She's torn betweent he both of you??Wah so she's giving him the chance too.. Jialat..Originally posted by kAdEn:i've been with her for 7-8 yrs le....
i know i've neglected her...and a few mths back i know she was seeing someone else. Knowing that she was just lonely and needed to talk to someone i let her be because i trusted her...i know she would be make the sensible decisions.
And suddenly she told me that guy ask her for a chance! And now she's torn between the both of us...this guy is just so....i can't find a word to describe her. Nothing has happened between us, but this guy just doesn't want to back off!
And DO NOT ABUSE my gf in this topic. She's faithful to me and it hurts me just to see her so upset.
She doesn't knows what to do, because she feels that the guy could provider her with the attention that she wants...but she at the same time, she can't bear to leave me becos she can't see herself doing that....Originally posted by stellazio:She's torn betweent he both of you??Wah so she's giving him the chance too.. Jialat..
Well go win her back..Afterall you neglected her,now show it to her that you still love her..If she's moved,she'll tell the guy to get lost and out of her sight..Originally posted by kAdEn:She doesn't knows what to do, because she feels that the guy could provider her with the attention that she wants...but she at the same time, she can't bear to leave me becos she can't see herself doing that....
I know....Originally posted by stellazio:Well go win her back..Afterall you neglected her,now show it to her that you still love her..If she's moved,she'll tell the guy to get lost and out of her sight..
Sure the decision is her's,however your effort in loving her will definitely affect her decision..Anyway i wish you all the best..But if you don't try,den i think you're gonna fail..If you love her,now's the time to show it..She still has feelings for you thats without doubt..Originally posted by kAdEn:I know....
sometimes it's not how much i do that will sway her decisions.
It's entirely up to her....i left the decision in her hands. I told her if she was to choose him, then the door to my heart will be forever closed.
I don't want to "force" her to choose me and then regret it.
Though i would really hate to see her go...sometimes letting go is better than forcefully holding on to something.
not really friendly with the other forumites, so i thought i'll just let off some steam here...Originally posted by stellazio:Wow Rhonda would be pleased to hear that Club30 has become another AA..
Yeap i think she's quite experienced in this matter..Afterall she's a lady..Anyway even if you want her to make her own decision,do at least make an effort..Originally posted by kAdEn:not really friendly with the other forumites, so i thought i'll just let off some steam here...
she'll prob post lots of info her tomorrow.
I did. Nothing spectacular. Just somethings i wouldn't do normally though...Originally posted by stellazio:Yeap i think she's quite experienced in this matter..Afterall she's a lady..Anyway even if you want her to make her own decision,do at least make an effort..
Good,continue..Originally posted by kAdEn:I did. Nothing spectacular. Just somethings i wouldn't do normally though...
He said liao ma,he neglected her due to work commitments in the past 6 months..And the quote "absence makes the heart fonder" is sometimes debatable..Originally posted by rainee:a woman satisfied in her r/s wud never be seduced...simply cos she doesnt want to...
so if she is successfully seduced by another man, pls ask yourself what has been going wrong in ur r/s wif her...
xhmmx.. try to spend more time with your gf ba. how u gonna confort the guy? beat him up? the most u could only shoot abuse at him...if u beat him up..i could say u are at the losing end...Originally posted by kAdEn:i've been with her for 7-8 yrs le....
i know i've neglected her...and a few mths back i know she was seeing someone else. Knowing that she was just lonely and needed to talk to someone i let her be because i trusted her...i know she would be make the sensible decisions.
And suddenly she told me that guy ask her for a chance! And now she's torn between the both of us...this guy is just so....i can't find a word to describe him. Nothing has happened between us, but this guy just doesn't want to back off!
And DO NOT ABUSE my gf in this topic. She's faithful to me and it hurts me just to see her so upset.
a girl is different from a guy....Originally posted by rainee:a woman satisfied in her r/s wud never be seduced...simply cos she doesnt want to...
so if she is successfully seduced by another man, pls ask yourself what has been going wrong in ur r/s wif her...
No leh..My gf not with me i sure go affair one..Originally posted by kAdEn:a girl is different from a guy....
Love to them is a feeling, that's why it changes....
but to a guy or maybe me, loving is a decision. We make it and we stick by it...
The guy is a working colleague. It's been a month le...and he's still trying to make her change towards him.Originally posted by zheshi:xhmmx.. try to spend more time with your gf ba. how u gonna confort the guy? beat him up? the most u could only shoot abuse at him...if u beat him up..i could say u are at the losing end...
The best is.. call your gf dun contact him anymore..give it a few week the guy will back off....
Read "to man, or maybe me"Originally posted by stellazio:No leh..My gf not with me i sure go affair one..
I think its you,cause it the perception of love varies from the individual..I just did a quiz today which said i was the type who likes to flirt around and one is never enough type of person..Siao liao..But great things always comes in pairs..Originally posted by kAdEn:Read "to man, or maybe me"