Club 30's "Kill The Boredom Demon" Jive Pad, 63rd Edition
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Fatum, I like you and all, but I find this whole 'I only fuck women I don't want to marry' attitude reprehensible.Originally posted by Fatum:I've had situations where I found myself in "couplehood" the morning after .... it's... frightening ....
that's why I never ever ever do anything to wifey candidates ....
Perhaps this is the source of your recent bad karma. -
erm, dun think i'll be screwing her either
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banana
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actually it just means that a woman's rules and a man's rules are different.Originally posted by Fatum:no .... but I've had bad experiences ..... there are rules to the game, and if a woman isn't willing to play by the rules, then perhaps she shouldn't be playing at all ....
I've had situations where I found myself in "couplehood" the morning after .... it's... frightening ....
that's why I never ever ever do anything to wifey candidates ....
A man's rules says "hey she says no commitment. Let's have sex and get on with life!"
And women's rules says "ha! let's have sex and get on with the commitment! How can he resist my loving and giving ways?" <<-- often these women are deluded lah. But they exist and get hurt nevertheless. -
Ya man Fatum plus how do you knwo those women who you just had casual fun with all not be wifey material
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aiyah
wat's in a man n woman's life is all diff -
i dont like commitment
i mean, i may commit to u now but i may not in the future (what am i talking about anyway?)
so therefore i never had any
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Originally posted by kopiosatu:erm, dun think i'll be screwing her either
that's rare, but its great. -
it's not this AV ... and remember, that's long ago and far away ? .... I've been a good boy for a long long time .... and never with ex-dearling ....Originally posted by av98m:Fatum, I like you and all, but I find this whole 'I only fuck women I don't want to marry' attitude reprehensible.
Perhaps this is the source of your recent bad karma.
I didn't con anyone with any falsehoods to get them into bed ... I never pretend to want a long term relationship to get sex ... I'm not predatory in that sense at all ....
in such things, I think there are implicit rules to the "game" ... but some do treat it as a sort of ..... emotional blackmail ? ... -
as i've prob said b4 the stupid sg laws are so skewed towards women that we men could be in trouble too easilyOriginally posted by sbst275:I do meet into cases where the girls can threaten guys for unreasonable reasons -
it's true... not just woman, man alike... if u can't play by the rule, dun join the game...Originally posted by Fatum:no .... but I've had bad experiences ..... there are rules to the game, and if a woman isn't willing to play by the rules, then perhaps she shouldn't be playing at all ....
I've had situations where I found myself in "couplehood" the morning after .... it's... frightening ....
that's why I never ever ever do anything to wifey candidates ....
but i have tis theory abt guys only wanting ONS... 1st time prob the gal is high on alcohol/drugs, ur performance doesn't matter... but if go for 2nd time, she'll prob be sober tis time!
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well, its not like the women were conned. they went into it readily and willingly with no promises.Originally posted by av98m:Fatum, I like you and all, but I find this whole 'I only fuck women I don't want to marry' attitude reprehensible.
Perhaps this is the source of your recent bad karma. -
I think you don't understand that if a woman is really attracted to you, some would try ALL MEANS to change your heart.Originally posted by Fatum:it's not this AV ... and remember, that's long ago and far away ? .... I've been a good boy for a long long time .... and never with ex-dearling ....
I didn't con anyone with any falsehoods to get them into bed ... I never pretend to want a long term relationship to get sex ... I'm not predatory in that sense at all ....
in such things, I think there are implicit rules to the "game" ... but some do treat it as a sort of ..... emotional blackmail ? ...
Some even think that the fact you want to have sex with them means you are attracted at SOME level, therefore can't be that difficult right?
The only way you can play this game is to have sex with women that are COMPLETELY not attracted to you. Then they won't want to have sex with you, see?
heh heh heh. -
it's not the "act" per se ... but the circumstances of how we met ..... I don't think like : "awww, this woman jumped into bed with me, she's not wifey material" ....Originally posted by elindra:Ya man Fatum plus how do you knwo those women who you just had casual fun with all not be wifey material -
huh? realli ah?Originally posted by tare:but i have tis theory abt guys only wanting ONS... 1st time prob the gal is high on alcohol/drugs, ur performance doesn't matter... but if go for 2nd time, she'll prob be sober tis time! -
Originally posted by tare:it's true... not just woman, man alike... if u can't play by the rule, dun join the game...
but i have tis theory abt guys only wanting ONS... 1st time prob the gal is high on alcohol/drugs, ur performance doesn't matter... but if go for 2nd time, she'll prob be sober tis time! .... -
the problem is that women can change their minds after having sex. or they read your signals wrong.Originally posted by Fatum:it's not this AV ... and remember, that's long ago and far away ? .... I've been a good boy for a long long time .... and never with ex-dearling ....
I didn't con anyone with any falsehoods to get them into bed ... I never pretend to want a long term relationship to get sex ... I'm not predatory in that sense at all ....
in such things, I think there are implicit rules to the "game" ... but some do treat it as a sort of ..... emotional blackmail ? ...
I guess the solution is to keep your pants on eh -
That case I think ended up, friends couldn't be friends anymoreOriginally posted by hisoka:as i've prob said b4 the stupid sg laws are so skewed towards women that we men could be in trouble too easily -
*looks at fatum*Originally posted by tare:it's true... not just woman, man alike... if u can't play by the rule, dun join the game...
but i have tis theory abt guys only wanting ONS... 1st time prob the gal is high on alcohol/drugs, ur performance doesn't matter... but if go for 2nd time, she'll prob be sober tis time! -
it's impossible to tell ..... and I'd be the first to admit, I've hurt people before .... the last one especially .... that's why I've weaned myself from my notti ways ....Originally posted by ShrodingersCat:I think you don't understand that if a woman is really attracted to you, some would try ALL MEANS to change your heart.
Some even think that the fact you want to have sex with them means you are attracted at SOME level, therefore can't be that difficult right?
The only way you can play this game is to have sex with women that are COMPLETELY not attracted to you. Then they won't want to have sex with you, see?
heh heh heh.
I bore the guilt about the last one for a long long time before I heard that she got married to some other guy and just had a son .... I don't want to go through that again ..... -
Originally posted by av98m:Fatum, I like you and all, but I find this whole 'I only fuck women I don't want to marry' attitude reprehensible.
Perhaps this is the source of your recent bad karma.
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if the shoe fits, wear it!Originally posted by Fatum: ....