Originally posted by dragg:i doubt people still think of it that way. singles are more common than the married.
*runs out of the room*
Yup! Yup!!Originally posted by choco B:Hmm someone is trying very hard to make amends . lol!
Originally posted by Rhonda:![]()
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dragg, you stop running away!
I shall throw the same taunting question back at you... YOU are not getting any younger yourself. So, why are you still single?![]()
You forget, when you are attached, they'll talk behind your back and comment about your boyfriend / girlfriend!Originally posted by elindra:Poor draggy
Aiya if we live to please others, we'll never be happy
It's like when you are single it's
"When are you getting a boyfriend"
When you have a boyfriend
"When are you getting married"
When you are married
"When are you having kids"
And the list goes on
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YAH!!!! They couldn't say anything about Chris so they were commenting why can't I get a chinese guyOriginally posted by Rhonda:You forget, when you are attached, they'll talk behind your back and comment about your boyfriend / girlfriend!
Boyfriend not good enough... too ugly... has a good job... doesn't have a stable job... heard he's got quite a bad temper... etc etc.
It never ends!
That's why, donkey years ago, I quit from the post of 'People Pleaser'!![]()
Originally posted by elindra:YAH!!!! They couldn't say anything about Chris so they were commenting why can't I get a chinese guy
Well... I never knew that its a problem or pressure until now you mentioned.Originally posted by Rhonda:
Yo! Erijazz!! Say what you want leh! I don't really know what you're trying to say!![]()
Right on!!!Originally posted by Rhonda:
Then, if you had gotten a Chinese guy, they'd go, 'Is he Teochew / Hokkien / Cantonese? What does he work as? Will he be able to provide a comfortable life for you?' etc etc.![]()
Oddly enough, I don't think about it, until folks start to say what dragg just said to me, then I think inside, 'What the!!!'Originally posted by erijazz:Well... I never knew that its a problem or pressure until now you mentioned.
Or maybe becoz I'm a guy so even if there are, I'm juz being ignorant about it, the usual meHappy go lucky
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eh actually i thought you were the kind who would rather be attached given a choice..Originally posted by Rhonda:Oddly enough, I don't think about it, until folks start to say what dragg just said to me, then I think inside, 'What the!!!'
I don't care about what biological clock because I think I must be selectively deaf, and very blissfully so!
Some women seem to have biological clocks that 'ding-dong's as loud as London's Big Ben!![]()
My Malay colleagues have ever commented, 'You are no longer young already! Quickly get a boyfriend, settle down, get married and have kids!'
And I look at them and say, 'And that solves all your problems meh?? Or, if I remember the stories you've told, it seems to give you newer and more problems leh!'
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then, diam liao!
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Up till today, grandma STILL comments on my aunt's husband!Originally posted by elindra:Right on!!!
Therefore never be a people pleaser coz you can't please everyone and you end up being unhappy![]()