How do feel about gals asking guys to move heavy objects?

• Xcert

  2 Jun 06, 01:03

  Originally posted by Kan_i:

  Also would you guys feel comfortable letting them do this and just watching the antics without offering to help until asked

  normally I try to...unless I am busy or something...face pretty or not is another thing...its a fact that guys are physically stronger and since I am free...why not?
  
  
• elindra

  2 Jun 06, 09:40

  What about if you offer to help a girl and she says no thanks
• Croaking_Toad

  2 Jun 06, 10:35

  Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:

  -grumble- yaloh. I remember going to a hostel in UK with 4 floors no lift... and blardy hell.. the guys all queue up volunteer to take luggage up for the chio girls.. and poor me lug it up meself... sigh always like this one... -sniff-
  
  Anyway, I go trekking with a mixed group sometimes. While the load for the guys is often slightly heavier than the girls (average for guys - 17-18 kg, girls would be 15-16kg sometimes 13-14 depending on bodyweight), it generally evens out.
  
  It is funny though cos at the beginning of the course, you have to KEEP REMINDING the guys NOT to overload themselves (cos if you are strong, you really should standby for emergencies) and for the girls NOT to take it for granted that all heavy work shd be done by the guys, cos when the strongest one falls, all the weaker ones have to split the load - which is even WORSE. There was actually one time when one of the strongest guys had heat exhaustion and 1 guy 2 girls need to split his load - then they realised HOW MUCH MORE he's been carrying cos they just took it for granted.
  
  Anyway.. it is sweet though, if a guy offers to carry my supermarket basket for me. It only EVER happened once (before my hubby laaa) so sweet

  You trying to tell us you not chio izzzit??????
• choco B

  2 Jun 06, 10:39

  I think being a girl has some privileges lah but with any privilege it's best not to abuse it, after all these are favours done out of someone else's goodwill. Use it too often and it becomes a major turn-off.
• ShrodingersCat

  2 Jun 06, 22:36

  Originally posted by Croaking_Toad:

  You trying to tell us you not chio izzzit??????

  hurhurhur yalohhh... bobian.. no chio need to be more independent
• BadzMaro

  2 Jun 06, 22:39

  I will feel..
  
  'USED N ABUSED'
• Gordonator

  2 Jun 06, 22:46

  if cute, of course i'll help. i can't bring myself to reject a cute girl.