Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 20th Edition
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i think they take one look at stella and they'll tekan him anyway
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My SO is 5 yrs older than I amOriginally posted by Wanda:It's still ok to wait until 35.
If I have a kid at 35, he will be 40 by then -
Originally posted by the Bear:i think they take one look at stella and they'll tekan him anyway
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If I were you, my chief concern would be: who will be the main care-giver for the child?Originally posted by elindra:My SO is 5 yrs older than I am
If I have a kid at 35, he will be 40 by then
Not the domestic helper or nanny, I hope. -
Err that is a main concern too laOriginally posted by Wanda:If I were you, my chief concern would be: who will be the main care-giver for the child?
Not the domestic helper or nanny, I hope.
That was what I asked him
Domestic helpers are a nono
My mum is out of question too coz she is enjoying her new job and definately do not want to be stuck at home looking after her grand children
Now for my mother-in-law I am not too sure and seriously being the control freak I am, I will want my child to be taught my way. I really do not want any coddling of the kid at all. Plus my mother-in-law can barely speak english
Only way is one of us quit our jobs and right now we are not ready to downgrade our standard of living. -
It's a tough choice...Originally posted by elindra:Err that is a main concern too la
That was what I asked him
Domestic helpers are a nono
My mum is out of question too coz she is enjoying her new job and definately do not want to be stuck at home looking after her grand children
Now for my mother-in-law I am not too sure and seriously being the control freak I am, I will want my child to be taught my way. I really do not want any coddling of the kid at all. Plus my mother-in-law can barely speak english
Only way is one of us quit our jobs and right now we are not ready to downgrade our standard of living. -
YeahOriginally posted by Wanda:It's a tough choice...
Plus it is not like I'm crazy about kids
Kan_i's son freaked me out -
did you bash him
i need a haircut badly.. i hate having long unkempt hair
maybe i'll go tomorrow or wednesday... can sit for a while without major discomfort or pain already
Originally posted by elindra:Yeah
Plus it is not like I'm crazy about kids
Kan_i's son freaked me out -
No I did notOriginally posted by the Bear:did you bash him
i need a haircut badly.. i hate having long unkempt hair
maybe i'll go tomorrow or wednesday... can sit for a while without major discomfort or pain already
But just imagine going into a resturant and the kid freaks out coz there are no noodles and starts screaming at the top of his voice and we have to walk out
His kid looks cute but......
I told Kan_i his kid is wayyyy too spoilt
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the child will become a little Idi Amin... no noodles gets a freakout?
what about a freakout gets some serious punishment? -
No punishmentOriginally posted by the Bear:the child will become a little Idi Amin... no noodles gets a freakout?
what about a freakout gets some serious punishment?
Kan_i cannot even smack his kid coz his wife is a counsels abused kids and if he smacks his son his wife will actually report him for child abuse. Standing in a corner is abuse too. They only reason with the child.
I thought he only acts this way when I'm around till I compared notes with the rest of the guys -
that's stupid.. that case, the child will grow up to become like stella..
but seriously... someone should say that not teaching and not disciplining children constitutes child abuse.. because it is...Originally posted by elindra:No punishment
Kan_i cannot even smack his kid coz his wife is a counsels abused kids and if he smacks his son his wife will actually report him for child abuse. Standing in a corner is abuse too. They only reason with the child.
I thought he only acts this way when I'm around till I compared notes with the rest of the guys -
you need to be reported for verbal child abuse.Originally posted by the Bear:that's stupid.. that case, the child will grow up to become like stella..
but seriously... someone should say that not teaching and not disciplining children constitutes child abuse.. because it is... -
why? you think you still a child ah?
maybe mental ageOriginally posted by stellazio:you need to be reported for verbal child abuse. -
wonder what mobile phone av going to get?
he left his mobile in a taxi... -
Oh dearOriginally posted by the Bear:wonder what mobile phone av going to get?
he left his mobile in a taxi...
Hopefully the cab driver returns it to him -
nope.. 10 minutes after, he called the phone and it was already turned off..Originally posted by elindra:Oh dear
Hopefully the cab driver returns it to him -
NEA server crashed
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i have a confession to make...
i really enjoy watching Spongebob Squarepants
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Originally posted by the Bear:i have a confession to make...
i really enjoy watching Spongebob Squarepants -
in army, we didnt bother what uniformed group we joined
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don't mind stella.. he's just trying to keng..
like i said, they probably take one look at him and immediately tekan him... -
then army time will be jialatOriginally posted by the Bear:don't mind stella.. he's just trying to keng..
like i said, they probably take one look at him and immediately tekan him...
once aimed, forever aimed -
i think he might kena.. he says he's going to fake not knowing foot drill..
this type, no matter what, even if the instructors kena punished also they will risk punishment to tekan... -
one rule in army is not to act blur in front of instructors
they wont buy it, and you can do nothing abt it