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*woah .... your husband really "kio tio"(struck gold)..... nowadays where to find someone willing to live with the in-laws already ......Originally posted by shinta:that is a choice give and available to us but we choose to live next door, or with his parents
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hope everything goes well in your parents and in laws.Originally posted by shinta:that is a choice give and available to us but we choose to live next door, or with his parents -
i prefer games..Originally posted by mistyblue:pets, friends, plants, hobbies ... etc...
I keep plants and watch excessive TV ...
i can't commit to animals and plants... they'll die..
as for frenz.... sigh..
sec sch frenz seem to have grown up n i'm still stuck here...
they're talkin about the latest fashion n make up bla bla bla...
u'd just see question marks appearin on top of my head.
i got so clueless, i gave all meetups a miss.
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Originally posted by mistyblue:at least you have a choice
but if u're talkin about my family members....
no way am i gg to stay anywhere near them. -
i'm closer to his family than i am to my family.Originally posted by Fatum:*woah .... your husband really "kio tio"(struck gold)..... nowadays where to find someone willing to live with the in-laws already ......
i'm the one who kio tio. not him.
imagine i dun like his family n i can't bear mine either. miserable -
thanksOriginally posted by Deportivo:hope everything goes well in your parents and in laws. -
Where are your in-laws staying?Originally posted by shinta:i'm closer to his family than i am to my family.
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if u cannot decide which area u wish to stay,
then which area his parents stay?
got any new flats in the area? -
well .. in anycase it's good to have in-laws nearby, if not in the house eh .... they can really help out, especially when the kids start popping out eh ...Originally posted by shinta:i'm closer to his family than i am to my family.
i'm the one who kio tio. not him.
imagine i dun like his family n i can't bear mine either. miserable
best wishes for your marriage ...
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well they're gg to move too i tink... cos of some en bloc stuff.. not sure... and his mom did say sth like she wanna move in with us (either nel n me or his bro n his future wife)Originally posted by choco B:Where are your in-laws staying?
oh when i say closer, i dun mean it in terms of distance
er.... relationship? is that the word? -
which area are u working in?
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maybe look for new flats ler den we decide where we wanna stay?Originally posted by drx:if u cannot decide which area u wish to stay,
then which area his parents stay?
got any new flats in the area?
most likely towards city area.. -
thanksOriginally posted by Fatum:well .. in anycase it's good to have in-laws nearby, if not in the house eh .... they can really help out, especially when the kids start popping out eh ...
best wishes for your marriage ... 
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i'm at orchard.. nel's further up northOriginally posted by drx:which area are u working in? -
I get what you mean. I was wondering which estate would you be moving to (to be close to your in-laws). In this case, I guess it's your choice.Originally posted by shinta:well they're gg to move too i tink... cos of some en bloc stuff.. not sure... and his mom did say sth like she wanna move in with us (either nel n me or his bro n his future wife)
oh when i say closer, i dun mean it in terms of distance
er.... relationship? is that the word? -
I like TV... I keep plants cause they rid the place of odours...Originally posted by shinta:i prefer games..
i can't commit to animals and plants... they'll die..
as for frenz.... sigh..
sec sch frenz seem to have grown up n i'm still stuck here...
they're talkin about the latest fashion n make up bla bla bla...
u'd just see question marks appearin on top of my head.
i got so clueless, i gave all meetups a miss.
girlie friends are out of the question... they talk too much about nonsense..
guy friends also I give up... and sometimes I rather not know them
I just like the peace and quiet... its very noisy with lots of kids running around
and then I realise I am asking turn on the light, wash this, do that cause my bf's mom is too lazy to get off the couch. I'm an easy going person so I do while people like my bf older brother, sister or sister-in-law would not do, so they are let off these things. Anyways, I'm only a gf. No commitment to his family and this is what happens. So I do not think I am that keen to become someone's maid .... -
Ang mo kio area got new flats coming out.
In the centre of orchard and north area. -
Originally posted by mistyblue:I like TV... I keep plants cause they rid the place of odours...
girlie friends are out of the question... they talk too much about nonsense..
guy friends also I give up... and sometimes I rather not know them
I just like the peace and quiet... its very noisy with lots of kids running around
and then I realise I am asking turn on the light, wash this, do that cause my bf's mom is too lazy to get off the couch. I'm an easy going person so I do while people like my bf older brother, sister or sister-in-law would not do, so they are let off these things. Anyways, I'm only a gf. No commitment to his family and this is what happens. So I do not think I am that keen to become someone's maid ....
guess i am very lucky.
my mom expects my bf to cook for the family, bring everyone out for dinner n everything.
lucky nel seldom appears at my place -
woah! where u get the source from?Originally posted by drx:Ang mo kio area got new flats coming out.
In the centre of orchard and north area.
there was close to 0 info at hdb's site..
maybe i'm lousy at searchin for info -
If u need some luck I think u better buy bishan flats.
Heard that they bring luck that why they are so ex. -
i actually prefer macphersonOriginally posted by drx:If u need some luck I think u better buy bishan flats.
Heard that they bring luck that why they are so ex.
bishan not as accessible?
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yeah I was not willing to let the r/s progress any further. anyways I rent the whole unit from his mom, paid her in advance. paid for all the previous bills so that the unit does not get shut down. paid for lots of stuff which she promised to pay back ... never did and all forgotten.Originally posted by shinta:
guess i am very lucky.
my mom expects my bf to cook for the family, bring everyone out for dinner n everything.
lucky nel seldom appears at my place
she would use my unit whenever she wants and the last time was used to make dumplings to let her earn more money. I was left with a week of cleaning and scraping oil off the floor and walls. got scolded for nothing in front of his family cause the other tenant screw her.
help adjust her household fengshui and she got a lot of 4d strikes. gave advice when the SIL was preggie with 2nd kid but no one believed and was ridiculed that I never been a preggie don't know how preg-kit works. They didn' read the damn instructions!
Anyways. even my folks are hawkers and not educated, but they are people with grace, behaving fairly towards everyone and not take advantage. When he comes over to my mom's place, I had to serve my bf hand and foot. Anwyays, I realise I cannot expect that of everyone and especially other people's mom. Besides, her cooking always makes me sick .... She might be endearing to her own kids. Certainly after being bossed around and getting all sort of sh!t from her... I have other views which I know I cannot share with my bf ... he made it clear he will side his family no matter what. So I told him he's already married to his family. He never needed me. So I look for my own outlet and avoid his family at all costs. -
hmm..Originally posted by mistyblue:yeah I was not willing to let the r/s progress any further. anyways I rent the whole unit from his mom, paid her in advance. paid for all the previous bills so that the unit does not get shut down. paid for lots of stuff which she promised to pay back ... never did and all forgotten.
she would use my unit whenever she wants and the last time was used to make dumplings to let her earn more money. I was left with a week of cleaning and scraping oil off the floor and walls. got scolded for nothing in front of his family cause the other tenant screw her.
help adjust her household fengshui and she got a lot of 4d strikes. gave advice when the SIL was preggie with 2nd kid but no one believed and was ridiculed that I never been a preggie don't know how preg-kit works. They didn' read the damn instructions!
Anyways. even my folks are hawkers and not educated, but they are people with grace, behaving fairly towards everyone and not take advantage. When he comes over to my mom's place, I had to serve my bf hand and foot. Anwyays, I realise I cannot expect that of everyone and especially other people's mom. Besides, her cooking always makes me sick .... She might be endearing to her own kids. Certainly after being bossed around and getting all sort of sh!t from her... I have other views which I know I cannot share with my bf ... he made it clear he will side his family no matter what. So I told him he's already married to his family. He never needed me. So I look for my own outlet and avoid his family at all costs.
we're in a kinda similar situation, tho mine doesn seem to be as bad as yours.
nel's mom would be like ur parents? "people with grace, behaving fairly towards everyone and not take advantage"
"gave advice when the SIL was preggie" hmm at least she bothers to listen
"he will side his family no matter what" so far things are all nice.... so
his family sides me.. -
the SIL didn't listen nor she believe. The MIL asked and so I gave my views about these test kits is not always correct and she need to get tested by a doc. She dragged her feet for 3-4 months before going and all the while vomitting due to morning sickness. Everyone was all worried for her wondering what's wrong. All the food and cooking were all geared towards making her feel good and etc. She also used the excuse to avoid all work and just lie down there like a whale. So one time I was making wanton soup for their family. She happened to come by with earlier. The MIL treated me like a maid and started making loud noise I was slow and shove me aside and serve up the half cooked pot of soup where they drank until not much left and I had to start cooking all over again. Was trapped in the kitchen for hours serving everyone. At the end I was so fed up I quickly ate and go home. This is the kind of thing I am going to get, then really I see no point. Anyways, the SIL stayed in their house for 7 years sleeping with her BF (oldest brother) free loading off them all this time and the MIL always pity her cause she's m'sian and she think she had a difficult time with the previous rental. I paid for my rental and still get sh!t from her and she give me the attitude that I am "using" her son. Actually I paid the down payment for his car. I paid for his last trip to US and sometimes I paid for his petrol where he would go ferry everyone around. I had to put up with his temper and such. Seriously. At this point. I am happy to remain single.Originally posted by shinta:hmm..
we're in a kinda similar situation, tho mine doesn seem to be as bad as yours.
nel's mom would be like ur parents? "people with grace, behaving fairly towards everyone and not take advantage"
"gave advice when the SIL was preggie" hmm at least she bothers to listen
"he will side his family no matter what" so far things are all nice.... so
his family sides me.. -
Originally posted by mistyblue:the SIL didn't listen nor she believe. The MIL asked and so I gave my views about these test kits is not always correct and she need to get tested by a doc. She dragged her feet for 3-4 months before going and all the while vomitting due to morning sickness. Everyone was all worried for her wondering what's wrong. All the food and cooking were all geared towards making her feel good and etc. She also used the excuse to avoid all work and just lie down there like a whale. So one time I was making wanton soup for their family. She happened to come by with earlier. The MIL treated me like a maid and started making loud noise I was slow and shove me aside and serve up the half cooked pot of soup where they drank until not much left and I had to start cooking all over again. Was trapped in the kitchen for hours serving everyone. At the end I was so fed up I quickly ate and go home. This is the kind of thing I am going to get, then really I see no point. Anyways, the SIL stayed in their house for 7 years sleeping with her BF (oldest brother) free loading off them all this time and the MIL always pity her cause she's m'sian and she think she had a difficult time with the previous rental. I paid for my rental and still get sh!t from her and she give me the attitude that I am "using" her son. Actually I paid the down payment for his car. I paid for his last trip to US and sometimes I paid for his petrol where he would go ferry everyone around. I had to put up with his temper and such. Seriously. At this point. I am happy to remain single.
so u're single now?