say.. songs.. i'll add Eddie Vedder's words in his song Black.. the last lines...
i know some day you'll have a beautiful life
i know you'll be a star
in somebody else's sky
oh why, oh why... can't it be.. mine?the thing is that.. this song was from an album in the mid-90s... this dude sings and writes with his heart.. it must have been one heck of a heartbreak... and he must have felt that she was the one..
but in 2001, he married Sara Groot.. and they are very happy together...
what you may think is the perfect fit for you, may not be.. and if you can let go of the baggage, and keep an open mind and heart, you may find someone who is for you
p.s. cliched saying.. you may not be happy with your perfect match while you may be perfectly happy with the one who doesn't match you