A love letter to my friend
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easier?? ahahahahah..... dun make me laugh..... provided the gal's Tiao Jian is very good loh..... or else..... it will be anything but easy....Originally posted by Kenashi:ya but for a gal to go after a guy is always easier than for a guy to go after a gal!!
nu zui nan ge cheng shang
nan zui nu ge cheng shan
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Originally posted by Gackt247:wat makes u so sure..
anyway.. thx for ur blessings..
Always hope for the Best n prepare for the worst!!
Nothing is forever!! -
not really!!Originally posted by Estee:easier?? ahahahahah..... dun make me laugh..... provided the gal's Tiao Jian is very good loh..... or else..... it will be anything but easy....
consider the rate of success, gals getting guys are higher!!
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anyway.... cannot generalise....Originally posted by Kenashi:not really!!
consider the rate of success, gals getting guys are higher!! -
Provided the guy is interested ba. I tink 50-50 ba.Originally posted by Kenashi:not really!!
consider the rate of success, gals getting guys are higher!!
Guys go after girl or the other way also same. Both mus have some soft spot for each other 1st. -
like that i can agree..... ahahhahhaOriginally posted by xking:Provided the guy is interested ba. I tink 50-50 ba.
Guys go after girl or the other way also same. Both mus have some soft spot for each other 1st. -
ok!!Originally posted by Estee:anyway.... cannot generalise.... -
agreed! if not the initating party score 10/10 also no use..... tat's why we see a ugly person with a WOW partner on street.. heheheeOriginally posted by xking:Provided the guy is interested ba. I tink 50-50 ba.
Guys go after girl or the other way also same. Both mus have some soft spot for each other 1st. -
I'm curious... why do you say this ?
Originally posted by Kenashi:ya but for a gal to go after a guy is always easier than for a guy to go after a gal!!
nu zui nan ge cheng shang
nan zui nu ge cheng shan -
what makes you so sure he doesn't?Originally posted by Rhonda:It IS possible for a guy and a lady to be just good pals with no romantic notions whatsoever. I've been friends with two guys whom I don't have romantic feelings for and what we enjoy is deep platonic friendship that have lasted what... 15 years now? -
for what it's worth, i think it's beautifully written...
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well from what I seen happening in my friends' situation n oso the two chinese phrases aren't without origin!!Originally posted by choco B:I'm curious... why do you say this ?
But the chinese phrases may not applied to Singapore now!! That, I am not so sure!! -
... could you please interpret the 2 chinese phrases?
PaisehOriginally posted by Kenashi:well from what I seen happening in my friends' situation n oso the two chinese phrases aren't without origin!!
But the chinese phrases may not applied to Singapore now!! That, I am not so sure!! -
But we are already in the modern society. The rise of feminisim has got women out of the DEMURE and GENTLE cage.Originally posted by Kenashi:ya but for a gal to go after a guy is always easier than for a guy to go after a gal!!
nu zui nan ge cheng shang
nan zui nu ge cheng shan
But then again...
When a guy sleeps ard, u call him a stud
When a girl sleeps ard, u call her a s.lut. -
when a gal is chasing after a guy, they are only separated by satinOriginally posted by choco B:... could you please interpret the 2 chinese phrases?
Paiseh
when a guy is chasing after a gal, the gap is a mountain -
no choice lah!!Originally posted by Faye Valentine:But we are already in the modern society. The rise of feminisim has got women out of the DEMURE and GENTLE cage.
But then again...
When a guy sleeps ard, u call him a stud
When a girl sleeps ard, u call her a s.lut.
that's the embedded mindset of ppl in our society!!
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the tragedy of an NGB...
oh well... -
But it doens't explain why leh
And your friends' trends also never suggest reasons Hahahah ah well.
Personally I'm not one for open, active confession LOLOriginally posted by Kenashi:when a gal is chasing after a guy, they are only separated by satin
when a guy is chasing after a gal, the gap is a mountain -
Oh well...Originally posted by Kenashi:no choice lah!!
that's the embedded mindset of ppl in our society!! -
maybe it is due to male's mindset - guys are taught that they must woo gals.Originally posted by choco B:But it doens't explain why leh
And your friends' trends also never suggest reasons Hahahah ah well.
Personally I'm not one for open, active confession LOL
all of a sudden, gals started approaching guys, kind of make guys feel surprised n appreciated - thus easier to develop further!!
I haven't ask their bf b4 -
Oh yeah.. i've seen lotsOriginally posted by Kenashi:maybe it is due to male's mindset - guys are taught that they must woo gals.all of a sudden, gals started approaching guys, kind of make guys feel surprised n appreciated - thus easier to develop further!!
I haven't ask their bf b4 -
Originally posted by Faye Valentine:Oh yeah.. i've seen lots
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yup, but it sure will feel uneasy to see her again... especially if she rejects uOriginally posted by EricDraven:Anyway, confession doesn't mean you have to lose a friend...
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Listen to the experienced and u will never go wrongOriginally posted by tare:why not? i woo my hubby one leh.... just dun ask if i regret it... wahahahaa......
seriously, i think if a guy and a gal have been friends for too long, it's close to impossible to turn the friendship into a romance... of cos they must 1st be friends, that's how a gal will open up...
but the keyword is "too long".... when they are friends for way too long, the gal oledi regard him as a friend and only a friend.... even if she was interested initately, but seeing no action taken, she'll just move on.... so guys there is a window of opportunity, dun miss it! -
the "u" is usually a guy.....Originally posted by Faye Valentine:But we are already in the modern society. The rise of feminisim has got women out of the DEMURE and GENTLE cage.
But then again...
When a guy sleeps ard, u call him a stud
When a girl sleeps ard, u call her a s.lut.