What attributes do you consider sexy in the opposite sex?
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Yeah... because each time I think of the sexy scent of certain men, I feel soooo HOT HOT HOT!! deep inside! I can even feel the colour rising to my cheeks now!Originally posted by Wanda:Still feel pai seh? After having posted so much liao...
Wei! NOT those cheeks! THESE cheeks!! *points to face! 
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how about lookin at guys so totally engrossed in their game?Originally posted by Rhonda:Hmm... I guess I meant men who take good care of their cars, not men who are freaked-out obsessed with their cars!
If I ever get a husband who loves his car waaaay more than me, he can jolly well sleep with his car!
It's sexy when you see a man being xi4 xing1 (engrossed) as he does his car maintenance / cleaning work.
I used to stand at my corridor on the 10th floor, looking down at my ex, hard at work on his car at the car park below, under the shade of a tree. I can look at him being intent at his task for ages!
Methinks, it's not so much the car... it's the level of intensity when a man's at work that's sexy...
Cuz I just recalled that I also love to see doctors carrying out medical procedures with total concentration! There's something sexy about watching a surgeon at work! -
That one too!Originally posted by shinta:how about lookin at guys so totally engrossed in their game?
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ne's very engrossed when it comes to gaming and shooting ppl who posts idiotic stuff in forums..Originally posted by Rhonda:That one too!
How you know?
he can't hear me most of the time when i talk to him... i need to do sth drastic like.... waving my hands in front of him.. sometimes walkin about btwn him n the tv...
but then, i'm like this too...
just talk louder than usual, my char will jump, and i touched sth i shouldn be touchin with hp that's too low and chooooooo bomb! my tombstone.. in maple -
Wah, Rhonda is sure getting very excited.
Too bad I don't fit any of your criteria, except for the broad shoulders part(from lots of swimming)..my ass is okay(also from lots of swimming), but the waistline is really not good(from lots of eating) .
Since we're on the topic,
My ideal char bor companian must have:
1. sense of humour. without this one can forget it liao
2. reasonably smart ( at least must be able to have an intelligent conversation with lar)
3. not the clingy/needy/whiny must report to her 3 times a day type
4. quite down to earth type, not materialistic (this one important because I not rich, don't make much money)
5. like animals
6. able to be independent and take care of herself, have her own hobbies and interests etc, and not have her whole whole revolve around one guy (see point 3)
7. be direct and to the point when communicating with me. please hor, I don't don't how to read minds, especially women's minds. if you have a problem with me, for the love of god tell me whats the problem. don't sulk and expect me to guess.
hard to find right? -
Simple guideline
1. Loves me and me loves her
2. Able to get along and become best friend even after the spark has faded. -
Hmm...Originally posted by av98m:Wah, Rhonda is sure getting very excited.
Too bad I don't fit any of your criteria, except for the broad shoulders part(from lots of swimming)..my ass is okay(also from lots of swimming), but the waistline is really not good(from lots of eating) .
Since we're on the topic,
My ideal char bor companian must have:
1. sense of humour. without this one can forget it liao
2. reasonably smart ( at least must be able to have an intelligent conversation with lar)
3. not the clingy/needy/whiny must report to her 3 times a day type
4. quite down to earth type, not materialistic (this one important because I not rich, don't make much money)
5. like animals
6. able to be independent and take care of herself, have her own hobbies and interests etc, and not have her whole whole revolve around one guy (see point 3)
7. be direct and to the point when communicating with me. please hor, I don't don't how to read minds, especially women's minds. if you have a problem with me, for the love of god tell me whats the problem. don't sulk and expect me to guess.
hard to find right?
Where got application form? Can apply?? -
Hmm... was it Wanda who suggested that a thread be started on attributes that we find unattractive in the opposite sex?
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Originally posted by Rhonda:Hmm...
Where got application form? Can apply?? 
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I fully agree with this one!Originally posted by DriftingGuy:Simple guideline
1. Loves me and me loves her
2. Able to get along and become best friend even after the spark has faded.
The spark cannot remain lit forever... in the Autumn and Winter of life, it's best if one discovers that one has actually married one's best friend. -
Haiz... kidding nia, ok!Originally posted by av98m:
Mai kia! Mai kia!! -
No lah, I know that I will fail your own application form alreadi you see....Originally posted by Rhonda:Haiz... kidding nia, ok!
Mai kia! Mai kia!! -
wah.Originally posted by Rhonda:Nope. I meant what I said... since he lavishes all his love on his car, he can sleep WITH the car!
actually, i wouldn't mind, if the car in question is a Lamborghini. -
Originally posted by HENG@:wah.
actually, i wouldn't mind, if the car in question is a Lamborghini.
Whoa... a huge appetite, I see! -
Since we're on the topic of appetites, a man with a hearty appetite is tres SEXXXXY!!
A hearty appetite for food, life, and ...
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lion open big mouth ahOriginally posted by Rhonda:
Whoa... a huge appetite, I see! -
hmm... i find it more sensual when the other person is more into psychological and physical intimacy instead of sexual intimacy. its complicatedOriginally posted by Rhonda:Since we're on the topic of appetites, a man with a hearty appetite is tres SEXXXXY!!
A hearty appetite for food, life, and ...
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Oh I forgot to mention
Other thing I find sexy and sweet is when he calls up to say
"Dinner is in the microwave dear" -
A good listener and comforter!
He mustn't be dismissive of my ideas or feelings. I definitely DO NOT take kindly to being trivialised!
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What's sexy is when he allows you to act like a little kitty in need of his loving attention when you've had a particularly bad day. He knows that eventually, you'll rise up and become a lioness again but in your moment of weakness / need, he lets you be a tad manja.
Like that, very very sexy!!! Cuz he allows you to be yourself! -
I find that smell is gosh darn important..
I'm not talking about Calvin Klein escape but with some guys all i can think about is the smell of them. -
somehow..girls with good english are appealing to me
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I like women who have dreams - dreams about what they want to do in life. The less ordinary, the better. A nice fragrance is also good to have.
I don't think the women here would find me sexy when I engrossed in drawing, PC football games or a kart race because I gape sometimes.
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wah... this thread really getting HOT!!
anyway... hmm... i summarised what i like in a man....
- physical attributes: strong hands.... nice butt.... and confidence in oneself actually affects the way u present to others!! a plain joe would b very sexy if he is confident in himself.... not yaya-papaya type... but just confidence in oneself and really got 'liao' in whatever he is confident of....
- non-physical 'requirement': must b able to accept me as what i am.... (DUN tell me to change for your sake... cos i know if i wan to, i will, but i will do it for myself... NOT for you!! hee.... )
of cos... if the guy is able to accept me as what i am and i m able to accept him as what he is... then wah.... ONz!
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compassion
strong maternal instincts
sincerity
courage
capable of blushing
who values my opinions
yet open to to candid discussion
is generous with gestures of affection
appreciates my reassurance