Fatal Attraction - Why bad girls / men are so attractive!
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and that, is the fundamental difference between men and womenOriginally posted by charlize:I've never heard of guys complain about bad sex.
Only no sex.
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The theory then goes that since nice guys will lose out in the end, they might as well become bad nasty SOBs.Originally posted by $lave:oh noes it's the end of the world for nice guys!
Hence, there is no such thing as a nice guy.
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I'm sure there are complaints in Bar or AA about bad sex like "she lies there like a dead fish!!"
However I shall share something that I've read :Originally posted by charlize:I've never heard of guys complain about bad sex.
Only no sex.
"Sex is like pizza. When it's good it's great, when it's bad it's still OK "
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there there ....... (sayang ... )Originally posted by charlize:The theory then goes that since nice guys will lose out in the end, they might as well become bad nasty SOBs.
Hence, there is no such thing as a nice guy.
Really.
one day you'll find a nice guy .... THE nice guy huh .......
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That pizza quote sounds like something from a men's magazine.Originally posted by choco B:I'm sure there are complaints in Bar or AA about bad sex like "she lies there like a dead fish!!"
However I shall share something that I've read :
"Sex is like pizza. When it's good it's great, when it's bad it's still OK " -
Sorry, I only like bad, nasty guys.Originally posted by Fatum:there there ....... (sayang ... )
one day you'll find a nice guy .... THE nice guy huh .......
Good guys suck.
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now we all know why both nice people of both sexes are destined to suffer pain and heartbreaks ...... haizzzz ........Originally posted by charlize:Sorry, I only like bad, nasty guys.
Good guys suck.
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[quote]Originally posted by charlize:
Sorry, I only like bad, nasty guys.
Good guys suck.
And I don't mean it in a sexual way.[/quot
Yup..its girls like you make me able to 1 leg step 2 boats. he he he.. n when i cant take on other more bad boys.. i give my girl a slap or two.. coz she will love me to the end of days. She goes ? there will always be others to replace this void.More will come to me.. Life of the Bad Boy.. 
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Life's a Bitch.Originally posted by Fatum:now we all know why both nice people of both sexes are destined to suffer pain and heartbreaks ...... haizzzz ........
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L O S E R SOriginally posted by Fatum:now we all know why both nice people of both sexes are destined to suffer pain and heartbreaks ...... haizzzz ........ -
Originally posted by BadzMaro:
You're the Fucking loser.
[quote]Originally posted by charlize:
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Sorry, I only like bad, nasty guys.
Good guys suck.
And I don't mean it in a sexual way.[/quot
Yup..its girls like you make me able to 1 leg step 2 boats. he he he.. n when i cant take on other more bad boys.. i give my girl a slap or two.. coz she will love me to the end of days. She goes ? there will always be others to replace this void.More will come to me.. Life of the Bad Boy.. [/b]
Raising your hands to slap a woman.
Now everybody in the forum knows what kind of Shit you are. -
S'not too bad lah. Just make sure you find a nice girl who appreciates your niceness.Originally posted by Fatum:now we all know why both nice people of both sexes are destined to suffer pain and heartbreaks ...... haizzzz ........
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well.. her face got in the way..Originally posted by charlize:You're the Fucking loser.
Raising your hands to slap a woman.
Now everybody in the forum knows what kind of Shit you are. the forum is where u create an alternate identity. No one will ever really know who you really are. Anyone can be lying about everything. You either choose to believe or not. The rewards workds both ways. -
aiya.. it isnt bad girls/men that are attractive, its just that good girls/men are overrated!
I know this guy.. absolutely GORGEOUS, actually stopped me gawping in mid-sentence in the middle of class when he sat next to me. (and I am not talking abt secondary school.. I am talking abt PT nite classes taken when I am working..) and at first I was like.. WAA so handsome..
later after talking to him, and actually hanging out, going out for kopi, went overseas with a group of friends together... I also felt he is a nice, earnest, sweet tempered, kind guy etc etc BUT HOR... utterly utterly BORING. And for some reason, absolutely no sense of humour.
How many dates can u go with a nice, GOOD, sweet tempered guy who is boring and no sense of humour??
So if it means a choice between Good and Boring, and Bad and Fascinating, gimme bad anytime lah. THe problem is with people who either really can't tell OR deliberately CHOOSE bad and fascinating but realise they can't handle it then WHINE about how it *bah* its a choice!! -
Can I ask.... when you do want to get married and settled down, do you want 'Good and Boring' or 'Bad and Fascinating'?Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:aiya.. it isnt bad girls/men that are attractive, its just that good girls/men are overrated!
I know this guy.. absolutely GORGEOUS, actually stopped me gawping in mid-sentence in the middle of class when he sat next to me. (and I am not talking abt secondary school.. I am talking abt PT nite classes taken when I am working..) and at first I was like.. WAA so handsome..
later after talking to him, and actually hanging out, going out for kopi, went overseas with a group of friends together... I also felt he is a nice, earnest, sweet tempered, kind guy etc etc BUT HOR... utterly utterly BORING. And for some reason, absolutely no sense of humour.
How many dates can u go with a nice, GOOD, sweet tempered guy who is boring and no sense of humour??
So if it means a choice between Good and Boring, and Bad and Fascinating, gimme bad anytime lah. THe problem is with people who either really can't tell OR deliberately CHOOSE bad and fascinating but realise they can't handle it then WHINE about how it *bah* its a choice!! -
Honestly?Originally posted by fudgester:Can I ask.... when you do want to get married and settled down, do you want 'Good and Boring' or 'Bad and Fascinating'?
I help them answer. : Good and fascinating. -
Well, it's time for everyone to realise one thing: you can't have it all.Originally posted by M©+square:Honestly?
I help them answer. : Good and fascinating.
Girls had better realise that they can't always expect to get the perfect gentleman who's tall, dark and handsome and has the 5Cs.
Guys had better realise that they can't get always get the hot, sexy chiobu who's decent and has good maternal instincts.
Perhaps when we all start thinking realistically instead of idealistically, everyone will be happier. -
hahha I know I will go for good and interesting! Thats what I mean you see. Good ALONE is not good enough.
But if those are the only two choices I have, good and boring OR bad and interesting... (and I am assuming you are talking about extremes here) then I think I will choose the latter.
Because people are boring when they are not interested in life and what goes on around them. Because life is too long and useless for someone who just exist from day to day.. and doesn't have the imagination to maximise their time. Because I will not be able to love someone who isn't interested in living and just interested in making a living.
And if you can't love that fella, you shouldn't marry him ya? Or that makes you a bad girl.
Better be a sad wife to a bad man, than a bad wife to a good man. -
not true you can't have it all.
there are LOADS of good and fascinating people out there. And lots of BAD and boring people too.
and it is funny how people assume
BAD girls and Bad men MUST be chio and yandao
and GOOD girls and GOOD men.. plain and ugly.
Not true either! Didn't know we're talking abt looks at all.
I think what people need to have is a realistic idea of
how GOOD people can be, and how interesting people can be
if your idea of interesting and good is far out
then of course can never find interesting enough or good enough people la! -
exactly! I prefer to change the word BAD to 'cheeky'Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:not true you can't have it all.
there are LOADS of good and fascinating people out there. And lots of BAD and boring people too.
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Nu ren bu huai, nan ren bu ai... How true is that...
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u sure u wanna noe??!!Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:How many dates can u go with a nice, GOOD, sweet tempered guy who is boring and no sense of humour?? -
depends on which organ's answering .... the head or the heart ....Originally posted by sbst275:Nu ren bu huai, nan ren bu ai... How true is that... -
Too lazy to read through all the pages but just my 2 cents' worth.Originally posted by Rhonda:I've always wondered why.
Why is it the the goodie two-shoes men and women are often cast aside over the 'bad' ones?
Share your two cents' worth!
I think 'bad' boys are more fun to be with, when you're dating. You don't want to marry him but you want to have fun, plus 'bad' boys are usually cool.
Then when you decide that you had enough fun and want to settle down, you want a good guy - Someone who loves and cherish you, cares for you and your family and will do anything for you to marry. -
I agree with you!Originally posted by elindra:Too lazy to read through all the pages but just my 2 cents' worth.
I think 'bad' boys are more fun to be with, when you're dating. You don't want to marry him but you want to have fun, plus 'bad' boys are usually cool.
Then when you decide that you had enough fun and want to settle down, you want a good guy - Someone who loves and cherish you, cares for you and your family and will do anything for you to marry.
To me, a good guy is husband material & one who shares your life values & beliefs. Who wants a bad guy around just for the good times, only to find out he deserts you during the times you need him the most...