ya lor.. those got the worst!Originally posted by shinta:yes!
actually not just singles... single mothers (unwed ones) got it bad also...
the mother got it bad jiu suan le..Originally posted by Ito_^:ya lor.. those got the worst!
Originally posted by av98m:The fucking cheebye gahmen just wants to punish single moms and singles.
How come the deadbeat dads are not punished?
I understand this position very well. I have alot of sympathy for single moms - whether widowed/divorced/out-of-marriage pregnancy etc. It is actually this issue which constantly reminds me why Singapore needs to develop a practice of equitable discretion.Originally posted by shinta:yes!
actually not just singles... single mothers (unwed ones) got it bad also...
Rubbish.Originally posted by rmyfrm:Singles - nah not really - objectively speaking, in all fairness, why should the govt be subsidizing your want of freedom. You don't have many liabilities/dependents - and you shouldn't - a large credit card bill on your part should not be offset by cheaper housing from the govt.
Families learn to survive on whatever they can afford. If you cannot live within your means as an individual, don't expect govt to use tax payers money to help you do so.
You have to draw the line between providing for those who deserve it, those who need it, and those who just want it.Originally posted by av98m:Rubbish.
This is social engineering by the gahmen, plain and simple.
The gahmen is simply out to penalise those who are single.Originally posted by rmyfrm:You have to draw the line between providing for those who deserve it, those who need it, and those who just want it.
Here's my 2 cents:-Originally posted by av98m:The gahmen is simply out to penalise those who are single.
In early 2000 HDB talked about cheap hdb flats under 30-60 years lease to alleviate this problem. This might be the panecea.Originally posted by Dounut:Lower the singles age to 30 years old is one thing. The other thing is, it takes an ordinary couple who don't earn lots of money, 20~30 years to finish paying off their loans for a cheaper direct HDB flat.
Singles will need to take a even longer time to & need more money to pay off the same amount of loan, is like 1 person paying for 2. On top of that, singles are not allow to buy subdised HDB direct, but from the resales market, which is even more expensive. Besides, it's an old flat.
Also, singles has to take loan from banks, and deprived from more affordable HDB loans ! !
Singles are also paying taxes, but where are we treated like a second class citizen in our own country ? ?
Fully agree! Singlehood is not viable for the growth of economy so why the candies? On the other hand, is someone doing enuf for those poor families (like the one killed on MRT track)?Originally posted by rmyfrm:I understand this position very well. I have alot of sympathy for single moms - whether widowed/divorced/out-of-marriage pregnancy etc. It is actually this issue which constantly reminds me why Singapore needs to develop a practice of equitable discretion.
Singles - nah not really - objectively speaking, in all fairness, why should the govt be subsidizing your want of freedom. You don't have many liabilities/dependents - and you shouldn't - a large credit card bill on your part should not be offset by cheaper housing from the govt.
Families learn to survive on whatever they can afford. If you cannot live within your means as an individual, don't expect govt to use tax payers money to help you do so.
how do you draw a line in the first place?Originally posted by rmyfrm:You have to draw the line between providing for those who deserve it, those who need it, and those who just want it.
that's a '$15,000-a-month' question if you get the drift..... we mere mortals couldn't possibly fathomOriginally posted by dragg:how do you draw a line in the first place?
X2Originally posted by fishiotherapy:Fully agree! Singlehood is not viable for the growth of economy so why the candies? On the other hand, is someone doing enuf for those poor families (like the one killed on MRT track)?
That's exactly what I meant by the govt should empower senior/supervising govt officers with equitable discretion.Originally posted by dragg:how do you draw a line in the first place?