Club 30's "Kill the Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 31st Edition
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it's nothing against cats this time ....Originally posted by Wanda:I know you hate cats, but cats don't do that sort of thing one hor.
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BTW Fatum, i think you're need in jetta's thread about beer.
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it's actually unhealthy tat a r/s stays the same status for too long. cos it have no destination, nothing to look forward to... technically 2 yrs is a good length for dating b4 marriage, long enuff to know enuff abt each other yet not too long to get boring and routine... then again it's just technical stuffs!Originally posted by elindra:I dunno
I don't think I would have stayed on with Mr Pinky Bear if he didn't marry me
Not because I'm desperate to get married
But because I get bored
Mr Pinky Bear knows that too that was why he proposed -
talking about stuff like this, there was this asswipe whose brother is in one of those high places... he used to be in our organisation.. no one knew what his job was but he was always seen walking around..
his projects were useless nonsensical crap in the intranet loosely termed "knowledge management" which the then-no.1 loved.. the no.1 was also a major-league bigtime tripod.. fricken promoted this asswipe so quickly we were all shocked..
this asswipe was seconded to another agency.. when it was time to come back, he saw this current no.1 who knew the asswipe for what he was.. an asswipe.. the asswipe refused to come back and got his brother to pull strings for him.. he's now in the other agency.. the no.1 supposedly told him in no uncertain terms that because he did that, as long as he is no.1, the asswipe will NEVER have a place back with us..
that being said, the asswipe went to SDU with an agenda.. to find a wife and he said it plainly.. after a few months, he was married...
we all kinda pity his wife
oh oh.. he resembles Grima Wormtongue.. really.. both in looks and in behaviourOriginally posted by av98m:The guy was known to be quite desperate to get married, even before he met the girl. Anyway, I hope it is
And from what I've seen, a long time spent in the dating period does not necessarily translate into sucessful marriage anyway
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If you like the girl you have to pursueOriginally posted by av98m:I dunno about you, but thats exactly why I'm single
Or there's something about me that repels women but don't know it
However, the next I see that attracts me, I'll be going all out. Since the my old approach is confirm 100% fail one.
Confirm one
If you let it develop the girl who treat u like a friend n later a brother
Trust me
That is after analysis of all my past relationships -
even a long time in marriage doesn't necessarily translate into a successful one lorOriginally posted by av98m:The guy was known to be quite desperate to get married, even before he met the girl. Anyway, I hope it is
And from what I've seen, a long time spent in the dating period does not necessarily translate into sucessful marriage anyway -
*perks up ! .....Originally posted by Wanda:BTW Fatum, i think you're need in jetta's thread about beer. 
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Actually I think it kinda rings trueOriginally posted by tare:it's actually unhealthy tat a r/s stays the same status for too long. cos it have no destination, nothing to look forward to... technically 2 yrs is a good length for dating b4 marriage, long enuff to know enuff abt each other yet not too long to get boring and routine... then again it's just technical stuffs!
In fact Mr Pinky Bear told me straight that if he didn't proposed, he feels that I will leave him if another guy showed interest in me
And you know what, that time when I thought about it
He's right
Yeah we dated for like 3 yrs -
The frikking problem is, how the fuck do I know if I like the girl without getting to know her better? That's my gripe against the "instant chase" strategy, but I've caved in to the fact that it's the only one with any chance of succeeding.Originally posted by elindra:If you like the girl you have to pursue
Confirm one
If you let it develop the girl who treat u like a friend n later a brother
Trust me
That is after analysis of all my past relationships 
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No kiddingOriginally posted by the Bear:talking about stuff like this, there was this asswipe whose brother is in one of those high places... he used to be in our organisation.. no one knew what his job was but he was always seen walking around..
his projects were useless nonsensical crap in the intranet loosely termed "knowledge management" which the then-no.1 loved.. the no.1 was also a major-league bigtime tripod.. fricken promoted this asswipe so quickly we were all shocked..
this asswipe was seconded to another agency.. when it was time to come back, he saw this current no.1 who knew the asswipe for what he was.. an asswipe.. the asswipe refused to come back and got his brother to pull strings for him.. he's now in the other agency.. the no.1 supposedly told him in no uncertain terms that because he did that, as long as he is no.1, the asswipe will NEVER have a place back with us..
that being said, the asswipe went to SDU with an agenda.. to find a wife and he said it plainly.. after a few months, he was married...
we all kinda pity his wife
oh oh.. he resembles Grima Wormtongue.. really.. both in looks and in behaviour
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that is true also, I only need to look around me friends and relatives for evidence of thatOriginally posted by tare:even a long time in marriage doesn't necessarily translate into a successful one lor -
really!
very very white like never seen sunlight.. always too friendly that you know is fake... always sucking up to the higher ranks.. usually for his own agenda..
in fact, us guys refer to him as Grima Wormtongue
guys being guys, we have lots of nicknames for everyone.. like The Sleaze, WC, Lao Hum (we don't even remember how this came about), Pui Eh...Originally posted by elindra:No kidding -
I dunnoOriginally posted by av98m:The frikking problem is, how the fuck do I know if I like the girl without getting to know her better? That's my gripe against the "instant chase" strategy, but I've caved in to the fact that it's the only one with any chance of succeeding.
Mr Pinky Bear used to have the same mentailty as you
But he said for some strange reason, when he saw me the first time,
he knew I was the one
so though he hardly know me he chased anyway -
I think for guys, it usually starts with a spark or a certain attraction at the beginning? For my SO, he said it was the look in my eyes the first time we met.Originally posted by av98m:The frikking problem is, how the fuck do I know if I like the girl without getting to know her better? That's my gripe against the "instant chase" strategy, but I've caved in to the fact that it's the only one with any chance of succeeding. -
Originally posted by the Bear:really!
very very white like never seen sunlight.. always too friendly that you know is fake... always sucking up to the higher ranks.. usually for his own agenda..
in fact, us guys refer to him as Grima Wormtongue
guys being guys, we have lots of nicknames for everyone.. like The Sleaze, WC, Lao Hum (we don't even remember how this came about), Pui Eh... -
You should casually date more girls and not commit or "chase" till you're sure you really really like her.Originally posted by av98m:The frikking problem is, how the fuck do I know if I like the girl without getting to know her better? That's my gripe against the "instant chase" strategy, but I've caved in to the fact that it's the only one with any chance of succeeding.
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Originally posted by the Bear:really!
very very white like never seen sunlight.. always too friendly that you know is fake... always sucking up to the higher ranks.. usually for his own agenda..
in fact, us guys refer to him as Grima Wormtongue
guys being guys, we have lots of nicknames for everyone.. like The Sleaze, WC, Lao Hum (we don't even remember how this came about), Pui Eh... -
Actually AV, why don't you join SDU or maybe Lunch Actually to get to know more girls ><
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if u end up as buddy, u'll just be someone we hang out and gossip with... even if we hang out ALOT, u'll just be a buddy...Originally posted by elindra:If you like the girl you have to pursue
Confirm one
If you let it develop the girl who treat u like a friend n later a brother
Trust me
That is after analysis of all my past relationships
if u bec like a brother.... seriously unless u r perverted, will you date your OWN sister? -
Because I'd rather castrate myself while having my tongue stapled to the table and treated with steak tenderizer?Originally posted by elindra:Actually AV, why don't you join SDU or maybe Lunch Actually to get to know more girls ><
*runs away* -
the couple from the gang at work, had the misfortune of buying a unit in the condo which Grima Wormtongue lives...
the guy almost called him "Grima" more than once when they ran into each other -
btu after marriage and have children its always the same status worOriginally posted by tare:it's actually unhealthy tat a r/s stays the same status for too long. cos it have no destination, nothing to look forward to... technically 2 yrs is a good length for dating b4 marriage, long enuff to know enuff abt each other yet not too long to get boring and routine... then again it's just technical stuffs! -
i think Tare just summarised the entire reason for my failures T_TOriginally posted by tare:if u end up as buddy, u'll just be someone we hang out and gossip with... even if we hang out ALOT, u'll just be a buddy...
if u bec like a brother.... seriously unless u r perverted, will you date your OWN sister? -
tongue stapled.. saw that happen in a "wrestling match" involving Necro Butcher
sorry.. got carried away by that imageOriginally posted by av98m:Because I'd rather castrate myself while having my tongue stapled to the table and treated with steak tenderizer? -
just go on a couple of casual dates, you should noe if u like the person enuff or not... instant chase actually will freak ppl out lor....Originally posted by Wanda:I think for guys, it usually starts with a spark or a certain attraction at the beginning? For my SO, he said it was the look in my eyes the first time we met.