Happily Single and Unattached
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come to think of it, if you are not concerned about it why the reaction?
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WAHAHHAA like how my aunt is going on about my cousin's bf that he is not Teochew (he's cantonese) and that he is not Singaporean Chinese (He's from China) Nevermind that he is a scholar with a bright futureOriginally posted by Rhonda:Up till today, grandma STILL comments on my aunt's husband!
They've been married like forever liao and their kids are in their early 20's and she's STILL talking about my uncle like they're still dating!
She hiams that he's not Hokkien / Teochew, then she hiams that he's got awful dentures, and then she says he's 'san bor ngeow'! (She's quite eeevil! 
) And then, she dislikes how he has bowel movements right after a meal!
See, there's really no end to it!
She even told me once, to marry a Hokkien / Teochew and make sure he has good teeth and no asthma so that our kids will be healthy and I was
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Really meh?Originally posted by dragg:frankly i only meant to pull your leg when i suggested it.
i did not expect the big reaction.
now i know.....
I was born yesterday... but not YESTERDAY yesterday!
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You want to know why?Originally posted by dragg:come to think of it, if you are not concerned about it why the reaction?
Because I cannot stand busybodies like you making comments like that because it's MY personal life and you have NO RIGHT to intrude on my privacy and question my choices, especially since you definitely aren't talking to me in the capacity as a close friend who's genuinely concerned!
THAT IS WHY!!
Now, you understand?! -
You're scaring draggy away RhondaOriginally posted by Rhonda:You want to know why?
Because I cannot stand busybodies like you making comments like that because it's MY personal life and you have NO RIGHT to intrude on my privacy and question my choices, especially since you definitely aren't talking to me in the capacity as a close friend who's genuinely concerned!
THAT IS WHY!!
Now, you understand?! -
I'll never have kids!!!
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You have never seen me running scared when a man comes on strong to me!Originally posted by stellazio:eh actually i thought you were the kind who would rather be attached given a choice..
Close friends give me this nickname that they tease me about - 'Runaway Mare'.
And there are good reasons why they call me that!
When the guy's lukewarm, he's 'safe', so I can almost be ardent in my 'pursuit'. He's a 'safe bet'! -
Eh... why? How come? You're not Grade 4, ah?Originally posted by The man who was death:I'll never have kids!!! Oi, don't announce to the whole world so publicly leh!! -
Where there's an action, there's a reaction.Originally posted by elindra:You're scaring draggy away Rhonda
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frankly i think you are over-reacting.Originally posted by Rhonda:You want to know why?
Because I cannot stand busybodies like you making comments like that because it's MY personal life and you have NO RIGHT to intrude on my privacy and question my choices, especially since you definitely aren't talking to me in the capacity as a close friend who's genuinely concerned!
THAT IS WHY!!
Now, you understand?!
i am a single too. i face exactly the same type of questions and comments like those you mentioned. it is no big deal. why are you reacting so fiercely? even if you dont believe i meant it as a joke it is ok too. it is not necessary to say i am a busybody. and to say i am intruding into your privacy is even more ridiculous.
and FYI i have already apologised in the other thread.
now that i really do understand your mentality i will not even hazard a comment or reply to any of your postings. -
no lah!! i dun want anyone to go through what i've gone through as a kid.Originally posted by Rhonda:Eh... why? How come? You're not Grade 4, ah? Oi, don't announce to the whole world so publicly leh!!
kids are evil!!
aunties makes good friends!! -
Up to you! We're each entitled to our own opinions.Originally posted by dragg:frankly i think you are over-reacting.
i am a single too. i face exactly the same type of questions and comments like those you mentioned. it is no big deal. why are you reacting so fiercely? even if you dont believe i meant it as a joke it is ok too. it is not necessary to say i am a busybody. and to say i am intruding into your privacy is even more ridiculous.
and FYI i have already apologised in the other thread.
now that i really do understand your mentality i will not even hazard a comment or reply to any of your postings.
Everytime you make a comment like that, you'll claim that it was a 'joke'.
What about that comment about nurses in that Chit Chat thread that you never thought I'd ever get to read? Was that also a 'joke'?
If so, you have a bad sense of humour.
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O RLY?Originally posted by Rhonda:You have never seen me running scared when a man comes on strong to me!
Close friends give me this nickname that they tease me about - 'Runaway Mare'.
And there are good reasons why they call me that!
When the guy's lukewarm, he's 'safe', so I can almost be ardent in my 'pursuit'. He's a 'safe bet'!
i actually though it was the opposite.. -
Yeah, stella...Originally posted by stellazio:O RLY?
i actually though it was the opposite.. You talk like you know me so well liddat! -
from what you always write about guys,it seems that way ma..Originally posted by Rhonda:Yeah, stella... You talk like you know me so well liddat! -
what would they ask u after u have kids?Originally posted by elindra:Poor draggy
Aiya if we live to please others, we'll never be happy
It's like when you are single it's
"When are you getting a boyfriend"
When you have a boyfriend
"When are you getting married"
When you are married
"When are you having kids"
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please lah. the comment about the nurse is something general. this is an open forum. whatever was posted are meant to be read. moreover you are the only nurse around. even if you dont read it someone might mention it to you.Originally posted by Rhonda:Up to you! We're each entitled to our own opinions.
Everytime you make a comment like that, you'll claim that it was a 'joke'.
What about that comment about nurses in that Chit Chat thread that you never thought I'd ever get to read? Was that also a 'joke'?
If so, you have a bad sense of humour.
you neednt take every comment so seriously.
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when is the next one coming?Originally posted by shinta:what would they ask u after u have kids? -
When are you having another oneOriginally posted by shinta:what would they ask u after u have kids? -
will they askOriginally posted by shinta:what would they ask u after u have kids?
"when are you gonna die?" -
Go to what school?? EM1 Or 2??Originally posted by shinta:what would they ask u after u have kids? -
Originally posted by dragg:please lah. the comment about the nurse is something general. this is an open forum. whatever was posted are meant to be read. moreover you are the only nurse around. even if you dont read it someone might mention it to you.
you neednt take every comment so seriously.
but like you said we are each entitled to our own opinions.
That's so easy, isn't it? Say nasty stuff, and then claim, 'Oh, it was a joke!'
And oh, I was just jesting when I called you a busybody too!
Do you believe me?
No, right?
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Originally posted by elindra:When are you having another one
You and stella are quick! -
Sometimes, a bit bored, so liven things up a bit by exaggerating things lor!Originally posted by stellazio:from what you always write about guys,it seems that way ma.. 
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Wah, this one can start a family feud!Originally posted by StarPuppy:will they ask
"when are you gonna die?"