What do u do after a break up?
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So he/she tells you, sorry it isn't you, it' me.
What do u do immediately after that?
1) Bawl your heart out
at home in ur bedroom
at the beach/reservoir etc
call ur friend immediately and bawl to ur friend at friend's house
or at cafeee
others
2) What sort of therapy do you do to occupy couple time?
a) start surfing the net a lot at home. Irc. Make new friends. U need to find someone new asap
b) start surfng the net a lot. Play games. Write sad blogs. Be nasty to others in forums.
c) retail therapy.
d) start doing OT all the time
e) suddenly immerse urself in all sorts of CCA.. volunteer work, old folks homes, courses...
etc etc just suggestions la above -
work
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cry.
cry.
then pretend everything is ok. -
cry where to who etc etc
pls elaborate leh.....on geographical factors as well hurhurhur -
why reservoir
all mutual breakups...so no specific geographical locations. -
cry to pillow.
then act as if it never happened.
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u know some people after break up.. they cry but dont cry at home one..
they will go to reservoir or beach or somethign sit there alone and cry ma...
so i asking where they cry... not where u break up... -
i'll probably just keep to myself.
i dont ever go to people whenever im upset or anything -
I think it really depends on how the break-up is like.....not been such a situation before but assuming that is the case I think I will call my friend immediately to talk about what a bastard he isOriginally posted by ShrodingersCat:So he/she tells you, sorry it isn't you, it' me.
What do u do immediately after that?
1) Bawl your heart out
at home in ur bedroom
at the beach/reservoir etc
call ur friend immediately and bawl to ur friend at friend's house
or at cafeee
others
2) What sort of therapy do you do to occupy couple time?
a) start surfing the net a lot at home. Irc. Make new friends. U need to find someone new asap
b) start surfng the net a lot. Play games. Write sad blogs. Be nasty to others in forums.
c) retail therapy.
d) start doing OT all the time
e) suddenly immerse urself in all sorts of CCA.. volunteer work, old folks homes, courses...
etc etc just suggestions la above and just play games
I don't think I will want to indulge in retail therapy coz that will just burn a hole in my pocket -
errr... daze abit lor. den back to normal in a jifty.
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have liao then tell u...
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1st time i cry, i drink, i drunk and i nvr 4get nor 4give.
2nd time i sad, i drink, i nt drunk and i 4give but nt 4get.
subsequently... numb liaoz... Kua Kui Liao Lor! 4give and 4get the very next hour! Its just another memory, no point sour it by adding tears, let it be a sweet part in my brain!
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Mope and cry in bed . And get really scary puffy eyes afterwards.
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Cry everyday for a week.
Then act nothing happened. -
go to the beach and do self-reflections
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I go for long jogs .....
I go fishing ....
I pack my backpack and go somewhere ....
but why this thread shro ? ... -
I splurge on gluttony sessions, and cry myself to sleep. Large amounts of alcohol will also be consumed.
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I have learnt that large amts of alcohol does nothing except cause terrible hangovers the next day in addition to heartache.Originally posted by av98m:I splurge on gluttony sessions, and cry myself to sleep. Large amounts of alcohol will also be consumed. -
The alcohol helps me to kock me out and put me to sleep you see. If not I'd have insomnia.Originally posted by Ferret:I have learnt that large amts of alcohol does nothing except cause terrible hangovers the next day in addition to heartache. -
Carry on with life as best as I can lor....!
Den wad, pump yrself full of anaesthesia izzit?
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Check for HIV and STDs in case he/she gives them to you unknowingly
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stay in my room doing nth or just hang out with my close friends..
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Cry myself a river, locking myself up in my apartment (heng, ah! Living alone so no need to face others!), staring blankly out the window, then cry again when I see loving couples walking past downstairs, watch TV and cry again when the screen couples are dating or worse, making out.
And then, when I have cried up a river so large I need a dam to hold it all in, I'll call up my close friend(s) and talk talk talk talk talk.
And after that, I'll talk to anyone and everyone who'll listen. BUT, if it really hurt me so much, I will just stick to talking about it with my close friends. Basically, the more it hurts, the less I'll talk about it or the more selective I will be over who I confide in.
I did odd things before too... like visiting the Botanical Gardens alone, sitting at the water's edge, staring at the water surface. Or walking around Sentosa alone or just taking the monorail round and round and round the island... I used to spend hours in Van Kleef Aquarium but hmm... I guess now, if I suffer a breakup in Melbourne, there's the wonderful FishBowl in the Melbourne Aquarium where you can sit, be engulfed by the darkness and be lulled by the mesmerising music, and watch the large sea creatures swim around and around and around...
Oh well, I haven't had a relationship for a long time liao, which means, I have a Zero Probability for Breaking Up! -
Gluttony sessions... hmm... if it was a 'happy' breakup, as in I'm utterly relieved the whole fiasco is officially over, (read : I did the breaking upOriginally posted by av98m:I splurge on gluttony sessions, and cry myself to sleep. Large amounts of alcohol will also be consumed. ), then I will have a feast!
However, if it was an 'out of the blue' or 'gut-wrenchingly sad' kinda breakup, I'll totally lose my appetite and all interest in everything else and just lay in bed crying and whining.
So, whether I eat or not depends on what type of breakup it is. -
Gluttony sessions... hmm... if it was a 'happy' breakup, as in I'm utterly relieved the whole fiasco is officially over, (read : I did the breaking upOriginally posted by av98m:I splurge on gluttony sessions, and cry myself to sleep. Large amounts of alcohol will also be consumed. ), then I will have a feast!
However, if it was an 'out of the blue' or 'gut-wrenchingly sad' kinda breakup, I'll totally lose my appetite and all interest in everything else and just lay in bed crying and whining.
So, whether I eat or not depends on what type of breakup it is.