match making
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actually, u should be.Originally posted by choco B:Strangely, I felt alittle scared after reading this -__-"
its natural to be fearful of the unknown and unappreciated *ahem*.
fact is, if a stranger comes upon u and display interest on u, u should be running away.
That I blame on poor approach tactic employed on the suitor.
in another words, if u wanna seek, seek with discrete and tactful manner.
Rest is up to you, your hormonal drives, charm and some lady luck.
Amoungst homosapiens, we call it flirting or courtship.
And THAT, is where the fun begins.
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Aiyah, just believe in "yuan fen" ......
if it's meant to be, it's meant to be ...
and if someone was scheduled by fate, nothing you can do can block it one i feel ....
a fatalistic attitude to love is the best way to go in life i feel .... -
I disagree.Originally posted by Fatum:Aiyah, just believe in "yuan fen" ......
if it's meant to be, it's meant to be ...
and if someone was scheduled by fate, nothing you can do can block it one i feel ....
a fatalistic attitude to love is the best way to go in life i feel ....
Fatalistic or not, life is about survival and opportunies.
if ones belief falls on hopeless assumptions and pre-definited destinies, then life itself is not worth living.
That is the role which leads to self pity and self destruction (depression, suicidal etc etc).
Take your chance, coz u only live once. -
Whoa, heads up! Alpha male in the room!
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Was that your psychological observation ? .....Originally posted by Gedanken:Whoa, heads up! Alpha male in the room! -
Nah, I watch the Discovery Channel!Originally posted by Fatum:Was that your psychological observation ? ..... 
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Originally posted by Gedanken:Nah, I watch the Discovery Channel!
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r-iii-iii-ght. that's nice dear.Originally posted by ManualOnly:
I am classic case of a hunter-killer type. Be it on MRT, hawker center, library, Borders and shoppiing malls, I am constantly observing potential mate. -
Originally posted by ManualOnly:
uh huh...
actually, u should be.
its natural to be fearful of the unknown and unappreciated *ahem*.Amoungst homosapiens, we call it flirting or courtship.
or lust...
because, you only live once, i suppose?
And THAT, is where the fun begins.
idiot.
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Ah the edu-tainment channels...very informative and eye-opening programmes.Originally posted by Gedanken:Nah, I watch the Discovery Channel!
If u had watched another channel, National Geographics, the primate species (e.g baboon and mt. gorallias) Alpha males display similar heirarical society using his physical and violent potential to assert his controls on other males and his harems of females.
Having said that, there is another social extreme that some primates practices in EVERY social interations. They hv sex with almost every member within their group, and not because of natural procreation need, but to show affections and exchange of favours, like a female chimp will offer herself to copulation if she wants a male to share his food.
Going to analogy of Alpha on humans, I can say the evolutionary separations between primates and human is still at an early stage.
I can be a SNAG on the outside in order to win a lady's confidences and trust, but once in the bedroom, the Alpha-male trade still dominates -
ManualOnly, you sound really scary now.
In fact, you don't sound like a homo sapien at all... you sound more like a member of our Primates family who've learnt how to communicate in English and use the computer and internet!
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well, if an idiot can live a life of an ignorant-fool, won't that be a blissful life ?Originally posted by thinger:because, you only live once, i suppose?
idiot.
jeez.
another way of seeing is even with all the educations and opportunities presented in today's commerical world, women in general are still getting 2nd-rated deals in both cooperate and personal affairs.
One cannot assume that being a non-idiot or with a fatalistic attititude that one can avoid moments of heartbreaks and despair.
Love-life is like a cycle of life. It has its beautiful and ugly moments.
And like life, its will end at some point. The challenge is taking that gracefully.
And yes, its easier said than doing it.
THe only difference is u can hv many loves, but only 1 life to live thru. -
sensitive new age kind guy eh? wheres this coming from? your arse?Originally posted by ManualOnly:I can be a SNAG on the outside in order to win a lady's confidences and trust, but once in the bedroom, the Alpha-male trade still dominates [/color] -
uh oh kay.Originally posted by ManualOnly:well, if an idiot can live a life of an ignorant-fool, won't that be a blissful life ?
another way of seeing is even with all the educations and opportunities presented in today's commerical world, women in general are still getting 2nd-rated deals in both cooperate and personal affairs.
One cannot assume that being a non-idiot or with a fatalistic attititude that one can avoid moments of heartbreaks and despair.
Love-life is like a cycle of life. It has its beautiful and ugly moments.
And like life, its will end at some point. The challenge is taking that gracefully.
And yes, its easier said than doing it.
THe only difference is u can hv many loves, but only 1 life to live thru. -
Well, you can't exactly live life with a harsh, utilitarian view either.Originally posted by ManualOnly:well, if an idiot can live a life of an ignorant-fool, won't that be a blissful life ?
another way of seeing is even with all the educations and opportunities presented in today's commerical world, women in general are still getting 2nd-rated deals in both cooperate and personal affairs.
One cannot assume that being a non-idiot or with a fatalistic attititude that one can avoid moments of heartbreaks and despair.
Love-life is like a cycle of life. It has its beautiful and ugly moments.
And like life, its will end at some point. The challenge is taking that gracefully.
And yes, its easier said than doing it.
THe only difference is u can hv many loves, but only 1 life to live thru.
Things like the flutterings of the heart, the nuances, the moods, the ebb and flow of life, precious little moments, memories and sentiments, stuff like that you can't exactly plan nor strategise.
And well, are we talking about falling in love or planning and even scheming, to snag a good mate?
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Ah... something about the way you write, ManualOnly, makes me think of the novel, 'Hard Times' by Charles Dickens, where there was a foreboding sense of a bleak world where everything was cold, calculated, robotic... and very utilitarian.
Life is more than just us grabbing it by the throat and squeezing it dry for what it's worth!
When was the last time you stopped and smelled the roses?
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!LOL!Originally posted by Rhonda:ManualOnly, you sound really scary now.
In fact, you don't sound like a homo sapien at all... you sound more like a member of our Primates family who've learnt how to communicate in English and use the computer and internet!
I take that as a form of flattery.
If it is a "fact" that I am a internet-savvy monkey with language powess equivilent to a high-school graduate, then I should be starring in some Hollywood block-buster directed by Steven Speiberg without any need for special effects or CGI alikes.
But too bad, evolutionary process is a continuous activities and one cannot stop our great-great-great--...grand mum, Lucy, from migrating and stop her from the urge of love-making, can we ? -
i suspect he read too much of nietzsche too, in addition to darwin ....Originally posted by Rhonda:Ah... something about the way you write, ManualOnly, makes me think of the novel, 'Hard Times' by Charles Dickens, where there was a foreboding sense of a bleak world where everything was cold, calculated, robotic... and very utilitarian.
Life is more than just us grabbing it by the throat and squeezing it dry for what it's worth!
When was the last time you stopped and smelled the roses? -
last night. he likes rose-leaf rimming around the old date.Originally posted by Rhonda:When was the last time you stopped and smelled the roses? -
i woulnt know. i read tintinOriginally posted by Fatum:i suspect he read too much of nietzsche too, in addition to darwin .... -
I like the way u put it: the smell, the heart and the flow of life...Originally posted by Rhonda:Well, you can't exactly live life with a harsh, utilitarian view either.
Things like the flutterings of the heart, the nuances, the moods, the ebb and flow of life, precious little moments, memories and sentiments, stuff like that you can't exactly plan nor strategise.
And well, are we talking about falling in love or planning and even scheming, to snag a good mate?
That's a good start regarding your question about how to "snag a good mate" and "falling in love" -
Originally posted by Rhonda:Ah... something about the way you write, ManualOnly, makes me think of the novel, 'Hard Times' by Charles Dickens, where there was a foreboding sense of a bleak world where everything was cold, calculated, robotic... and very utilitarian.
Life is more than just us grabbing it by the throat and squeezing it dry for what it's worth!
When was the last time you stopped and smelled the roses?
Sorry I put myself across as cold-cunning-calculative-cannible with literal capacity of Charles-the-author.
i don't read Charles Dicky nor novels. But yes, I love smelling flowers and female odours (never under estimate that aspect)
I do, however, enrich myself and senses with people I mean and appreciate. I also frequent internet sites that provide me a constant reminder that some people never hv chances to smell good flowers.
Sites like http://crisispictures.org" target="_blank" rel="nofollow">http://crisispictures.org where war correspondences share their unpublished works.
That keeps me in perspective of where I am. -
Ah, the old evolutionary perspective.
You are aware, of course, of the paradox of arguing in favour of switching to a behavioural model that itself discounts the possibility of behavioural change? -
$5 says he doesnt.
if you meet me, i'll raise you 10. -
Yeah? I'll call ya and raise ya another five.