Can a guy be too nice?
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I guess when things fall apart, it's usually not the sole fault of just one party. Whilst the girl / guy can be blamed for being the 'bad girl/boy', the other party is also at fault for choosing that 'bad girl/boy' in the first place.
Basically, it takes two hands to clap - one may be bad, but the other made a bad decision in choosing a partner.
Back to the question... "Can a guy be too nice?"
Erm... nope!
There can always be room for more 'nice-ness'! 
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baby, yes...
the moment a guy is very nice, he'll be walked all over, taken for granted blah blah.. but there are exceptions
but most of the time, as you know, nice guys are not "exciting" and therefore overlooked.. they're wallflowers, and to be blunt, bad guys attract... the nice guy is... nice...
it was said that the ladies delude themselves that they can "change the bad dude" and make him a nice person for themselves... but their hearts are eventually broken.. they run to the nice guy, cry their guts out, then abandon him for the next bad dude that comes along...
(for that, some men are not immune to being attracted to the "bad girl" too)
the nice guy is there to be used as a cushion, as a friend.. he'll never be seen as a romantic partner..
but hey.. there are exceptions
here's the sad thing:
the woman tries and the bad guy actually changes, the woman then cries bitterly that he's not the man she fell in love with..
the woman tries and the bad guy doesn't change, the woman cries bitterly that he doesn't love her enough to change...
get a nice guy...
get me
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ever wondered how bad boys come about?
they got rejected by gals, got fed up of being nice guys, turn to be a bad guy...
the cycle just repeats itself...
conclusion? its the gals who "make" the bad guys -
When something bad happens to you, you have a choice in choosing how to react.Originally posted by mett:ever wondered how bad boys come about?
they got rejected by gals, got fed up of being nice guys, turn to be a bad guy...
the cycle just repeats itself...
conclusion? its the gals who "make" the bad guys
Not everyone who had been treated badly ends up a pai kia!
Some will end up appreciating the good girls.
So, whilst the bad girls should be rebuked for mistreating a nice guy, they aren't responsible for how the nice guy chooses to react to that mistreatment. -
A guy can be nice, loyal and principled, yet enjoy the excitements of life.Originally posted by av98m:I think some women see the so-called "bad boys" as a challenge. Maybe they're exciting to be with, just a bit rough around the edges. And the women delude themselves into thinking that they can change the person over time.
That being said, who says a person cannot be nice and yet interesting/exciting to be with? The stereotypical definition of "nice guy" seems to be that of a guy who's nice, caring, but boring. -
Originally posted by shinta:one man's meat is another man's poison.
what is good to u may not be good to others
ahahaha
isn't that..one man's rubbish is another men's treasure? -
i'm wonderin... how would nel be classified under?
good guy? bad guy? or?
cos i think he's under the good guy category.. but he seems more suitable under the bad guy category
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how can that be ..mr LLOriginally posted by LazerLordz:A guy can be nice, loyal and principled, yet enjoy the excitements of life. -
er... u can say that osoOriginally posted by blackchickenahkai:
isn't that..one man's rubbish is another men's treasure?
but thats mean. -
haha..too many copy rights infringements happeing..Originally posted by shinta:er... u can say that oso
just like this..
everycoin have 2 side..head and tail.dont see things only on one side..
a smart alex answered "joker's coin have one side only teacher" -
It depends on your definition of excitement..i don't need to be a playa to have excitement.Originally posted by blackchickenahkai:how can that be ..mr LL
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hey... i won't care if i'm the world's rubbish, as long as i'm Mrs Bear's treasureOriginally posted by blackchickenahkai:
isn't that..one man's rubbish is another men's treasure? -
* sniff sniff *Originally posted by LazerLordz:It depends on your definition of excitement..i don't need to be a playa to have excitement.
sinister remarks
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Nice Guys Fall in
Writes name down:
1.) Alex -
your nose just grew from 100 metres to 101 metresOriginally posted by alexkusu:Nice Guys Fall in
Writes name down:
1.) Alex -
admit it, u wana put ur name on the list as wellOriginally posted by the Bear:your nose just grew from 100 metres to 101 metres -
Originally posted by alexkusu:admit it, u wana put ur name on the list as well
bear's nose to be 200m?
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Originally posted by alexkusu:admit it, u wana put ur name on the list as well
me too -
so desperate meh?
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Originally posted by alexkusu:Nice Guys Fall in
Writes name down:
1.)dcx
2.)Alex -
knn....alphabetical order laaaa
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haha...write n white meh..Originally posted by LazerLordz:
me too
u deserved to be in the list too....nah -
Never state in the 1st place....i thought it's the most nicest guy on position 1....Originally posted by alexkusu:knn....alphabetical order laaaa -
Originally posted by alexkusu:knn....alphabetical order laaaa
alexkusu is kiasu!! Hey, it rhymes! -
why there's no bad guys list?
