seek again... for love is too valuable to let things like pain and heartache to give up on...
love! and damn the consequences!
Originally posted by Rhonda:That's so very sweet! That sounds like the 'Gan Ai Gan Hen' thing I've been talking about.
Also sounds like a good tagline for some jewellery ad! hehehe! I can almost see it... 'Love! (slowly zooms in one some huge sparkler of a diamond ring) ... and damn the consequences!' (shows the guy opening his VISA bill slow-motion). hahahahaha!!!
What atrocities? Don't believe I know anything about it. Tell us...Originally posted by the Bear:it's also a great tag for the blood diamond cause...
Diamonds... (flashes the atrocities committed in Sierra Leone) damn the consequences..
Originally posted by Rhonda:What atrocities? Don't believe I know anything about it. Tell us...
Just read the thread... never knew of the atrocities but now I do.Originally posted by the Bear:here's a few things i typed in another thread...
Diamond Lovers
if you want to know the extent of this, just google "Blood Diamonds".. and see years of atrocities committed just to bring that sparkling trinket to people..
btw, diamonds are not that valuable.. only thing is, the greatest marketing campaign ever made them so...
ROFL!! I love your imaginative mind sometimes!! Yea... I wonder what business would be like for Lee Hwa or any of the other jewellers if they ever came up with an ad like that!Originally posted by Rhonda:That's so very sweet! That sounds like the 'Gan Ai Gan Hen' thing I've been talking about.
Also sounds like a good tagline for some jewellery ad! hehehe! I can almost see it... 'Love! (slowly zooms in one some huge sparkler of a diamond ring) ... and damn the consequences!' (shows the guy opening his VISA bill slow-motion). hahahahaha!!!