vent my frustrations here ok...
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today is me n my bf 2nd yr anniversary. we agreed to meet at 130pm after my lesson. in the end, at 130pm, he was still with his frens. very insincere n unthoughtful. esp on such a special day.
he is poor. no money. so i dun expect him to celebrate with me in a very extravagant way. but i was hoping for something prepared.. something that doesn't require money. maybe something like treat me nicer or wad. but nothing.
so eventually when we met up, after like 1 hr later. i was angry. i threw my temper. he didnt pacify me n shouted at me. i told him to get off my car n drove off.
when im home, i msn him, call him; no answer at all. What have i done to deserve him. He is so poor, but i jus tell myself to tolerate. when he grads, den it'd be ok. We dun do stuffs my other couples do cos he is so poor.
but after tolerating his poor-ness, he cant even do something nice for me on this special day. i'm very sad.
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dun be so sad...
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there there .............. (* sayang) ....
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This relationship is doomed to failure.Originally posted by Steph84:today is me n my bf 2nd yr anniversary. we agreed to meet at 130pm after my lesson. in the end, at 130pm, he was still with his frens. very insincere n unthoughtful. esp on such a special day.
he is poor. no money. so i dun expect him to celebrate with me in a very extravagant way. but i was hoping for something prepared.. something that doesn't require money. maybe something like treat me nicer or wad. but nothing.
so eventually when we met up, after like 1 hr later. i was angry. i threw my temper. he didnt pacify me n shouted at me. i told him to get off my car n drove off.
when im home, i msn him, call him; no answer at all. What have i done to deserve him. He is so poor, but i jus tell myself to tolerate. when he grads, den it'd be ok. We dun do stuffs my other couples do cos he is so poor.
but after tolerating his poor-ness, he cant even do something nice for me on this special day. i'm very sad.
I see the word "poor" mentioned 4 times.
No less.
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LOL... quite funny.. haha.. buts its the tooth and nothing but the toothOriginally posted by charlize:This relationship is doomed to failure.
I see the word "poor" mentioned 4 times.
No less.
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2 years liao .... must have something good going on to last for so long mah ...Originally posted by charlize:This relationship is doomed to failure.
I see the word "poor" mentioned 4 times.
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I see that he is really poor...but i think poor is not why u are so upset....you are so upset on why he is so neglecting ur feelings,am i right?
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ya.... cos i think the way i treat him, ren the situation.. doesn't deserve his this kind of treatment....Originally posted by StarPuppy: I see that he is really poor...but i think poor is not why u are so upset....you are so upset on why he is so neglecting ur feelings,am i right?
Cheers
~+StarPuppy+~ 
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I will have to jump to his defence. U defintely can't put all ur commitment to $$$ only. He is still studying as said by u. Maybe he shld have apologise for being late but u shld look into his feeling as well coz shooing him of the car is a no no. Tink u shld sms and alpolgise for ur behaviour.
pat pat. put ur pride away.
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the day is not over yet.Originally posted by Steph84:today is me n my bf 2nd yr anniversary. we agreed to meet at 130pm after my lesson. in the end, at 130pm, he was still with his frens. very insincere n unthoughtful. esp on such a special day.
he is poor. no money. so i dun expect him to celebrate with me in a very extravagant way. but i was hoping for something prepared.. something that doesn't require money. maybe something like treat me nicer or wad. but nothing.
so eventually when we met up, after like 1 hr later. i was angry. i threw my temper. he didnt pacify me n shouted at me. i told him to get off my car n drove off.
when im home, i msn him, call him; no answer at all. What have i done to deserve him. He is so poor, but i jus tell myself to tolerate. when he grads, den it'd be ok. We dun do stuffs my other couples do cos he is so poor.
but after tolerating his poor-ness, he cant even do something nice for me on this special day. i'm very sad.
you want a date?
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I'm no psychic but the fact that she keeps harping on him being poor is a subconcious message that she thinks he is not good enough for her.
"Extravagent", " told him to get off my car" , " when he grads, den it'd be ok"
You don't need a PhD to know this relationship is based more on money than anything else.
Regardless of the Shit about her feelings. -
is it because he feels 'pei bu shang ni' ?
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its not based on money la pls. we do things that doesnt require alot of money. even watch movie oso very seldom.Originally posted by charlize:I'm no psychic but the fact that she keeps harping on him being poor is a subconcious message that she thinks he is not good enough for her.
"Extravagent", " told him to get off my car" , " when he grads, den it'd be ok"
You don't need a PhD to know this relationship is based more on money than anything else.
Regardless of the Shit about her feelings. -
My dear, you need to examine deeper then.Originally posted by Steph84:its not based on money la pls. we do things that doesnt require alot of money. even watch movie oso very seldom. -
examine wad???Originally posted by charlize:My dear, you need to examine deeper then. -
I think you need to question his motivation for being in this relationship with you.
Is it really because of love, companionship, or just to have you ferrying him around?
It is really really difficult to forget an anniversary day. To make matter worse, it is only the 2nd anniversary. -
i think he never forget.....Originally posted by Deportivo:I think you need to question his motivation for being in this relationship with you.
Is it really because of love, companionship, or just to have you ferrying him around?
It is really really difficult to forget an anniversary day. To make matter worse, it is only the 2nd anniversary. -
then you may be too hard on him. PMS?Originally posted by Steph84:i think he never forget..... -
he knows its the anni.. but nothing is done n forgot about our meeting... so i find it very bo xim. i feel i'm not on his mind at all.Originally posted by Deportivo:then you may be too hard on him. PMS? -
well..dont have to celeb aniv 2day if both cmi..can celebrate other time ma.
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oh yeah..look for money bags shade343..
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all i can say is.. the sex must/had better be good.
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cheeky fingers for you too.Originally posted by jOhO:all i can say is.. the sex must/had better be good.
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Why not in AA forum?You got waistline above 30??
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AA too flooded alreadyOriginally posted by stellazio:Why not in AA forum?You got waistline above 30??