Can a guy be too nice?
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Says who?Originally posted by the Bear:hey baby, cupid does his thing.. and we are helpless
We are the masters (and mistresses) of our own destinies!!
Now I can only wish I'm as brave as I sound.
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where have i heard that before?
in all but love.. for like The Bard wrote and Jessica said it so well in Merchant of Venice...
Love is blind
and lovers cannot see
the pretty follies they themselves commit
i confess, i was like that
but hey.. we can put on a brave front yah?Originally posted by BabyRS:Says who?
We are the masters (and mistresses) of our own destinies!!
Now I can only wish I'm as brave as I sound. -
hey why does nice girls imply "dead fish"Originally posted by Rhonda:PRECISELY!!!!
Mouth say one thing, but the 2nd brain only wakes up to another thing altogether!! 
i suppose the reverse then is true?
if so u better get 1 thats not so nice -
what trying to turn gay men?Originally posted by Rhonda:Sigh... depressing...
OK, maybe I'll explore erm... the 'alternative' options someday when I'm thoroughly frustrated!
tell please tell us how u do... -
Tsk! Tsk!!Originally posted by alexkusu:sigh~~~
i wish i could retort back to Rhonda's malicious comments, but I just couldnt
typical nice guy symptoms
That's not a nice guy symptom, you've got it wrong!
And malicious? Man, you don't know malicious, ok! My thermometer didn't even go up a notch today so whatever you construed as malicious, is probably due to you being over-sensitive.
And btw, being a nice guy does not equate to being over-sensitive! -
Story of my life so far, Kan_i... story of my life!Originally posted by Kan_i:hey why does nice girls imply "dead fish"
i suppose the reverse then is true?
if so u better get 1 thats not so nice 
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Not where love is concerned, we're not.Originally posted by BabyRS:Says who?
We are the masters (and mistresses) of our own destinies!!
Now I can only wish I'm as brave as I sound.
Whilst we can plan and plot and what-not, you can't exactly steer the path of love. All you can do is play your part well, and hope that the other party will reciprocate likewise.
In matters of love, we don't have total control... -
Originally posted by choco B:Hahaha would you guys actually object to a blond giving you a bootycall? *skeptical
*Clears throat angrily*Originally posted by blackchickenahkai:as the saying goes..
blondes are dumb
no offence
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wow, so much hostility against me here
I hereby cease diplomatic relations with moderators of Club30 -
Originally posted by alexkusu:wow, so much hostility against me here
I hereby cease diplomatic relations with moderators of Club30
You really need to learn how to accept a cynical sense of humour. Life isn't a soft bed of roses... you've got to learn how to take the thorns too! Siiiigh... -
I dont need anyone else support. I am prepared to take action whenever necessary. Alexkusu cannot sit idle while moderators of club30 harbour weapons of mass gluttony and cynicismOriginally posted by Rhonda:
You really need to learn how to accept a cynical sense of humour. Life isn't a soft bed of roses... you've got to learn how to take the thorns too! Siiiigh... -
Admit it! You didn't realise it was a big joke with no malicious intent until I clarified it! And then, to save your face, you came out with this "I knew it all along" thang!Originally posted by alexkusu:I dont need anyone else support. I am prepared to take action whenever necessary. Alexkusu cannot sit idle while moderators of club30 harbour weapons of mass gluttony and cynicism -
erm.....rhonda...Originally posted by Rhonda:Admit it! You didn't realise it was a big joke with no malicious intent until I clarified it! And then, to save your face, you came out with this "I knew it all along" thang!
*looks around for bear to explain* -
well, hey.. you know.. if you can't stand the heat
btw, try not to take the moral high ground when all (you included) are mired in the muck of silliness
(hey baby.. have i been bad enough to attract your attention? )Originally posted by alexkusu:I dont need anyone else support. I am prepared to take action whenever necessary. Alexkusu cannot sit idle while moderators of club30 harbour weapons of mass gluttony and cynicism -
erm.....
*scratch head*
ermm.. -
Originally posted by the Bear:well, hey.. you know.. if you can't stand the heat
btw, try not to take the moral high ground when all (you included) are mired in the muck of silliness
(hey baby.. have i been bad enough to attract your attention? ) -
There you had to go reminding me....Originally posted by Rhonda:Not where love is concerned, we're not.
Whilst we can plan and plot and what-not, you can't exactly steer the path of love. All you can do is play your part well, and hope that the other party will reciprocate likewise.
In matters of love, we don't have total control...
Just when I was putting on a brave front and all.
I agree though. Maybe it'd be so much simpler if we could choose whom we fall in love with... then again, life would be so predictably boring.
Soooooooooo I'm a sucker for pain. Or used to be, anyhow. There isn't a guarantee that I won't ever be again, after all, who can say what lies in store?
Regardless - even if I could, I wouldn't trade what I've gone through for anything in the world. If anything else, they are what makes me who I am today.
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The heart has its reasons which reason knows not of.Originally posted by the Bear:where have i heard that before?
in all but love.. for like The Bard wrote and Jessica said it so well in Merchant of Venice...
Love is blind
and lovers cannot see
the pretty follies they themselves commit
i confess, i was like that
but hey.. we can put on a brave front yah?
~Blaise Pascal
...and such it has been, from time immemorial. -
to err is only human..
The hard part is the learning not to err and make the same mistake again.
Yet history often repeats itself.
And who decides whether one is good or bad?
u, me, god or the society? Whose view decides that?
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I also wanna cry!Originally posted by BabyRS:There you had to go reminding me....
Just when I was putting on a brave front and all.
I agree though. Maybe it'd be so much simpler if we could choose whom we fall in love with... then again, life would be so predictably boring.
Soooooooooo I'm a sucker for pain. Or used to be, anyhow. There isn't a guarantee that I won't ever be again, after all, who can say what lies in store?
Regardless - even if I could, I wouldn't trade what I've gone through for anything in the world. If anything else, they are what makes me who I am today. 
I've got an idea... let's hug each other and bawl! -
Originally posted by Rhonda:I also wanna cry!
I've got an idea... let's hug each other and bawl!
No More Tears(tm) -
oooooo... bad and shy too!! Had to type that in small print and all...Originally posted by the Bear:(hey baby.. have i been bad enough to attract your attention? )
Potent Combination, some might say. -
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well, it's not worked so far
Originally posted by BabyRS:
oooooo... bad and [b]shy too!! Had to type that in small print and all...
Potent Combination, some might say. [/b] -
U think so?what makes u think after u had all ur Fun u shld get together wif a nice guy..Originally posted by Rhonda:I've had my share of being with the bad guys too - guys who are extremely exciting and 'forbidden' and needless to say, disliked by my family and close friends!
The forbidden fruit tastes sweeter, what can I say?
It's not just nice guys who finish last, cause nice girls do finish last too!
Maybe, it's this need for 'challenge' in some of us. If someone is 'too nice' and 'too available', we tend to take that person for granted. However, if someone's touted as a 'difficult' catch, it might suddenly render that person extremely desirable, notwithstanding their bad boy or bad girl image, which, in these instances, can actually enhance their desirability because of the exciting challenge they become to people who love the thrill of the chase.
Hopefully, we get over this stage and move on wiser and become mellower and more mature. Sadly, some don't proceed beyond this stage!
If you're very restless, easily bored, and are always on the lookout for exciting, new stuff, you might find a nice guy/girl too boring, too predictable, too stifling, etc. However, if you're more or less a homebody sort who like the idea of a stable relationship with little to no nasty surprises, you'd go for the 'nice' peeps.
We go through stages of our life when we prefer different people and oh well, different strokes for different folks, as they say.
Me? I'm looking for a nice, decent guy I can hole up with and go on discovery vacations with, share interests with, and journey through life together, hand-in-hand. No more adrenaline-rush, bad boys liao! No more a teenager liao!
continue with ur bad boy out there
wth do u think ur r
nice guys arent there ffor u to cuddle n dump when u need em
Say ur not gonna ban me juz bcuz ur a mod