Do guys like it when women act 'der' or helpless?
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huh.. where got? i tot i said i'm one of those who can see thru this evil trick..Originally posted by Rhonda:Yeah, but like what k4korny said in his post, men DO like it when women 'der'... BUT, only if the women are chiobu's!
Only then, they can 'ing1 xiong2 jiu4 mei3', see? 
anyway, i dun mind ppl 'der'-ing me.. not chio-bu oso nvm. Rhonda and rainee, u can der me, plsssss... -
Y'know, I was reading through your post again and you almost make it sound like it's a good quality for a female to use her beauty to her advantage and make men do stuff for her.Originally posted by k4korny:with all due respect to the female kind.. i think it's a priviledge that only you women have mah.. imagine a guy try to der someone into doing things for him??
eeee... *shudders*
I mean, guys are suckers for this sort of things.. that's a fact..
actually, I'm quite impress with girls who knows they have the "liao" to der and der ppl to their advantage. I know a girl who's smart, pretty, knows she's smart and pretty, and knows how to der.. You have to hand it to her lah.. cos she makes guys eat out of her hands..
So, that trait is valued above independance and quiet resourcefulness?
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no...I only reserve it for my ai aiOriginally posted by k4korny:huh.. where got? i tot i said i'm one of those who can see thru this evil trick..
anyway, i dun mind ppl 'der'-ing me.. not chio-bu oso nvm. Rhonda and rainee, u can der me, plsssss... 
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Psst... rainee, not just by the male population but also by the chio females who do it!Originally posted by rainee:I am tempted to call them shallow now...but I better shut up before I get assaulted by the male population here
Looks like you and I had better discuss an escape route!
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hmm... but if you have a stupid idiot who willing to do all your work, why not use it to your fullest advantage?Originally posted by rainee:being independent, for me, is still the best thing...no need to get used to being dependent on others...one day when they have all disappeared, u will know you can still have yourself to fall on...
And "der" too much also will become a habit, in the end you will end up just letting other people do everything for u..
Come to think of it.. if i handsome (IF lah).. will i get girls to do my work for me? -
Originally posted by k4korny:huh.. where got? i tot i said i'm one of those who can see thru this evil trick..
anyway, i dun mind ppl 'der'-ing me.. not chio-bu oso nvm. Rhonda and rainee, u can der me, plsssss...
Eh... skali you vomit, how??
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Originally posted by Rhonda:Psst... rainee, not just by the male population but also by the chio females who do it!
Looks like you and I had better discuss an escape route!
*zips mouth and go back to do project*
Let's see how people respond to this topic bah... -
Why not? Because everytime you get people to do for you, u wun learn anything rite? Like let's say I can get someone to do my hw for me now, I will get good grades, but what's the point?Originally posted by k4korny:hmm... but if you have a stupid idiot who willing to do all your work, why not use it to your fullest advantage?
Come to think of it.. if i handsome (IF lah).. will i get girls to do my work for me?
Learning only comes thru experience, not by sitting by and watching another person do the work...
And one day what will happen when the guy decides to not want to do it for me anymore? Then won't I be helpless? -
Originally posted by k4korny:hmm... but if you have a stupid idiot who willing to do all your work, why not use it to your fullest advantage?
Come to think of it.. if i handsome (IF lah).. will i get girls to do my work for me?
Therein lies yet another gender discrimination - if you're chio and you make men do work for you by acting 'der', that's what most folks would call a 'privilege'.
However, if you're a handsome chap and you try to make ladies do work for you, you're called 'spineless' or a 'xiao bai lian'! -
Good point!Originally posted by rainee:Why not? Because everytime you get people to do for you, u wun learn anything rite? Like let's say I can get someone to do my hw for me now, I will get good grades, but what's the point?
Learning only comes thru experience, not by sitting by and watching another person do the work...
And one day what will happen when the guy decides to not want to do it for me anymore? Then won't I be helpless?
And let's put it this way, how long can they get away with being 'der'? Someday, they'll grow old too and then, who's going to tolerate their 'der'ness?
THEN, they'll realise, 'Oh drats! I actually have to do it myself?!' -
err.. my gastric not very good... i dun mind eating ruan fan!! keke..Originally posted by Rhonda:However, if you're a handsome chap and you try to make ladies do work for you, you're called 'spineless' or a 'xiao bai lian'!
*k4korny applies more sunblock on his face* -
Ah! I just remembered another term for 'der'... 'manja'!
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Applying sunblock when the moon is out?!Originally posted by k4korny:err.. my gastric not very good... i dun mind eating ruan fan!! keke..
*k4korny applies more sunblock on his face* 
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One good example is..if you watch that show "You Are The One" starring Jacelyn Tay, Christopher Lee, etc...the youngest sister in the family..si bei der, everytime I watch that show I will get goosebumps when she starts her "der"-ing actOriginally posted by Rhonda:Ah! I just remembered another term for 'der'... 'manja'! -
I'm not a Channel 8 person but I couldn't help laughing at your expression, 'si bei der'!Originally posted by rainee:One good example is..if you watch that show "You Are The One" starring Jacelyn Tay, Christopher Lee, etc...the youngest sister in the family..si bei der, everytime I watch that show I will get goosebumps when she starts her "der"-ing act
But hey, no one can beat the Taiwanese ladies at being 'der', don't you think? -
Originally posted by Rhonda:I'm not a Channel 8 person but I couldn't help laughing at your expression, 'si bei der'!
But hey, no one can beat the Taiwanese ladies at being 'der', don't you think?
Mebbe, didn't notice cos I don't really have that many Taiwanese frens
But I remember reading in a book that actually says a woman must know how to wait for men to do things for her, be confident that she has the charm to make men wait on her...cos w/o women asking them around to do things, they will be similar to being jobless!
Don't know true or not -
Originally posted by rainee:
Mebbe, didn't notice cos I don't really have that many Taiwanese frens
But I remember reading in a book that actually says a woman must know how to wait for men to do things for her, be confident that she has the charm to make men wait on her...cos w/o women asking them around to do things, they will be similar to being jobless!
Don't know true or not
That's so funny!! So, ok, I learnt something new tonight... must act manja a bit next time, so that the man won't be jobless and idle... good for the economy too, right?
Headline news tomorrow : Ladies, act der... it provides the men with jobs and benefits the economy!'
OK, with that, I go and oing oing (sleep) and dream of how to make men become economically viable! -
taiwanese girls.. i think der-ing is built into the way they speak..
'har, shi ma'.. 'shuai ge, shen me si ah?'... 'tao yan lah, ni hao huai orrr!!'..
that's why a lot of ppl like to do business with taiwanese companies. -
Rhonda and rainee... employ me.. plsss!!Originally posted by rainee:
Mebbe, didn't notice cos I don't really have that many Taiwanese frens
But I remember reading in a book that actually says a woman must know how to wait for men to do things for her, be confident that she has the charm to make men wait on her...cos w/o women asking them around to do things, they will be similar to being jobless!
Don't know true or not -
/me tries to be manja ...Originally posted by k4korny:Rhonda and rainee... employ me.. plsss!!
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Oh drats... it doesn't come naturally to me!! I feel constipated attempting to do it!! -
dun worry.. by now my food has digested already..
at most i'll just throw up some stomach juices. at least there wun be any wastage...
come on rhonda!! wo zhi chi ni!! -
/me takes a deep deep breath, takes anti-vomitting pills herself, and tries to mimic those manja Taiwanese TV personalities...Originally posted by k4korny:dun worry.. by now my food has digested already..
at most i'll just throw up some stomach juices. at least there wun be any wastage...
come on rhonda!! wo zhi chi ni!!
"Aiiii yah!! Ni bu yao zhe yang mah!! Gei wo mian zhi, ah! Dui wo hao yi dian, hao mah?"
Erm... how's that? Did you survive that without shrivelling up and dying?? -
*white foam comes out from korny's mouth, while he stares blankly at the screen*...
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Originally posted by k4korny:*white foam comes out from korny's mouth, while he stares blankly at the screen*...
Oh shucks... didn't give a man a 'job' but instead, killed him!!
rainee, how? I shi bai!!
Anyways, shi bai or not, I shall finally concede defeat and surrender to sweet sleep! Good night, or rather, good morning, rainee and k4korny! Thanks for your company! -
*korny recovers, wipe off foam from his mouth..*
well... that wasn't that bad was it?
A commendable effort there!! *round of applause*