To love ... is to obey
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Not to love the bad points, but to appreciate the fact she had some good and bad points which made her human.Originally posted by X-men:To love ... is to obey
but does anyone really obey?
to me.. to love is to love all the bad points as well
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quote nellie, " i love u, so i accept teh whole package"Originally posted by X-men:To love ... is to obey
but does anyone really obey?
to me.. to love is to love all the bad points as well -
i'm different, i'm just plain lazyOriginally posted by rainee:lol I have too much pride to do that for other people
so lazy that i avoid prawns outside
the main reason for me avoidin prawns would be, once i start, i can't stop
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Originally posted by Nelstar:Not to love the bad points, but to appreciate the fact she had some good and bad points which made her human.
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Don't ask me about the crabs then..Originally posted by shinta:
I don't wanna be a prawn noodle auntie.. maybe i shouldn peel any prawns for u
Kidding! -
what about the crabs?Originally posted by Nelstar:Don't ask me about the crabs then..
Kidding!
that one... kao zi ji hor.. -
It is right to much extend.
Actually the way to having husband staying close to you for a long time is to 'obey' - doing the right things. (as bear and joho explained) -
wo de tian ah...... so bloody cold can........ lolz Originally posted by shinta:quote nellie, " i love u, so i accept teh whole package" -
Originally posted by foga: wo de tian ah...... so bloody cold can........ lolz
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assuming u are now in the right frame of mind,Originally posted by elindra:Just wondering what you guys thought of this post. My dad made me read this article this morning because he knew how headstrong I am in a relationship, and yes, I expect an equal partnership.
I'll write my views tomorrow since I'm not in the right frame of mind currently - too tired. Anyway I wonder if she wrote this to substantiate the fact that this is the correct way to behave in a marriage, to save her marriage.
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yo bro...Originally posted by M©+square:It is right to much extend.
Actually the way to having husband staying close to you for a long time is to 'obey' - doing the right things. (as bear and joho explained)
hahah i think the topic has degraded to.. "i will peel prawns for you, as for crabs, u can go fly kite" -
marriage can't be handle like a biz transaction. the balance sheet will nvr balanced....
to love is to obey?
i would rather say, to love is to give.... give of urself for the happiness of the other....
of cos if u dun love the person anymore, then handle it like a transaction..... -
ah u quote me!Originally posted by jOhO:yo bro...
hahah i think the topic has degraded to.. "i will peel prawns for you, as for crabs, u can go fly kite"
well, cos i dunno how to shell a crab -
i dunno why we can't all just eat porridge and all be loving and giving and obedient.Originally posted by shinta:ah u quote me!
well, cos i dunno how to shell a crab -
dun love liao, dun have anything there liao, n if no kids, y not divorce?Originally posted by tare:marriage can't be handle like a biz transaction. the balance sheet will nvr balanced....
to love is to obey?
i would rather say, to love is to give.... give of urself for the happiness of the other....
of cos if u dun love the person anymore, then handle it like a transaction..... -
In this day and age (in S'pore context), don't think blind obedience to the husband can work all the time. It has to be "obey" for the right and reasonable things. And not because "to obey" is part of the marriage bargain, but more like a personal choice to "obey" out of love, and knowing it will make hubby happy (e.g. peel prawns, cooking for hubby).
Similarly, the husband has to "obey" in certain things out of love, care, and to make the wife happy (e.g. mop the floor, clean the windows, answer tricky questions with "yes dear" ). Otherwise, it would become a case of unbalanced subservient relationship which is not healthy. -
Originally posted by jOhO:i dunno why we can't all just eat porridge and all be loving and giving and obedient.
i dun like porridge wor
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hope u like marina south then..Originally posted by shinta:
i dun like porridge wor -
Originally posted by Wanda:In this day and age (in S'pore context), don't think blind obedience to the husband can work all the time. It has to be "obey" for the right and reasonable things. And not because "to obey" is part of the marriage bargain, but more like a personal choice to "obey" out of love, and knowing it will make hubby happy (e.g. peel prawns, cooking for hubby).
Similarly, the husband has to "obey" in certain things out of love, care, and to make the wife happy (e.g. mop the floor, clean the windows, answer tricky questions with "yes dear" ). Otherwise, it would become a case of unbalanced subservient relationship which is not healthy. So true, so true! And I so agree with you that to obey your significant other should be done out of love and not for other selfish reasons! -
how many women would cook for their husbands after a long day at work?Originally posted by Wanda:In this day and age (in S'pore context), don't think blind obedience to the husband can work all the time. It has to be "obey" for the right and reasonable things. And not because "to obey" is part of the marriage bargain, but more like a personal choice to "obey" out of love, and knowing it will make hubby happy (e.g. peel prawns, cooking for hubby).
Similarly, the husband has to "obey" in certain things out of love, care, and to make the wife happy (e.g. mop the floor, clean the windows, answer tricky questions with "yes dear" ). Otherwise, it would become a case of unbalanced subservient relationship which is not healthy.
how many husbands would help their wives with the housework after a long day @ work?
most think that it's the wives' duty to maintain the place, working or not. -
ok lar.. the food's not really all that greatOriginally posted by jOhO:hope u like marina south then..
i still prefer home cook de -
haahha no lar.. wasn't talking about the food lar..Originally posted by shinta:ok lar.. the food's not really all that great
i still prefer home cook de
marina south good for flying kite. -
nowadays ppl dun just marry out of love, there are dozens of funny reasons.... so doesn't mean they must divorce if love is out of the pic.... there are dozens of funny reasons why ppl remain married too.....Originally posted by shinta:dun love liao, dun have anything there liao, n if no kids, y not divorce?
marriage afterall is not like signing up for a club membership: not happy, just cancel the membership.... things do get complicated.... -
i dunno how to fly kiteOriginally posted by jOhO:haahha no lar.. wasn't talking about the food lar..
marina south good for flying kite. -
they get married cos they wanna have a place..Originally posted by tare:nowadays ppl dun just marry out of love, there are dozens of funny reasons.... so doesn't mean they must divorce if love is out of the pic.... there are dozens of funny reasons why ppl remain married too.....
marriage afterall is not like signing up for a club membership: not happy, just cancel the membership.... things do get complicated....