Ode To The Nice Guys
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Got a point.Originally posted by the Bear:people remember what stands out.. they never ever remember what is routine.. even if the routine is wonderful... -
hmmm, dont really bother anyway, with regards to relationship
been alone for 23 years, mabbe also for the next 23 years... -
I don't buy that. It's more like first discovering a scratch on your car - you start wondering if that's the first scratch, look closely and discover a whole lot of other scratches all over. Keep picking away and sooner or later the bad outweighs the good.Originally posted by the Bear:nice guys are good and kind.. until that one unintentional screw-up.. and the girl think they're terrible and that's all she thinks of, and she leaves him, crying bitterly about what a terrible person he is, remembering only the one thing he did wrong because it sticks out like a sore thumb, forgetting how good he always is... -
single but attached... but anyways... through out school and working life... no guy ever approached me to be their girl. I think I must be power lah...Originally posted by littlestream:You aunty? Are you sure?
Then, I MUST BE the grand dame.
But it's all in the mind. You single or married? Married and still want bad guys come near? Cannot. Karma ah. Singles okay lah. Want me to give you tips on how to attract bad guys? 
but once I got a guy, disgusting men came forward and suggest going into affairs ... when I promptly told them to get lost. 
Being realistic and practical, most guys want a hot, sexy, chio, slim girl (looks matter more to men and all the criteria must satisfy including others I do not list) and most girls want a handsome rich man (Its delibrate to not put hunk as girls usually want financial and r/s security). I am what most people my generation (I face it, I am the older generation) think fugly and in this new generation, even worse when I stand around the xiao mei mei who look me up down.
Anyways, contentment is a form of happiness. -
that's coz you're a guy...Originally posted by Gedanken:I don't buy that. It's more like first discovering a scratch on your car - you start wondering if that's the first scratch, look closely and discover a whole lot of other scratches all over. Keep picking away and sooner or later the bad outweighs the good.
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goddamnit!Originally posted by Gedanken:I don't buy that. It's more like first discovering a scratch on your car - you start wondering if that's the first scratch, look closely and discover a whole lot of other scratches all over. Keep picking away and sooner or later the bad outweighs the good.
i thought i was the only one with the car analogy. -
Well, that's some model of irrationality you're proposing there, Bear.Originally posted by the Bear:that's coz you're a guy... -
Great minds think alike!Originally posted by thinger:goddamnit!
i thought i was the only one with the car analogy.
... and idiots say the same damned things...
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nah i would just say gals turn stupid when they fall in love..... tho not exclusive to the female genderOriginally posted by the Bear:thinger just wrote about the NGBs.... the "nice guy, but..."
those who are there, and never ever get seen..
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people remember what stands out.. they never ever remember what is routine.. even if the routine is wonderful...
alas
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Originally posted by Gedanken:
yeah well fools seldom differ.
[b]Great minds think alike!
... and idiots say the same damned things...[/b]
idiot or fool, take your pick. -
Originally posted by Gedanken:
yeah well fools seldom differ.
[b]Great minds think alike!
... and idiots say the same damned things...[/b]
idiot or fool, take your pick. -
thin line btw a genius n a foolOriginally posted by thinger:yeah well fools seldom differ.
idiot or fool, take your pick. -
genius and insanity.Originally posted by Kenashi:thin line btw a genius n a fool -
difference is while genius has its limits, stupidity has none.