A love letter to my friend
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To You,
Maybe I'm to you, just a friend, an acquaintance, a brief passenger in your life.
But just for this moment, please do me a favour. Forget about everything and see me...
as a guy...
who sees you...
as more than a friend.
It's a tough decision really to confess to you because telling you will change everything about us. A good friend may not be someone you love romantically and confessing to you would force you to reject me, and we will never be comfortable around each other anymore.
But I have to take this selfish decision otherwise my mind will simply explode.
And as you're reading this, I hope you know who you're and maybe, just maybe, you'll fall for me just as I've fallen for you.
Whenever I tell you how beautiful you're or how lucky your future husband will be, you'll brush it off saying that I'm being silly.
You believe you're only a daisy but you're my rose. If other people see you as a daisy, that's because they look at you with their eyes, not with their heart.
And whenever you pine for that someone to love you and hug you, I wish you had considered me.
And when you laugh, nothing else matters anymore.
If I can just see your smile everyday, how lucky is that?
I never expected to fall in love with you, but I did.
Please let me know if you like me too. I know you're reading this.
With love,
Me -
The above letter is not really written for anyone. Just a thought that popped into my mind on a lazy and boring Saturday night.
So for those female forumnites whom I know and read this, please don't freak out.
I'm sure there'll be times in our lives when we're cursed with a friend whom we like romantically.
You enjoy the company of this friend and would like to take it a step further. But you're scared. Scared that you will rock the friendship boat. Scared that you can't even be friends anymore if you confess your feelings.
You try to drop subtle hints but she/he ignored them and you take it as a sign that she/he is not interested in you.
Some days, she/he appears to be very warm and nice towards you. Some days. she/he is cold and treats you like a stranger.
You're confused. And your head and heart are moving in different directions, tearing you apart. Every second after you sent her/him an sms seems like an eternity. You wonder if she/he is ignoring you. Your mind starts playing games with you. She/he replied. You immediately check your handphone. She/he replied a short "ok". Your heart is crushed.
You decide it's safer and better not to reveal your feelings to her. Perhaps time will kindly wash away your feelings. Perhaps you're being silly and it's just a case of temporary infatuation.
You move on in your life, but there's always the lingering question of what if you had...
Just my thought of the day...
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take queue number from me if you want to date ED
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Eric, there are two guys in the forums I admire - one is you, and the other, I'll tell you when we next meet but he's around your age too.
Why?
Because both of you 'Gan Ai Gan Hen' (dare to love, dare to hate, ie. dare to live life with a passion).
Sweet love letter.
Hope you'll get your girl. -
a nice letter.. tat is someone i will like to meet someday. =) althoug i might have met one, but i dun think she is interested. ^^Originally posted by EricDraven:To You,
Maybe I'm to you, just a friend, an acquaintance, a brief passenger in your life.
But just for this moment, please do me a favour. Forget about everything and see me...
as a guy...
who sees you...
as more than a friend.
It's a tough decision really to confess to you because telling you will change everything about us. A good friend may not be someone you love romantically and confessing to you would force you to reject me, and we will never be comfortable around each other anymore.
But I have to take this selfish decision otherwise my mind will simply explode.
And as you're reading this, I hope you know who you're and maybe, just maybe, you'll fall for me just as I've fallen for you.
Whenever I tell you how beautiful you're or how lucky your future husband will be, you'll brush it off saying that I'm being silly.
You believe you're only a daisy but you're my rose. If other people see you as a daisy, that's because they look at you with their eyes, not with their heart.
And whenever you pine for that someone to love you and hug you, I wish you had considered me.
And when you laugh, nothing else matters anymore.
If I can just see your smile everyday, how lucky is that?
I never expected to fall in love with you, but I did.
Please let me know if you like me too. I know you're reading this.
With love,
Me -
... and eric makes a move on every girl
but seriously.. go tell her!
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Well i think Gan Ai Gan Hen attitude on love suffer the most...Originally posted by Rhonda:Eric, there are two guys in the forums I admire - one is you, and the other, I'll tell you when we next meet but he's around your age too.
Why?
Because both of you 'Gan Ai Gan Hen' (dare to love, dare to hate, ie. dare to live life with a passion).
Sweet love letter. Hope you'll get your girl. -
Gan Ai Gan Hen......
No offense....
After various wall-bashing episodes..... I came to conclude, it's nothing more than just pure action-first/think-later mentality. -
to me, the "what ifs" torture you moreOriginally posted by winning 11:Well i think Gan Ai Gan Hen attitude on love suffer the most...
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Sho shweeet.
Im so envious.. Wat a lucky gal! -
Yes, I understand exactly how you feel... However i am less fortunate because the gal I am interested in has a BF... Some things are simply not meant to be ... -
can understand that kinda feelingOriginally posted by EricDraven:The above letter is not really written for anyone. Just a thought that popped into my mind on a lazy and boring Saturday night.
So for those female forumnites whom I know and read this, please don't freak out.
I'm sure there'll be times in our lives when we're cursed with a friend whom we like romantically.
You enjoy the company of this friend and would like to take it a step further. But you're scared. Scared that you will rock the friendship boat. Scared that you can't even be friends anymore if you confess your feelings.
You try to drop subtle hints but she/he ignored them and you take it as a sign that she/he is not interested in you.
Some days, she/he appears to be very warm and nice towards you. Some days. she/he is cold and treats you like a stranger.
You're confused. And your head and heart are moving in different directions, tearing you apart. Every second after you sent her/him an sms seems like an eternity. You wonder if she/he is ignoring you. Your mind starts playing games with you. She/he replied. You immediately check your handphone. She/he replied a short "ok". Your heart is crushed.
You decide it's safer and better not to reveal your feelings to her. Perhaps time will kindly wash away your feelings. Perhaps you're being silly and it's just a case of temporary infatuation.
You move on in your life, but there's always the lingering question of what if you had...
Just my thought of the day... 
that kinda feeling sucks big time!! -
for a moment i thot u finally make the confession.... chey!
btw nice letter leh..... u got copyright it or not?! -
ai, wei she me yao gua zai zui ba shuo?
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ta yi jing zhi dao leOriginally posted by laurence82:ai, wei she me yao gua zai zui ba shuo?
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To who??Originally posted by tare:for a moment i thot u finally make the confession.... chey!
tare know something no share share wif me? -
Yo, Eric!!! Got prizes for guessing correctly who the letter's meant for or not?
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Very nice letter... very touched...
Every girl hopes someone will treat her like a rose..even though she sees herself as a daisy.. -
impressive! u've juz hit tonnes of bulleyes! well..guess tts very true...great love letter u've gt there. gd luck to u
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No intended recipient really...
It's just to open up a discussion on our friend whom we might have like romantically before...
The friend whom you're closest to, yet ironically, you choose to hide your true feelings from...
The friend that treats you as a good friend, yet never considered you as a potential lover...
The friend that you admire from afar...
The friend that you wish you're the one who will give her happiness but you let others have the chance...
The rose that thinks it's a daisy...
My rose... (I wish...) -
Do you really think that there is pure frenship between a guy and a girl? Meaning, very close frens who could talk about anything under the sun with no romantic feeling for each other and for a long time..
There will be a point in time when one of them will ask.. is he/she the one for me... afterall.. Ai4 Qing2 Xu1 Yao4 Mo4 Qi4...
If you really meet that girl... may you have the courage to bare your heart to her.. Ai4 Qing2 Yao4 Kao4 Yun4 Qi4, Ye3 Xu1 Yao4 Yong3 Qi4.... -
A love letter should be one that expresses your feelings towards the one you love. Not a tool to help you get a girl.
If everything in the love letter is what you truly feel for a girl, not just any girl, but that special one, Then it is a good love letter.
So those who are in love and are inspired to write a love letter. Write what she makes you feel and how you feel for her. And that the feelings you have for her is exclusive. I am sure it will make a good Love Letter Good Luck!!! -
Yup, I agree that there will come a point when one of them will ask that.Originally posted by timble:Do you really think that there is pure frenship between a guy and a girl? Meaning, very close frens who could talk about anything under the sun with no romantic feeling for each other and for a long time..
There will be a point in time when one of them will ask.. is he/she the one for me... afterall.. Ai4 Qing2 Xu1 Yao4 Mo4 Qi4...
If you really come across that girl... may you have the courage to bare your heart to her.. Ai4 Qing2 Yao4 Kao4 Yun4 Qi4, Ye3 Xu1 Yao4 Yong3 Qi4....
And I believe if he believes that she can be the right one for him, then he should confess his feelings for her...
If the girl rejects him, then well, both parties have to be mature enough to move on. Now that romance is taken completely out of the equation, I believe true friendship can blossom, provided both sides are mature enough...
I think the key is to take romance out of the friendship equation, and to do that, you have to first consider having it...
Well, it's always easy to talk...
Note: He can be replaceable with She. -
Hi Eric,
yup.. could have been a she. I was in that situation before.. naive enough to think that one day he will fall for me, as i used to think that love should blossom since we had similar values. However, it didn't turn out that way...
Hopefully, the person we like will also like us... luck is what we need..
Regards
Timble -
something i found online...Originally posted by timble:Do you really think that there is pure frenship between a guy and a girl? Meaning, very close frens who could talk about anything under the sun with no romantic feeling for each other and for a long time..
There will be a point in time when one of them will ask.. is he/she the one for me... afterall.. Ai4 Qing2 Xu1 Yao4 Mo4 Qi4...
If you really meet that girl... may you have the courage to bare your heart to her.. Ai4 Qing2 Yao4 Kao4 Yun4 Qi4, Ye3 Xu1 Yao4 Yong3 Qi4....
a guy and a girl can be just friends...
but at one point or another...
one of them will fall for the other...
maybe temporarily...
maybe at the wrong time...
maybe too late or maybe... just maybe... forever... unknown...