any past experience...
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does any one have any good past experiences with patching up after a break up?
actually judging from the number of married ppl in this forum, i think it should be pretty low.
maybe i already know what i'm going to do... but you know, let's here your opinions on the matter... -
no,i do not have
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No!Originally posted by ilovemyrolex:does any one have any good past experiences with patching up after a break up?
actually judging from the number of married ppl in this forum, i think it should be pretty low.
maybe i already know what i'm going to do... but you know, let's here your opinions on the matter...
Negative!
Iie!
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patching up after break up? u mean after divorce? or just after bf-gf break-up?
hmm anyway, i believe in staying away from all my ex. So I guess, my answer would be no
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Sometimes , we have to see what is good for both of us. If you think you cannot live without her/him , i think is the right thing to patch back. Give each other a chance because it might be the last chance for your happiness
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there is always a reason for breaking up in the first place. During the first few weeks, of cos the feeling of not being able to live without him/her will be there. But it doesn't mean the other party feels the same...Originally posted by thelesis:Sometimes , we have to see what is good for both of us. If you think you cannot live without her/him , i think is the right thing to patch back. Give each other a chance because it might be the last chance for your happiness
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so u're the Hao Ma Bu Chi Hui Tou Cao kind ah?Originally posted by icyprincess:patching up after break up? u mean after divorce? or just after bf-gf break-up?
hmm anyway, i believe in staying away from all my ex. So I guess, my answer would be no
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yea. no point staying if the other party already has no interest. I am not going to waste my time hanging aroundOriginally posted by Estee:so u're the Hao Ma Bu Chi Hui Tou Cao kind ah? And since things will be awkward from then on, I think it is better if we avoid each other after the break up, it will be easier for both of us to move on...
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i'm those kind whereby once i "write" someone off.... that's it.... no turning back....Originally posted by icyprincess:yea. no point staying if the other party already has no interest. I am not going to waste my time hanging around And since things will be awkward from then on, I think it is better if we avoid each other after the break up, it will be easier for both of us to move on...
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same here...Originally posted by Estee:i'm those kind whereby once i "write" someone off.... that's it.... no turning back.... got ppl say i m cruel for doing dat...but I think it is for evone's good not trying to justify my actions...but my experience has taught me not to hang around after break up..
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patch for what?!?!??!
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Same here. I've never broken up with someone and later, got back together with them again.Originally posted by Estee:i'm those kind whereby once i "write" someone off.... that's it.... no turning back.... 
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Yeah I gave a relationship a second chance it did work out. But some others were too nasty to try again.
But every relationship is unique and it's impossible to decide a course of action based on other people's experience.Originally posted by ilovemyrolex:does any one have any good past experiences with patching up after a break up? -
I agree. No point adding to the heartache of you and the other party.Originally posted by icyprincess:same here... got ppl say i m cruel for doing dat...but I think it is for evone's good not trying to justify my actions...but my experience has taught me not to hang around after break up..
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i have beef with the "horse" saying..
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yea..better use the time to move on and find another person who will cherish you moreOriginally posted by SydneyLibrarian:I agree. No point adding to the heartache of you and the other party.
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Thanks icy, have you read the thread claiming to celebrate the greatness of being single?Originally posted by icyprincess:yea..better use the time to move on and find another person who will cherish you more
i.c.y
As for me, I prefer to be the treasure that's discovered by someone who's worthy and deserving!
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I dun really believe in patch ups.
Patch and break too many times also very tiring. If the love can overcome any obstacles, there won't be any break up. -
nice......Originally posted by ilovemyrolex:Thanks icy, have you read the thread claiming to celebrate the greatness of being single?
As for me, I prefer to be the treasure that's discovered by someone who's worthy and deserving! -
Originally posted by ilovemyrolex:Thanks icy, have you read the thread claiming to celebrate the greatness of being single?
As for me, I prefer to be the treasure that's discovered by someone who's worthy and deserving! 
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No.Originally posted by ilovemyrolex:does any one have any good past experiences with patching up after a break up?
actually judging from the number of married ppl in this forum, i think it should be pretty low.
maybe i already know what i'm going to do... but you know, let's here your opinions on the matter...
I think it depends on why the couple broke up in the first place.
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Valid point ...Originally posted by spadykate:I think it depends on why the couple broke up in the first place. -
Originally posted by spadykate:
I disagree, irregardless of the reason, once there is a breakup, the trust is broken and it leaves an indelible scar between the two people.
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Wat if the reason is due to circumstances forcing both to b separated? Eg. 1 leaves to pursue studies for the next few yrs or due to work, posted away frm home. Breaking up doesn't have to be bitter. Who noes 1 day, she/he returns, might end up together again? But for normal quarrel & in a fit of anger, broke up. Then, within a wk.. things resume & patches up.. i think dats kind of silly.Originally posted by ilovemyrolex:I disagree, irregardless of the reason, once there is a breakup, the trust is broken and it leaves an indelible scar between the two people.
"Hao ma bu chi hui tou cao?"
How abt putting it dis way...
"Hao cao bu pa hui tou chi"