Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 46th Edition

• av98m

  3 Jul 07, 10:09

  Originally posted by elindra:

  
  Yeah
  If he told me initially that his idea is 3 I would have ran off
  
  One of my ex told me his dream is to have 4 kids
  i ran

  I rest my case.
  
  Learn fatum, learn.
• Wanda

  3 Jul 07, 10:11

  Originally posted by av98m:

  I rest my case.
  
  Learn fatum, learn.

  But if they go for marriage preparation course, the couple is supposed to discuss the major decisions, including the issue of kids...then how, if cannot agree?
  
  BTW, we didn't go for that course.
• Fatum

  3 Jul 07, 10:12

  
  well, dearling knows ... cos she asked, and I told ...
  
  she's still around ....
• the Bear

  3 Jul 07, 10:12

  Round 1... FIGHT!
  
  

  Originally posted by Wanda:

  But if they go for marriage preparation course, the couple is supposed to discuss the major decisions, including the issue of kids...then how, if cannot agree?

• av98m

  3 Jul 07, 10:14

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  well, dearling knows ... cos she asked, and I told ...
  
  she's still around ....

  she didn't run as far as she could?
  
  ahhh...........then you're very very lucky
• fudgester

  3 Jul 07, 10:14

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  comics have great 'planet destroyers'
  
  like fudgy put in, Galactus... we also have Unicron from The Transformers...
  
  

  I have the VCD of the 1986 Transformers animated movie.
• elindra

  3 Jul 07, 10:17

  Originally posted by Wanda:

  But if they go for marriage preparation course, the couple is supposed to discuss the major decisions, including the issue of kids...then how, if cannot agree?
  
  BTW, we didn't go for that course.

  We didn't go either
  My parents kept urging us to go
  But we felt that if we are going to put everything on the table now
  It kinda spoils the fun on what to expect and ironing it out together
  And Mr Pinky Bear said it is only for couples who are unsure about their relationship
• elindra

  3 Jul 07, 10:17

  Originally posted by av98m:

  she didn't run as far as she could?
  
  ahhh...........then you're very very lucky

  Maybe his dearling love kids
• Meia Gisborn

  3 Jul 07, 10:18

  Originally posted by Wanda:

  But if they go for marriage preparation course, the couple is supposed to discuss the major decisions, including the issue of kids...then how, if cannot agree?
  

  If the couple had sufficient foresight, they would have laid down all the terms and conditions of the marriage, including the desired number of children, in an ironclad prenuptial agreement.
  
• av98m

  3 Jul 07, 10:18

  Its going to be a fucking nightmare if I find a potential mrs av who really wants kids
• elindra

  3 Jul 07, 10:19

  Originally posted by Meia Gisborn:

  If the couple had sufficient foresight, they would have laid down all the terms and conditions of the marriage, including the desired number of children, in an ironclad prenuptial agreement.
  

  but that also spoils the fun out of it leh
  also I think people change and their views might change
• fudgester

  3 Jul 07, 10:20

  Originally posted by av98m:

  Its going to be a fucking nightmare if I find a potential mrs av who really wants kids

  You don't want to have little avs in the future?
• elindra

  3 Jul 07, 10:20

  Originally posted by av98m:

  Its going to be a fucking nightmare if I find a potential mrs av who really wants kids

  Maybe by the time you wanna sow yr seeds and reap the harvest
  
  
• the Bear

  3 Jul 07, 10:21

  i've got the movie on mkv format
  
  kinda cheesy after all these years
  
  

  Originally posted by fudgester:

  I have the VCD of the 1986 Transformers animated movie.

• av98m

  3 Jul 07, 10:21

  Originally posted by elindra:

  Maybe by the time you wanna sow yr seeds and reap the harvest
  
  

  I've been doing my sums and I figure if I had kids I'd possibly be collecting soft drink cans in my old age
  
  Besides, kids are environmentally unfriendly
• fudgester

  3 Jul 07, 10:22

  Originally posted by the Bear:

  i've got the movie on mkv format
  
  kinda cheesy after all these years
  
  

  Cheesy, maybe.
  
  But it brings back a lot of pleasant memories.
• elindra

  3 Jul 07, 10:24

  Originally posted by av98m:

  I've been doing my sums and I figure if I had kids I'd possibly be collecting soft drink cans in my old age
  
  Besides, kids are environmentally unfriendly

  Actually I did my sums and figured that too
  Especially if Mr Pinky Bear and me want to live our current lifestyle
  
  Not to mention the sacrifices -_-"
• the Bear

  3 Jul 07, 10:25

  going through some sites..
  
  i like this saying:
  
  A computer lets you make more mistakes faster than any invention in human history - with the possible exceptions of handguns and tequila.
  
  
• av98m

  3 Jul 07, 10:25

  Originally posted by elindra:

  Actually I did my sums and figured that too
  Especially if Mr Pinky Bear and me want to live our current lifestyle
  
  Not to mention the sacrifices -_-"

  less sleep, more frustration etc
  
  I look at families out at shopping centres and restaurants and other public places and the parents always look so stressed and unhappy
• Fatum

  3 Jul 07, 10:27

  
  I don't get it ... some janitors/security guards etc can raise 8 or 10 kids on a pittance ... and two working professionals can't afford to raise one kid ? ....
• elindra

  3 Jul 07, 10:27

  Originally posted by av98m:

  less sleep, more frustration etc
  
  I look at families out at shopping centres and restaurants and other public places and the parents always look so stressed and unhappy

  Yeah and the scary thing is that all my married friends are getting clucky and having babies
  
  Piangz they work very fast man
  
• Wanda

  3 Jul 07, 10:29

  Originally posted by av98m:

  Its going to be a fucking nightmare if I find a potential mrs av who really wants kids

  AV doesn't want kids?
• av98m

  3 Jul 07, 10:29

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  I don't get it ... some janitors/security guards etc can raise 8 or 10 kids on a pittance ... and two working professionals can't afford to raise one kid ? ....

  we have different lifestyle expectations
  
  Besides, as I've mentioned more than once, the world is going to hell in a handbasket and I do not want to bring new life into our environment. Somemore I do not want them to do national service and risk their lives defending foreigners. Think about it, what kind of world is going to be inherited by our future generations, given the way things are moving?
• elindra

  3 Jul 07, 10:30

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  I don't get it ... some janitors/security guards etc can raise 8 or 10 kids on a pittance ... and two working professionals can't afford to raise one kid ? ....

  That is coz they don't have all kinds of insurance to pay for
  They are also not tempted by WANTS like that new fishing reel or new leather bag or new camera
  They also dun say," Let's go eat at that new resturant today" or go on shopping sprees when they go overseas for biz (if they even get to go overseas)
  
  PS. Mr Pinky Bear is already making up a shopping list on 'Things To Buy' when I'm in the USA in Sept ><"
• the Bear

  3 Jul 07, 10:31

  yeah.. i know.. raise if one thing.. if you have a 3-room flat, you want to squeeze 3 or 4 children to a room?
  
  

  Originally posted by Fatum:

  I don't get it ... some janitors/security guards etc can raise 8 or 10 kids on a pittance ... and two working professionals can't afford to raise one kid ? ....