The unsexy attributes you'd rather not find in the opp. sex
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Okie, start the thread liao. List down the unsexy or other attributes that you would not like to find in your partner or the opposite sex.
Looks like I have to go first:
- smoking
- heavy drinking (social drinking is acceptable)
- MCP behaviour
- dislike for most animals
+ pluck his whiskers with 2 coins, and in public too!
+ greasy hair, and to a lesser extent, greasy face (very untouchable and unkissable)
(And that's for a start....will add more later).
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smoking
drinking
gambling
womanizing
MCP attitude -
Talking loudly into a cellphone in an otherwise quiet public place.
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Smoking
Drinking
Unshaved armpits
sitting with uncrossed legs(although sharon stone was quite sexy like this
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Bad breathe -
simi si MCP?
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Male chauvinist pig.Originally posted by yuko-ogura:simi si MCP? -
AAAaaahhh... thanks for starting this thread!
I list a few below... will add on to the list as and when inspiration hits!
- Smoking
- Heavy Drinking
- Hopeless Flirt
- Guys who like to string you along
- Poor personal hygiene
- Sloppy and unkempt
- No passion for anything in life; lukewarm about everything, including me!
- Bad English
- Being too narrow-minded, or too open-minded 
- MCP's
- Not a hearty eater
Hmm... so far, that's all I can think of! -
You just disqualified 99% of the world's male population.Originally posted by Rhonda:AAAaaahhh... thanks for starting this thread!
I list a few below... will add on to the list as and when inspiration hits!
- Smoking
- Heavy Drinking
- Hopeless Flirt
- Guys who like to string you along
- Poor personal hygiene
- Sloppy and unkempt
- No passion for anything in life; lukewarm about everything, including me!
- Bad English
- Being too narrow-minded, or too open-minded
- MCP's
- Not a hearty eater
Hmm... so far, that's all I can think of!
And yes, the remaining 1% could be gay. -
Originally posted by charlize:You just disqualified 99% of the world's male population.
And yes, the remaining 1% could be gay.
Darnit... you're right!! -
So you nothing against fat guys?Originally posted by Rhonda:AAAaaahhh... thanks for starting this thread!
I list a few below... will add on to the list as and when inspiration hits!
- Not a hearty eater
Hmm... so far, that's all I can think of!
Its interesting, I know someone who's wife is a nurse and she controls his diet like crazy! She tells him that after looking at so many sick people she does not want him to ever fall sick. So he is forced fed vitamins, forced to exercise, and forced to eat healthy! You should see his face when he manages to sneak out for char kuay teow! Tears in his eyes even! 
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Originally posted by charlize:You just disqualified 99% of the world's male population.
And yes, the remaining 1% could be gay. ........... -
Hmmmm unsexy attributes would be:
- Smoking
- Heavy Drinking
- Heavy Gambler
- Womanizer
- Guys who like to string you along
- Poor personal hygiene
- Sloppy and unkempt
- No passion for anything in life
- Being too narrow-minded
- MCP's
- Lack of dress sense
- Suffers from PME
- Lack of *clears throat* S-E-X drive -
Originally posted by elindra:Hmmmm unsexy attributes would be:
- Suffers from PME
- Lack of *clears throat* S-E-X drive
What's PME? (nevermind. I think I can guess. )
(makes note to do something about his lack of dress sense and piss poor grooming) -
my mom used to say, you will find either one or more of these traits in a man...it is either he smokes or he drinks or he gambles or he womanizes...
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Ok, ok.Originally posted by av98m: ...........
If it makes you happy, the remaining 1% IS gay. -
Nope. Depends though... morbidly obese, yes.Originally posted by av98m:So you nothing against fat guys?
Its interesting, I know someone who's wife is a nurse and she controls his diet like crazy! She tells him that after looking at so many sick people she does not want him to ever fall sick. So he is forced fed vitamins, forced to exercise, and forced to eat healthy! You should see his face when he manages to sneak out for char kuay teow! Tears in his eyes even!
Besides, as a nurse, I know that there are certain health conditions that DO add on the pounds for the afflicted. Not all fat people are fat because of overeating, y'know. I've seen poor patients gain weight like nobody's business due to hormonal meds and / or worsening health conditions.
I think that poor chap married a control freak! Whilst it's good to nudge one's spouse towards a healthier lifestyle, being over-controlling about it is a huge no-no and a big turn-off! Hasn't that nurse heard of folks who lead extremely healthy lives drop dead like flies suddenly?
When it's time to go, it's time to go...
I believe in doing one's best to adopt a healthy lifestyle but NOT to the extent of becoming obsessed over it! Happiness is, afterall, more important than anything else! -
Ooooh yes!! That one's a HUGE turn-off!!Originally posted by elindra:Hmmmm unsexy attributes would be:
- Lack of *clears throat* S-E-X drive -
Hanor! hanor! To give credit where credit is due though, this friend really looks much better after his marriage! Lost weight, gained some muscle even! Complexion also improved. Its like he married a personal trainer cum nutrionist!Originally posted by Rhonda:I think that poor chap married a control freak! Whilst it's good to nudge one's spouse towards a healthier lifestyle, being over-controlling about it is a huge no-no and a big turn-off! Hasn't that nurse heard of folks who lead extremely healthy lives drop dead like flies suddenly?
When it's time to go, it's time to go...
I believe in doing one's best to adopt a healthy lifestyle but NOT to the extent of becoming obsessed over it! Happiness is, afterall, more important than anything else! -
Men with a lack of dress sense and piss poor grooming are not beyond redemption!Originally posted by av98m:
What's PME? (nevermind. I think I can guess. )
(makes note to do something about his lack of dress sense and piss poor grooming)
BUT, they must be open to suggestions, and they must feel ok about the special girl in their life taking over as wardrobe mistress!
That's one of the lesser ills... can be salvaged one! In any case, most men dress better after they meet their girlfriends! -
Actually drinking and gambling in moderation is ok. What we mean is not excessively.Originally posted by rainee:my mom used to say, you will find either one or more of these traits in a man...it is either he smokes or he drinks or he gambles or he womanizes... -
My dad is a model husband... he indulges in none of the above vices, and he drives my mom around the island in search of good food, plus he does all the housework and insists she sits down and relax.Originally posted by rainee:my mom used to say, you will find either one or more of these traits in a man...it is either he smokes or he drinks or he gambles or he womanizes... -
yea, I don't mind if those are done occasionally, especially during the festive season. Cos I think I will be doing it as wellOriginally posted by elindra:Actually drinking and gambling in moderation is ok. What we mean is not excessively. -
Originally posted by Rhonda:My dad is a model husband... he indulges in none of the above vices, and he drives my mom around the island in search of good food, plus he does all the housework and insists she sits down and relax. Wah! Rare species! Your mother has impeccable taste in men!
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so luckyOriginally posted by Rhonda:My dad is a model husband... he indulges in none of the above vices, and he drives my mom around the island in search of good food, plus he does all the housework and insists she sits down and relax. -
Enough talk about men.
Lets move on to women:
1. whiny high maintenance types
2. clingy like koala bear types
3. insecure jealous types
4. coarse speech/behaviour
(I once saw this really sweet attractive looking girl with a really great body. I was totally turned on until she opened her mouth when she saw a friend coming and out came a string of hokkien, swear words and all! Completely lost interest after that! 
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5. smokes and drinks me under the table.
(in moderation is fine. but chainsmoking and getting smashed on a regular basis is a no no)