Is it fair if...

• Hellraiza

  17 Dec 05, 01:52

  You like this girl. She has problems with her ex-bf. You console her, spend time with her. In time you develop feelings for her. Then she "show hand", tells you her ex-bf she been having problems with turns out to be her estranged husband. Since you're so smitten with her, you don't mind, and she says she doesn't mind too....until you call her one day and her husband answers. Is it fair to you? Or maybe anyone can explain what was the rational behind what the girl was thinking?
• KumSioJui

  17 Dec 05, 01:59

  How you got yourself entangled in such a mess.
  
  Of course she dun mind since she got nothing to lose. You have more to lose and she is playing wif you.
  
  She prolly using you to get her husband to give her more attention.
• the Bear

  17 Dec 05, 02:00

  walk away..
  
  life is never fair, was never fair, will never be fair..
  
  however, you can be...
  
  walk away...
• sacredspirits

  17 Dec 05, 02:01

  Originally posted by KumSioJui:
  
  She prolly using you to get her husband to give her more attention.[/b]

  i think so as well..... forget about her.... no point if her heart is not with u...
• Hellraiza

  17 Dec 05, 02:13

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  walk away..
  
  life is never fair, was never fair, will never be fair..
  
  however, you can be...
  
  walk away...

  LOL. you're right lah. Walking away is the ONLY thing i can do.
  
  But it totally sucks lah. Spent one week in an alcoholic stupor. I guess only today i finally woke up.
  
  Worst thing is her husband and i work at the same place.
• the Bear

  17 Dec 05, 02:15

  good for you
  
  be fair to yourself...
  
  and i hope you will be okay soon
  
  

  Originally posted by Hellraiza:

  LOL. you're right lah. Walking away is the ONLY thing i can do.
  
  But it totally sucks lah. Spent one week in an alcoholic stupor. I guess only today i finally woke up.