The Benefits - Exercise
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Magazines still ok.. @ the most kena confiscated only.Originally posted by Rhonda:
Seriously, on my way back from the US, I spent a lotta time in the transit lounge of La Guardia Airport in NYC wondering if I should spend my last few US$'s buying Penthouse and Playboy and what-not. They even had Playgirl there! And various editions of Penthouse too, for instance, there were issues of Penthouse erotic stories.
In the end, I thought, better not risk it. What if the customs checkpoint staff back home decided to check my luggage and unearthed my finds?
Worse, what if they call up the New Paper and then there'll be this headline, 'Nurse attempts to smuggle pornographic magazines!' 
So in the end, I only lugged back my all-time fave's, the very innocent 'Woman's Day', 'Good Housekeeping', 'Ladies' Home Journal', and 'Bon Appetit'. -
Understood... we're just wired differently!Originally posted by k4korny:fun?
imagine that i have a "reaction" when looking at one of the pictures, and my gf notices it.. then she'll scream "Why are u fantasising about other women?? U dun luuv me anymoree..!!!!" goodness.
so to pre-empt such attacks, i have to be guai guai and imagine all the girls there look like patricia mok.. if i'm looking at the mag with her. Sad leh!
anyway, it's 2 diff parts of a guy's brain lah.. looking at a chio bu doesn't make me love me gf lesser.
ok. out of point. back to the topic of exercising.
Once I'm assured that he loves me, I'm totally kewl with him looking at other women, or even with him browsing at mags such as FHM. I think it makes interesting conversation too! hehehe!
BUT, if I'm not totally convinced that he loves me deep-deep, then, that's another matter altogether!
All said, I'd rather be with a guy who convinces me beyond a doubt, that he loves me and thinks that I'm special so that we can enjoy stuff like these together! More fun that way! -
Orh... izzit? Even porno mags with nudity??Originally posted by Camellias4me:Magazines still ok.. @ the most kena confiscated only.
Aiyah! Wasted opportunity!! -
I have morphed into a Night Owl these days... am no longer a chirpy Morning Lark!Originally posted by the Bear:with exercise, there's also proper rest and sleep (some things totally alien to me)
i know rainee's at a place where it's day.. what are the excuses of the rest? No idea why! Probably cuz the shift work messed up my biorhythm!
I usually sleep around 2:30 am or later these days. Have even slept at 3:30am and then had to wake up at 5:30am for Morning Duty. Xiong!!
Nighttime is when I'm least distracted and most inspired. Can do a lot of reading / game-playing / chatting / planning! -
me now school holidays...but still have classesOriginally posted by the Bear:ditto...
just handled a total mess at work... i hate school holidays
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Nice to know that you're so understanding.. cos i know a lot of girls who are not.Originally posted by Rhonda:All said, I'd rather be with a guy who convinces me beyond a doubt, that he loves me and thinks that I'm special so that we can enjoy stuff like these together! More fun that way!
But then again, i also noe guys who will take advantage of the situation when girls are too understanding.
Like u said, it really depends on the guy that he is truly committed lah. -
yea, I am usually confident when I am with him, just these few days...dunno why, just felt a little bit inferior about my looks...oh well, I guess I am having mood swingOriginally posted by Rhonda:Actually, there's something fun about flipping through such mags with your guy. You can both comment about what you like and what you don't and it will be totally fun! I don't think I'll feel threatened at all because well, I expect my guy to be mature enough to understand that beauty is really from within and if he's so shallow as to try and make me feel insecure and criticise me physically then, he cmi as my boyfriend! Out! *Stamps 'REJECTED!' on his butt!
rainee, must be confident in yourself! -
Im an owl!Originally posted by the Bear:with exercise, there's also proper rest and sleep (some things totally alien to me)
i know rainee's at a place where it's day.. what are the excuses of the rest?
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I feel pai seh want to get him to reassure me again and again that he loves me deep-deepOriginally posted by Rhonda:Understood... we're just wired differently!
Once I'm assured that he loves me, I'm totally kewl with him looking at other women, or even with him browsing at mags such as FHM. I think it makes interesting conversation too! hehehe!
BUT, if I'm not totally convinced that he loves me deep-deep, then, that's another matter altogether!
All said, I'd rather be with a guy who convinces me beyond a doubt, that he loves me and thinks that I'm special so that we can enjoy stuff like these together! More fun that way! We have had this type of conversation many times, where I will say I look like shit, and he will say no you doesn't honey, I still love you anyway Then he will say something like, But maybe you should go and exercise and tone up a bit, I know it is for my own good but these few days I will get all worked up -
Good! Good! We shall have a hoot!!Originally posted by Camellias4me:Im an owl! -
Maybe, confidence comes with age and experience... cause these days, I don't tolerate insults and affronts and snide remarks to my physical appearance very well.Originally posted by rainee:I feel pai seh want to get him to reassure me again and again that he loves me deep-deep We have had this type of conversation many times, where I will say I look like shit, and he will say no you doesn't honey, I still love you anyway Then he will say something like, But maybe you should go and exercise and tone up a bit, I know it is for my own good but these few days I will get all worked up
I'm fitter than I've been for donkey years, I'm at my healthiest compared to a few years back, and I've lost a lotta lotta weight and kept it off and am sure that slowly but surely, I'll creep towards my 'magic no.' on the weighing scale, so, if anyone dares to make stupid, out-of-place criticisms to me, I will usually try to smile, and then say something like, 'Oh, I used to be slender like you, and I used to comment on fat girls, like you, and then whaddaya know, one day, I woke up with some health condition that made me gain weight very fast. Life is so unpredictable, right?' Cat claws come unsheathed!
Well, I do have my bad days where I'm more insecure and all that but generally, I don't allow people with an evil agenda to put me down. Constructive criticisms are welcome. Snide remarks made to taunt and hurt will only be met with likewise counter-attack measures. Sarcasm and revenge? Scorpios own it! -
and what a pretty owl tooOriginally posted by Camellias4me:Im an owl!
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lol I don't think he has any evil agenda...he is probably just making an innocent remarks that I should start exercisingOriginally posted by Rhonda:Maybe, confidence comes with age and experience... cause these days, I don't tolerate insults and affronts and snide remarks to my physical appearance very well.
I'm fitter than I've been for donkey years, I'm at my healthiest compared to a few years back, and I've lost a lotta lotta weight and kept it off and am sure that slowly but surely, I'll creep towards my 'magic no.' on the weighing scale, so, if anyone dares to make stupid, out-of-place criticisms to me, I will usually try to smile, and then say something like, 'Oh, I used to be slender like you, and I used to comment on fat girls, like you, and then whaddaya know, one day, I woke up with some health condition that made me gain weight very fast. Life is so unpredictable, right?' Cat claws come unsheathed!
Well, I do have my bad days where I'm more insecure and all that but generally, I don't allow people with an evil agenda to put me down. Constructive criticisms welcome. Remarks made to taunt and hurt will only be met with likewise counter-attack measures. Sarcasm and revenge? Scorpios own it! then I can twist his words and make them sound like he wants to make me feel inferior...
He is back in the camp now, but I guess for the past few days he was at home, I kept his hands full with my antics! -
Siiiigh... One thing I miss a lot about having a boyfriend is the play-tussle you can do! Pillow fights, play-wrestling, ambushing each other... very very funOriginally posted by rainee:He is back in the camp now, but I guess for the past few days he was at home, I kept his hands full with my antics! and very much missed. siiiiiighz! -
sigh.. wrong answer. he should have just stopped at the part where he said he loves you.Originally posted by rainee:I will say I look like shit, and he will say no you doesn't honey, I still love you anyway Then he will say something like, But maybe you should go and exercise and tone up a bit, I know it is for my own good but these few days I will get all worked up
it's like if my gf ask me: "Am I fat?" -> *puts down everything I'm doing* says: NO! (one sec delay oso cannot) .. well trained huh.
for me, i will also ask my gf to exercise, cos i get e benefits of exercising and i hope she will too mah... but i wun ask her to do it after she ask me things like "Am i fat?" i suppose its the timing lah.. But a lot of times guys are not so sensitive as to what they say, even tho they mean well. -
Orh...I cannot do that, cos he is not here with me actually...we are separated by an ocean and many milesOriginally posted by Rhonda:Siiiigh... One thing I miss a lot about having a boyfriend is the play-tussle you can do! Pillow fights, play-wrestling, ambushing each other... very very fun and very much missed. siiiiiighz! But when he is home, I will get to hear his voice and recently he just installed a webcam so I can now see his expression when he is talking to me -
Sweeeet!
But hmm... we should probably stop hijacking poor kops' thread about The Benefits of Exercise! -
Yea it is the timingOriginally posted by k4korny:sigh.. wrong answer. he should have just stopped at the part where he said he loves you.
it's like if my gf ask me: "Am I fat?" -> *puts down everything I'm doing* says: NO! (one sec delay oso cannot) .. well trained huh.
for me, i will also ask my gf to exercise, cos i get e benefits of exercising and i hope she will too mah... but i wun ask her to do it after she ask me things like "Am i fat?" i suppose its the timing lah.. But a lot of times guys are not so sensitive as to what they say, even tho they mean well. Then of course I don't want to kpkb so much about this lor, I mean we only get to hear each other's voice for 3 times a week, don't want them to end up in arguments over petty stuff...
But other than that, he is perfect already -
lol ok, I tend to get out of point very easilyOriginally posted by Rhonda:Sweeeet!
But hmm... we should probably stop hijacking poor kops' thread about The Benefits of Exercise! -
ya loh.. imagine when he reads this tomolo he'll be thinking " WTF is stuff that's suppose to be in Bar (Playboy, Playgirl, FHM) and AuntAgony doing in this thread about exercise. "Originally posted by Rhonda:Sweeeet!
But hmm... we should probably stop hijacking poor kops' thread about The Benefits of Exercise! -
Guys...caught the move yet?Originally posted by k4korny:sigh.. wrong answer. he should have just stopped at the part where he said he loves you.
it's like if my gf ask me: "Am I fat?" -> *puts down everything I'm doing* says: NO! (one sec delay oso cannot) .. well trained huh.
for me, i will also ask my gf to exercise, cos i get e benefits of exercising and i hope she will too mah... but i wun ask her to do it after she ask me things like "Am i fat?" i suppose its the timing lah.. But a lot of times guys are not so sensitive as to what they say, even tho they mean well.
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Originally posted by k4korny:ya loh.. imagine when he reads this tomolo he'll be thinking " WTF is stuff that's suppose to be in Bar (Playboy, Playgirl, FHM) and AuntAgony doing in this thread about exercise. " Can blame it on me, no worries
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Well, erm... technically, S E X is also a form of exercise!!Originally posted by k4korny:ya loh.. imagine when he reads this tomolo he'll be thinking " WTF is stuff that's suppose to be in Bar (Playboy, Playgirl, FHM) and AuntAgony doing in this thread about exercise. " -
Originally posted by Rhonda:Well, erm... technically, S E X is also a form of exercise!!
Then how come I read someone said having too much sex will give you a tummy? -
cos u get pregnant dear.. haha.Originally posted by rainee:
Then how come I read someone said having too much sex will give you a tummy?