From Guesswork -> Buddies -> Guesswork?
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*ahem*
back to topic....
so far I haven't given up on platonic friends... i mean there are some occasions where platonic friendship developed into something else... and after that fell apart....
but so far for those cases, I'm still on talking terms with them... so it's back to platonic again...
of course, I wouldn't want to be stuck in trapped lift with them alone or stuck alone with them somewhere for a long time.... because sometimes I thought I can still feel some undercurrent tension and I definitely don't want to stir things up... esp when we have already moved on and each got our own bf/gf/ partners.... -
See the thing is the other party does not want things to be platonic againOriginally posted by KittynMeow:*ahem*
back to topic....
so far I haven't given up on platonic friends... i mean there are some occasions where platonic friendship developed into something else... and after that fell apart....
but so far for those cases, I'm still on talking terms with them... so it's back to platonic again...
of course, I wouldn't want to be stuck in trapped lift with them alone or stuck alone with them somewhere for a long time.... because sometimes I thought I can still feel some undercurrent tension and I definitely don't want to stir things up... esp when we have already moved on and each got our own bf/gf/ partners....
The ridiculas thing is that to communicate sometimes I have to go through HIS COUSIN
I guess the good thing is that we no longer live along the same stretch of road -
understandable... it's like to keep it platonic, there are now 101 terms and conditions attached to it..... haha
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Which seriously becomes like a business contractOriginally posted by KittynMeow:understandable... it's like to keep it platonic, there are now 101 terms and conditions attached to it..... haha
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wOopps.. so far no 'successful cases' yet huh?
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For it to be successful, the other party has to return the feelings lorOriginally posted by uniquelyme:wOopps.. so far no 'successful cases' yet huh?
Even if the other person sees you in a new light, that doesn't mean that they will have special feelings for u -
I'm thinking what is missing is the SEXUAL TENSION.
You know the spark and fizzle, uncomfortably hot under the collar itch in pants kind of feeling.
He/she's got to create an opportunity to get him/her alone, get him in a bit of a sexy situation. Flirt unabashedly. Show cleavage if you need to, now is not the time to be Miss Decorum. For guy, be extra chivalrous, show extra attention, make the next step e.g. hold her back to guide her etc, make her wonder " What's up with him? could it be....? "
Yaya once the fire gets going just let it burrrn...
Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:4. suddenly.. girl (or boy) realise EH! I like leh! then HOW?
cos the other party oredi treat like friend or buddy, may not consider as 'potential partner' already.
what can one party do to make the other party 'reconsider' again to like "EH! She not bad leh!"