Do you meet up with old / ex-classmates?
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I mean....especially for those who'd left school many donkey years ago?
My college mates are organising a meeting, and I haven't seen them in years! We had met up in the earlier years after we left school, but now, at least one of them have become a tai tai-cum-maid-slave, and for some others, the meeting has to be postponed until after their kids have their exams.
And I haven't met the uni classmates.
So do you meet up with them? And what happens when you meet up? Do you notice how much less hair or white hair the others now have?
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Erhmm I only keep in touch with a few close friends
None of which from Primary school -
actually i find meet up with old/ex classmates who are not very close, the scenarios during the meetup is cold & plainly to entertain the rest, by asking this & answering that... especially the moment when we jz rch the meetup point...
to conclude.. i m anti-social & i will try and escape to meetup any "not close" classmates. -
I have lost in touch with nearly all my friends except one or two I went to school with in Brunei since I came to Oz.
As for uni friends, I still meet up with a few of them (4 actually) every so often. It used to be once a month but most of us are married now so it's getting harder to do so.
Anyway, I am making a good effort to see one of my uni friends everyday - he's my hubby. -
That one not countedOriginally posted by honeymouse:I have lost in touch with nearly all my friends except one or two I went to school with in Brunei since I came to Oz.
As for uni friends, I still meet up with a few of them (4 actually) every so often. It used to be once a month but most of us are married now so it's getting harder to do so.
Anyway, I am making a good effort to see one of my uni friends everyday - he's my hubby. -
This is what I'm afraid of also...coz I'm not close to them and I think they will be talking about their kids and such...Originally posted by mystee:actually i find meet up with old/ex classmates who are not very close, the scenarios during the meetup is cold & plainly to entertain the rest, by asking this & answering that... especially the moment when we jz rch the meetup point...
to conclude.. i m anti-social & i will try and escape to meetup any "not close" classmates. -
Why not?Originally posted by elindra:That one not counted -
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primary sch frenz nia.. and some poly frenz..
there's this sec sch fren of mine... we'd start calling each other once every 2 years passed
didn notice that until we actually try to recall when was the last time we talked to each other..
she was the one who noticed it tho.. a proud mama of 2 b-e-a-u-tiful girls now
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ya... most likely they will..Originally posted by Wanda:This is what I'm afraid of also...coz I'm not close to them and I think they will be talking about their kids and such...
cos the topics will be basically...
kids, husbands, bf, works.... thats abt it i guess... so i usually i will jz try and find some excuses & not go... -
in my opinion, the work and work until you die lifestyle in sg simply don't permit that. everyone's so busy with the next phase of life after leaving school.
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ya, once a year, during CNY period
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Once a year is very good, but maybe the timing is to your disadvantage.Originally posted by Ah Cek:ya, once a year, during CNY period
We used to meet up during x'mas...until some of them started getting married, and then the yearly meet-up stopped.
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I totally lost touch.
meet on the street also will not recognise them that easily.
surprisingly, there is now number of classmates/schoolmates locating me thru friendster. -
was best man of friend i've known since Pri 2
when we meet up, all we do is talk nonsense and drink beer -
Good that you still have common things to talk about.Originally posted by the Bear:was best man of friend i've known since Pri 2
when we meet up, all we do is talk nonsense and drink beer
I remember a classmate from Sec school - we kept in touch regularly after we left sec school. Then I started working and she went to uni overseas. After she came back from her uni studies, I found that I can't talk to her with the same level of closeness, as I found her still a little childish whereas I've been working and see things a bit differently...it's a shame, really, but I guess people change. -
tats y some turn up some dinOriginally posted by Wanda:Once a year is very good, but maybe the timing is to your disadvantage.
We used to meet up during x'mas...until some of them started getting married, and then the yearly meet-up stopped.
but mahjong kaki all turn up
we've known for 23 years liao... -
I'm still in touch with a primary school mate ...... and my two blood brothers from secondary school are still in contact with me .....
I have lost contact with every single one of my poly classmates, mostly because all of the ones I hung out with have since turn into MLMers .... ironically, the only poly chaps I keep in contact with are the people from the ECAs, the student union, the council etc ... -
Very seldom...
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I meet my primary school girlfriend about 3 times a year. She's a mom-to-be now!
The other close schoolmates, well some have relocated, but we meet up when they come to visit. Others are lost by attrition -
now most of our gathering, they all bring their babies along. so cute!
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Ah Cek like babies.Originally posted by Ah Cek:now most of our gathering, they all bring their babies along. so cute! -
I have a primary school friend I meet regularly.
But... gatherings like these freak me out a bit.
I always feel a bit like the girl in the pervert boi's post.. - WA SHE SO FAT LIAO
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yea man. can squeeze their chubby cheeksOriginally posted by Wanda:Ah Cek like babies. -
going to meet up with my old secondary school mates tonite
it has been 6 years since i last seen them, some i had not seen them since graduation from secondary school, 12 years back