Fatal Attraction - Why bad girls / men are so attractive!
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Originally posted by stellazio:That will only piss the guy you have intentions on away..If you need to act cute do it from the start so the guy knows what he's into,maybe he chose to hang otu with you because you don't act cute..So if you do both..haha..
Every guy will have soft spots for their special girl.
Just need to purr at the right time! 
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It's the thrill lor.Originally posted by Rhonda:I've always wondered why.
Why is it the the goodie two-shoes men and women are often cast aside over the 'bad' ones?
Share your two cents' worth!
Personally, the challenge is the turn-on factor.
But I will not choose bad guys lah. I very practical one. -
Do ppl marry for sex only? Maybe.Originally posted by Rhonda:Y'know, just got me wondering... would you marry a good guy / girl if that meant that you'll be having bad sex, or worse, no sex?
In the first place, the whole theory which dunno which guy came out with - that gals only wanna have sex with the bad guys, which in turn seems to imply only bad guys are good in sex - is full of holes. No basis - scientific, biological or otherwise. -
Are you getting the hang of it?Originally posted by Rhonda:
Every guy will have soft spots for their special girl. Just need to purr at the right time! -
U see!! reiterate my point again abt good guys and gals are bad at sex.Originally posted by Rhonda:Y'know, just got me wondering... would you marry a good guy / girl if that meant that you'll be having bad sex, or worse, no sex? -
Sexual compatibility is important, this I won't deny. I would seriously reconsider marriage if sex life was non-existant. But it's also up to us to improve the situation. The right partner brings out the best in us, no? Sexual skill is that - a skill that can be taught and learnt, as with attitudes, all these can be changed.
It's a gross assumption and huge mistake to claim that nice people are bad in bed and vice versa. Like clothes, it's all about the right fit. And like clothes, you can never tell how good the fit is till you try it on.Originally posted by Rhonda:Y'know, just got me wondering... would you marry a good guy / girl if that meant that you'll be having bad sex, or worse, no sex? -
she doesn't have anyone to purr toOriginally posted by M©+square:Are you getting the hang of it? -
Disagree: That loud people are shallow and quiet people have depth.
With regard to Bad Girls/Men being attractive it is because.. ethics/morality and attractiveness are simply two separate things.
Amoral Qualities that I think most people go for :
Humour, Independence, Intelligence, Accomplishments, Breadth of Experience, Confidence, etc...
A person can have plenty of the other qualities and be incredibly attractive - WIthout being good at all! Of course, if you throwin compassion and kindness and all the other GOOD qualities, that's the best lah.
But being just and ONLY good.. is not much of a redeeming factor at all. -
Here's my S$0.02.
Girls would almost invariably go for the bad and dangerous guys when they're young and immature. They want to have excitement, and only dangerous guys can offer the level of excitement they want.
As they grow up and mature, though, they want stability. They then go for the good guys who can offer them the stability they want. Bad guys almost invariably cause heartache and pain.
I dunno about guys' preferences'.... some go for bad girls, some go for good girls.
As for me, I go for the good girls.
The reason being.... if I were to end up marrying her.... I want the best woman in the world to be the mother of my children. My future kids deserve the best.
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remove the word "only" and it has its truth....Originally posted by zozo:Do ppl marry for sex only? Maybe.
In the first place, the whole theory which dunno which guy came out with - that gals only wanna have sex with the bad guys, which in turn seems to imply only bad guys are good in sex - is full of holes. No basis - scientific, biological or otherwise.
generally bad guys are better in sex .... simply cos they have MORE experiences!!! come on it comes with practice one, no one is born a sex god/goddess....
good guys lugi cos they will only gain tat sorta experience with woman he truly love..... -
i think it also depends on a person character....for me....bad guy....oh pls stand far far from me...i very scare even if he is actually not too bad....
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probably you've seen such a few cases of women sticking with their abusive husbands, but it's still unfair to label "bad" men as the more desirable of the 2.
it's a mating game, and MAYBE some women behave like that JUST because they like their guys that plays hard to get, or rather, rebellious once in a relationship. who knows? maybe a guy that's not so submissive keeps the said woman on the toes and thus the relationship going? it could also happen the other way round.
I had this female friend who once told me that women have this innate need to convert bad boys to good ones, that they'll get a huge sense of satisfaction whenever they "tame" a wild guy. perhaps that explain something?
I'm sure different women wants different things and there are always places in this world for "good" and "bad" men, with regards to finding a partner.Originally posted by the Bear:but is it true?
we do read about people who stick with their guy through anything.. because "he was good to me"
... and she says it with a black eye and several missing teeth... -
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when i'm young, i want to be bad so women will sleep with me and i can have all the sex i want. when i grow older and decide to settle down, i'll just pick a good girl to mother my offsprings. Originally posted by fudgester:Here's my S$0.02.
Girls would almost invariably go for the bad and dangerous guys when they're young and immature. They want to have excitement, and only dangerous guys can offer the level of excitement they want.
As they grow up and mature, though, they want stability. They then go for the good guys who can offer them the stability they want. Bad guys almost invariably cause heartache and pain.
I dunno about guys' preferences'.... some go for bad girls, some go for good girls.
As for me, I go for the good girls.
The reason being.... if I were to end up marrying her.... I want the best woman in the world to be the mother of my children. My future kids deserve the best. -
Bad=Good, it's the law of nature. the more agressive will stend out from the crowd and get more attention.
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Yes but aggressive is not always = bad
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Think you can join fatum's club for aspiring fathers. Wow...both of your nick start with f....for father!Originally posted by fudgester:Here's my S$0.02.
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As for me, I go for the good girls.
The reason being.... if I were to end up marrying her.... I want the best woman in the world to be the mother of my children. My future kids deserve the best. -
"W" stands for wifey then ? ....Originally posted by zozo:Think you can join fatum's club for aspiring fathers. Wow...both of your nick start with f....for father!
but hey ! ... you ARE one aren't you ? ....
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Ahem...yes, I'm already taken.Originally posted by Fatum:"W" stands for wifey then ? ....
but hey ! ... you ARE one aren't you ? .... But W does not spell MOTHER. Must compare orange with orange, okie? -
I think it's amazing that there are young men in here who are looking forward to fatherhood and thinking about "good mother" qualities and all that. This was beyond me back then, even now. I think this proves that an maternal / paternal instinct is not gender -restricted!
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This is one of man's ploy to get into a woman's pants.Originally posted by choco B:I think it's amazing that there are young men in here who are looking forward to fatherhood and thinking about "good mother" qualities and all that. This was beyond me back then, even now. I think this proves that an maternal / paternal instinct is not gender -restricted!
Oldest trick in the book.
"I want to be the father of your kids ... "
Yeah right. -
Oh ye of little faith!! Originally posted by charlize:This is one of man's ploy to get into a woman's pants.
Oldest trick in the book.
"I want to be the father of your kids ... "
Yeah right. -
Faith is good.Originally posted by choco B: Oh ye of little faith!!
Blind faith on the other hand, is another matter. -
Well.. the argument is true . And that NICE guys laughs last kinda thing. BUT have u ever considered that, girls they go for the bad n dangerous guys.. so that means they have inevertably become used goods. So when they grow more 'mature' seeking 'stability.. who are the suckers that get played into thier hands ? yes.. the NICE guys.. the NICE guys THINK they get the last laugh..but in fact they are the losers that recieves the rejected goods. so i dont know about u guys but i think the society is already corrupted. Nice guys exist in this world only to be used n abused. Its like Losers..that determine the Winners. So what i am trying to say is.. if u are a NICE guy out there.. damnit.. dun let no BAD boys take what rightfully belongs to you. Everyone can be bad.. just how bad can u become ? Look bad..or BORN bad.. well..thats my 0.02 cents worth. N i just wanna say this but.. BAD boys dun necessary give great sex..n nice good boys dun necessary give bad ass sex.. i think its bullocksOriginally posted by fudgester:Here's my S$0.02.
Girls would almost invariably go for the bad and dangerous guys when they're young and immature. They want to have excitement, and only dangerous guys can offer the level of excitement they want.
As they grow up and mature, though, they want stability. They then go for the good guys who can offer them the stability they want. Bad guys almost invariably cause heartache and pain.
I dunno about guys' preferences'.... some go for bad girls, some go for good girls.
As for me, I go for the good girls.
The reason being.... if I were to end up marrying her.... I want the best woman in the world to be the mother of my children. My future kids deserve the best. 
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I've never heard of guys complain about bad sex.Originally posted by BadzMaro:Well.. the argument is true . And that NICE guys laughs last kinda thing. BUT have u ever considered that, girls they go for the bad n dangerous guys.. so that means they have inevertably become used goods. So when they grow more 'mature' seeking 'stability.. who are the suckers that get played into thier hands ? yes.. the NICE guys.. the NICE guys THINK they get the last laugh..but in fact they are the losers that recieves the rejected goods. so i dont know about u guys but i think the society is already corrupted. Nice guys exist in this world only to be used n abused. Its like Losers..that determine the Winners. So what i am trying to say is.. if u are a NICE guy out there.. damnit.. dun let no BAD boys take what rightfully belongs to you. Everyone can be bad.. just how bad can u become ? Look bad..or BORN bad.. well..thats my 0.02 cents worth. N i just wanna say this but.. BAD boys dun necessary give great sex..n nice good boys dun necessary give bad ass sex.. i think its bullocks
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oh noes it's the end of the world for nice guys!