Originally posted by alexkusu:
Hmm..shows marriage can be broken down into selective factors. No matter how good a guy treats a girl, no matter how great his personality is, no matter what a wonderful person he is...if he is a gigolo, the girl wont marry him..... according to this thread.
Well, let me pose you this scenario :
You meet an extremely beautiful and sexy woman, and when she looks your way, your jaw drops. You almost cannot control your drooling and when you see her move towards you, you realise that she seems to move in slow-motion and time seems to stand still. You realise that she's not only drop-dead gorgeous, she's also intelligent, gentle and oooh, alluringly feminine!
And then, she hands you her calling card and you realise that she's actually a prostitute.
Would you still consider her to be a candidate for marriage then?
And, OF COURSE marriage has to be broken down into 'selective factors'! One of my wise American friends, a grandfather and a veteran, once said, 'If only the Americans would spend more time thinking about how to choose the right partner for marriage, there would be less divorces in the country! Imagine - we spend more time pondering over which car to buy, than who to marry!'
If you don't carefully consider and scrutinise your potential marriage partners, then I would say that's being extremely foolish.
I will not only not consider a gigolo, I will also not consider any other man who sleeps around indiscriminately.